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Okay I am 24 years old and I am dating Guy who is 28. Age is not a issues. Okay we been Datting for 3 Months in 3 weeks. Okay well One thing is that we do Like eachter and that we are in different world. one thing is that His Family and him started a church that is the Kunck off of Church of christ. Like for example they don't belive in celbarted christmass and Birthdays. and that they don't like Crosses and belive that Precher souldn't get paid. well he did say he don't agree everything that lady that he goes church with. all the time. there things she says about judgement day like she wouldn't want be side somone who not going heaven or that she not want be somone shoe who not going. I know that seem wrong.. way I see it I know that I don't want to judge.. and I KNow god wants us love and accpect Everyone. I mean guy I am dating let say his name is A, and sometime A and I have alot in command like we both live with our parents and we don't aurgueit and we seem be on same page of things. both like watch movies and going outside. and well thing we kinda when we make out we rub and I don't know about fingering I don't think it feel right to me. i am very small i can finger my self but it hurts when he tryi. thing is i know this sound werid but i odn't get excited. i gusse i am werid? or maybe i do think alot if it a sin to do sexual stuff. i mean he did say he odn't think a preacher make 2 people love eachter and that one of thing he not really ting. i know it good that someomone want to read the bible and work hard and he is nice. and i just worry that down the Road it not work out. and well i had dated one guy once and we best freinds and well thign is i wasn't in love with him. and i don't know if i am in love. i mean i like him alot and i would love him like God would. but not sure how i really feel about everytuing. becouse before I was little Lost where I am going. I dont drive and still live with my parents. I did had babysitting job now i am finish but i will everymonday becouse little child i used baby sit for is in preschool. I was teaching sign lanuage and being a Daddy and MOmmmy Helper to a family.
o and another thing. A he very talktaive. he like know alot things and he don't have like temper and dont get real mad. he seem have like laugh whhere he laugh at something maybe not funny. but i odn't think he mean to. we have good time talking about stuff and watching movies and he can be sweet guy. he just very cerous about alot things and hwat he hears what he need find in the bible what is right or wrong. okay so far this all i have to say. i am pretty much just talking from my heart and try to think what to say how i am feeling. i am not reallly done yet. but i have a feeling this getting to long for you all to read. hope there somone out there can help me and give me there option. thanks
Amanda
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im not sure what your asking so im going to just give you my opinion.i think that your unsure about this guy so you want us to tell you what we think...to me it seems like your unsure if you like this person or not.you like him but your unsure if hes the one you want to be with for the rest of your life.your thin king too much about the situation.its not a bad thing to do because ofcourse you wnat whats best for you in the long run.
if this guy understands who you are and can forfill your needs and desires then there shouldnt be a problem.
i think the reason why hes not turning you on when he fingers you is because your unsure about him.your not sure if what your doing is right.you feel guilty thats why you dont feel pleasure out of it.
another reason could be because hes not doing it right.maybe hes putting two fingers instead of one causing you to feel pain.maybe he should try stimulating your clit which is above your pee whole...
if you dont want to be physical with him then you should tell him that you and him should wait alittle longer.
As for the religon...your with him.he said himself that he doesnt believe somethings about his beliefs so find out what he does believe and see if it works with what you believe in...at the need of the day you need to find out if his beliefs and values fit in with your own.if they dont then that in my opinion is a big problem
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Your relationship sounds like its filled with a lot of good and healthy things. I come from a family with no faith but a friend introduced me to christianity about five years ago and i havent looked back since. Once i found the lord, i had to come to terms with how i wanted to live my life. As far as sexual relations goes, you have to decide exactly how far your willing to go before marriage and why. I choose i would keep my relationships open and only do things out of love. But you can make the choose to keep it strict and controlled. You have to power to make things what you want. If you dont agree with his families church, you dont have too. You can keep a strong relationship with him and agree to dissagree when it comes to certain issues. Like i said, relationships all need wiggle room and nothing will ever be perfect but i hope you can find peace in your situation. Good luck!
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