Me and this guy,joe have been talking for about a month. We chilled every weekend atleast once except this weekend.We chilled during the week too and at school he would accompany me to my locker ,to lunch,to class and kiss me before class.Friday we made plans but he told me his brother was coming down and it was his bro's birthday so he couldn't chill.He texted me the next day,just to talk but it wasn't for very long.Then he texted me again later that night just to talk as well.His brother left the next day but he told me he had a formal party to go to that night (which is true because another one of my friends was there and saw him) and so he couldn't chill but he said after the party ,he could hangout.He never called me after the party and it's been a whole day since he's texted me.Am I being crazy? I'll see him at school tomorrow for sure because I have a class with him.But is he just busy this weekend? or is he trying to brush me off?We were going so good and last weekend he told me he really liked me .Nothing bad happened between us either!Also,if he does continue to talk to me at school,should i confront him about it? or will he just think im nagging? I guess we aren't going out,so i don't really have the right to be mad but I'm worried!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? JustJessOx answered Tuesday January 19 2010, 12:56 pm: Hey there :)
ok I can relate to what your saying as im sure many girls on here can! classic guy really.
they get close to you then they get scared and start to distance them selves a little bit because they are usually afraid of commitment or clinginess or whatever,its totally normal it could be that he just wants time to him self for a while and youve nothing to worry about,just give him some space for like a week or so and wait for him to text you,still talk to him and stuff but let him make the plans so your making sure your not coming off pushy.
try not to worry yourself too much you could be reading too much into it i tend to do it aloot my self! over anaylise.
So id leave things for now see how they go if he continuodly starts to make plans i would say somethings up and you need to ask him is he avoiding you but not just yet as he might get a bit creeped.you know what guys are like lol
I hope that helped in anyway and I cleared some stuff up.
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Bronx7 answered Tuesday January 19 2010, 12:54 pm: He was just busy this weekend and you had proof.But you should comfront him about it and see whats good between ya 2.See if he wanna be with you if thats what you want 100% and know it.And no your not being crazy you like him n he likes you you have the right to act that way considering the fact you 2 been talking for a lil bit [ Bronx7's advice column | Ask Bronx7 A Question ]
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