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Living with my boyfriend
Okay Im a 19 year old female. I just moved in with my boyfriend (who still lives with his parents) in july and im pregnant. We live in a small town there is nothing to do and I dont know anybody here but his family. I dont work because there isnt any jobs around here and my boyfriend doesn't want me to because Im pregnant. He does work and his brothers go to school and everybody takes off everyday and im here at home by myself everyday with no car and nothing to do. I've been getting really depressed lately i cry for no reason and I think Im homesick. I miss my family but I don't want to hurt his feelings please help is it something i'll get over or am i depressed I don't want to be and i've heard it's not good for the baby..any advice will help thank you.
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If your homesick you must go home its best for you and the baby.He shuld understand that if he really loves you.And crying and stuff is normal its your moods switching around because your pregnant.But try just laying in warm water and cuddling with your boyfriend for now.It should help you a lot
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You have to think positive, you can't just sit at home all day doing nothing, come up with things to do. My advice, go for a walk, when you go for regualar walks (especially when prgnant) it can really help boost your confidence, self esteem and you 'pregnancy figure', maybe while you go on walks you'll meet some new people. Go for a walk into town and check out things that they have there, groups you can join or other new people to meet.
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Yes i do think it's something you'll get over try and think positively thinking negative will make the situation worst and you'll feel worst too while
your home alone try calling your family that will probably help with you being homesick girls who are pregnant experience mood swings and that could possliblity be making you feel depressed take deep breaths try and calm yourself down go outside and get some fresh air(:
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wel it up to what you want to do it your body mabee you need to be with your family or mabee you dont want to be with him any more or mabee your not ready to have the baby in this life time thier could be a lot of things going threw your mind. but for some advise il give you but it not mean advise thier adoptions you cna try or jsut go to college they pay for moms to be for that you no look it up on line try goin to chruch or somthing or just go back to your family you need to get out to you know.
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