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Ok My Grammer is going to suck and My spelling and probly way I am going to explain,
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Okay I am 24 years old and I am dating Guy who is 28. Age is not a issues. Okay we been Datting for 3 Months in 3 weeks. Okay well One thing is that we do Like eachter and that we are in different world. one thing is that His Family and him started a church that is the Kunck off of Church of christ. Like for example they don't belive in celbarted christmass and Birthdays. and that they don't like Crosses and belive that Precher souldn't get paid. well he did say he don't agree everything that lady that he goes church with. all the time. there things she says about judgement day like she wouldn't want be side somone who not going heaven or that she not want be somone shoe who not going. I know that seem wrong.. way I see it I know that I don't want to judge.. and I KNow god wants us love and accpect Everyone. I mean guy I am dating let say his name is A, and sometime A and I have alot in command like we both live with our parents and we don't aurgueit and we seem be on same page of things. both like watch movies and going outside. and well thing we kinda when we make out we rub and I don't know about fingering I don't think it feel right to me. i am very small i can finger my self but it hurts when he tryi. thing is i know this sound werid but i odn't get excited. i gusse i am werid? or maybe i do think alot if it a sin to do sexual stuff. i mean he did say he odn't think a preacher make 2 people love eachter and that one of thing he not really ting. i know it good that someomone want to read the bible and work hard and he is nice. and i just worry that down the Road it not work out. and well i had dated one guy once and we best freinds and well thign is i wasn't in love with him. and i don't know if i am in love. i mean i like him alot and i would love him like God would. but not sure how i really feel about everytuing. becouse before I was little Lost where I am going. I dont drive and still live with my parents. I did had babysitting job now i am finish but i will everymonday becouse little child i used baby sit for is in preschool. I was teaching sign lanuage and being a Daddy and MOmmmy Helper to a family.
o and another thing. A he very talktaive. he like know alot things and he don't have like temper and dont get real mad. he seem have like laugh whhere he laugh at something maybe not funny. but i odn't think he mean to. we have good time talking about stuff and watching movies and he can be sweet guy. he just very cerous about alot things and hwat he hears what he need find in the bible what is right or wrong. okay so far this all i have to say. i am pretty much just talking from my heart and try to think what to say how i am feeling. i am not reallly done yet. but i have a feeling this getting to long for you all to read. hope there somone out there can help me and give me there option. thanks
Amanda
Your relationship sounds like its filled with a lot of good and healthy things. I come from a family with no faith but a friend introduced me to christianity about five years ago and i havent looked back since. Once i found the lord, i had to come to terms with how i wanted to live my life. As far as sexual relations goes, you have to decide exactly how far your willing to go before marriage and why. I choose i would keep my relationships open and only do things out of love. But you can make the choose to keep it strict and controlled. You have to power to make things what you want. If you dont agree with his families church, you dont have too. You can keep a strong relationship with him and agree to dissagree when it comes to certain issues. Like i said, relationships all need wiggle room and nothing will ever be perfect but i hope you can find peace in your situation. Good luck!
I'm aiming to loose weight by the summer, I've started to do sit-ups and a few other things a couple of times a week. But, my mum told me that its not my diet that I need to change. Just recently I've been eating more fruit though. So, I just want someone else's opinion about my diet?
Normally for breakfast, I don't have that much time in the mornings, I have either cereal or toast with a cup of tea. For lunch I have a sandwich, crisps and a nutri-grain bar. I have a variety of things for my dinners, from pizza, pasta, chicken veg and potatoes, curry (not very often). I have an apple or a banana as soon as I come in from school and maybe some grapes later on after dinner if I get hungry.
So, is this alright? Is it just exercise I need to concentrate on? I think maybe I need to make minor changes in my diet, but I'm not too sure? :/
Your diet sounds great, im a big diet and excerisize fan. I have the WII game system and i use the "fit" program everyday and it makes me jog, and do cardio without even knowing it because its so much fun. But if money is tight and you cant afford that, i would get into something fun, like playing football or basketball with friends. If your a person that likes to talk on the phone, everytime my phone rings, i answer and go outside and walk up and down my street until im done talking. Thats always a good motivation. I hope this helped, if you need anyother tips, feel free to ask! :)
it goes "take a look around pretty baby" you look so fine or something like that
please help =]
It could be Pretty Baby by Spin Doctor.
Hope this helped! :)
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i have this friend and as u might have read'ed in my last question she makes me talk and text this guy she likes i don't like him very much but hes okay he made up some lie about haven a girl friend so that i would stop asking if he liked her so now she says shes over him but now i got a bigger problem she thinks he likes me and that i like him i don't like him and im sure he likes her not me but one day when i was standing in the hall it was just me him and her she walked away cause she got a phone call and i was just standing there looking at her then out of nowhere i feel some one hold waist and go up to my ear and say excuse me i turn around and he smiled i just looked at him like wtf then he just walked away she saw that and now thinks i like him and that he likes me cause he only talks to her when i there and when there alone hes always like look at her and i just don't know what to do or say im sure he doesn't like and i dont like him i think
This is the time in your friendship where you have to sit her down and be completely honest and direct about the position your in. Tell her that you didnt want to talk to him in the first place and what he did was totally unexpected. If she is a real friend, she will understand and see your point with open eyes. I wish you the best of luck!
Anyone know where i can find music from Keeping up with the Kardashians episodes? (:
I'd try your local FYE store for the soundtrack. Goodluck! :)
Ive been friends with this girl for 6 years.She has always been so nice and really sweet..Then she like tunred into this rude thing..Like pushing people. Calling them names.And being a whore. She told me that all my friends hate me and i am not the girl to take that from people..So what do i do.Be like bye for good.Or what.Ive already sat down and talked to her. SHe still doesnt get it.& no one really likes her. SO yeh
This is one of those situations where you need to talk away before your self esteem gets too damaged to repair. Shes obviouisly not worthy to be your friend and maybe by you walking a way it will be red flag that shes doing something wrong.. people will change if they realize they need too. I wish you the best of luck, but just stay strong and push through this crisis!
Hi,
I'm asking this on behalf of a friend who is unsure of what to do.
He's getting a divorce from a woman who cheated on him and carried a baby for nine months saying it was his before kicking him out of their house and telling him it isn't.
The lawyer she hired is a pro bono lawyer and is putting a lot of pressure on him to sign a document before tomorrow at 3 PM.
There's nothing really to fight over, but he's concerned that the lawyer is not making things fair for him.
He makes about $15 an hour, works full time, and is being asked to pay $600 a month in child support plus half of medical and all court costs.
There's no property to fight over. He's been paying money to what they both agreed was fair for child support. He's still paying for a credit card debt she racked up since before they were married. He's been agreeing to pay it off just so his soon to be ex wouldn't pressure more money from him.
He doesn't mind paying money to his kids. He pays more now, but doing it yourself and being forced to on paper and so on makes it feel unfair to him.
I'm not looking to get in the middle (I know I am since I'm asking for advice), but I wanted some tips on if I might suggest calling lawyers or if this sounds fair and it isn't of any use to fight this. He doesn't want to stir the pot and pay more out for a lawyer when it won't do any good. Any tips from divorced dads on this case?
Would just like to get some outside opinions on this situation and maybe what to expect. Thanks!
I'm not a divoriced dad but my father is. It was really hard going through the divorice with my mom, and its never gonna be easy. But when my father finished paying out money to the expensive lawyer, he has paid more to him then he would have for the child support my mom originally wanted. Sometimes its best to go probono, sign the papers and move on with your life. He needs to realize how much its going to cost him to take any more action with this case. His wife was terrible for doing that to him and he needs to know that by hiring anyother lawyer its going to cause him more pain and prove that she wins in the end. Fight back by taking the easy way out and making life simple. Good luck!
Has anyone ever had a boyfriend or husband in the air force? What's it like?
I have a very good friend in the Air force and im also very close with his girlfriend. I know it is very rough but it is definately possible. He comes back into town and stays with her for a few days between shipments and he is allowed an army issued cell phone which he can use to call her a few times a week. If its true love, and meant to be, then it will be. I would pray on the situation and do your best to make it through. Good luck!