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need help :/
so my and my boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up like 2 months ago. we hung out once like about a month after we broke up and everything went well, or so it seemed. he texted me and we were still good friends. i liked it. now he doesn't text me anymore and he rarely texts me back so i texted him saying "i need to ask you something" i want to ask him if were done being friends so i can just give up and move on with my life...problem is he didn't answer me. i know he loses his phone alot but i don't want to make myself seem desperate. i'm fine without a relationship with him but he still means something to me and i want to be friends and i want to know if i'm wasting my time...i don't just want to randomly stop talking to him cause that just brings awkwardness and i really don't want to do that. what should i do?
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Well I have this problem myself sometimes and I need to just remember what my mother always told me, "There's no need to be friends with your ex's when you have other friends." Remember that and it will be okay. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6-9 months(depends on how you look at it) who cheated on me the whole time, and he was pretty my first everything besides kiss. While we tried to be friends it wasn't working out easily. A month later, I moved on and I found someone better. You can too!
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I would just move on already don't wait for him. Think about you...BE SELFISH! If he isn't going to answer you back then just forget him. Its going to hurt I know but instead of hurting yourself by waiting near that phone to get an answer you could be doing something fun or hanging out with your friends. He's clearly just being a jerk...and as for "losing his phone" well theres a ton of excuses he could say to you. Its time you move on...and leave him behind.
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Just stop textin him and see if he still wants to be your friend because if he really does he'll text you and not ignore you
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Wait for him to text you back give him the benefit of the doubt he could be busy don't jump to conclusions so quickly or assume things seeing as you don't know the truth you have a right to know whether or not the two of you are still friends since your curious plus you were dating him at one point i don't think you'll make yourself seem desperate since your just wanting to know a simple question i also don't think your wasting your time i wouldn't give up on this seeing as your curious just be patient & wait probably a couple of days & if he doesn't still continue to wait(:
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