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I'm Christina 25 years old I give very good advice when it becomes to being questions about being married,babys,pregnancy,abuse,career,adhd,depression,life,ect

Ive been through a lot in my life 14 years of counseling and sex therapy my life wasn't always perfect i was adopted by my grandmother as a child didn't find out til i was older my mother was living with us and she got away with things when i had my daughter at 20 I had no choice but give her to a family my mother was abusive to me yelling at me i was taking care of my grandmother but i was living at home i was engaged to be married but every thing didn't turn out right the man i loved lied to me so I had to change and not be life my family be mature move on and get away some family can be controlling that it can ruin your life that the best thing you can do get out get counseling I I graduated high school in 2003 and then i went to art school at art instruction school and dress making design i became a plus size model help from a friend I might have not had help in some ways of life but friends were the best in my life i looked at their life and that what i wanted my grandmother was just getting old when i reach a certain age my mother did drugs that one resin I left my sister were the same I wanted to to be their they wanted me to be like them well i did not want to be white trash so i toke some lady classes to be classy,graceful,independent this made me more of a women of my image and people like you when you have good manners good taste and can carry a conversation and can get along if you want to change you can god is one of the people that help me through every thing I might have had to give up on things but some times you have to make them better you might end up with nothing but along the way you get the things you need but things do not come free in life and you just cant sit their let in come to you. you have to get out and do it your self or you will not live the dream. god gave us all a talent live it do it become it never give up . my mother killed her self and overdosed on pill i was their and my grandmothers deathbed at least I seen her before it was time for her to go she was a good women she gave me good advice she and her husband owned a bar my grandmother was married twice but her first husband died then she was widowed and was poor then a man came in her life she lost her son at his age 13 my grandfather past away also but my grandmother was hard working women she would get work done if you didn't she could do any thing Im like her she didn't go to art school her dad wanted her to. but she got married instead well i did the art thing for her i got it from her her teaching me and showing me as a child as i will always love her never give up the people that showed you life and love its the main key to life I grew up having adhd still l have it to this day dosn't mean your dume it mean you got talent and you always have ideas running throw your head walt disney,the guy who mad charlie brown all had adhd woppie goldberg,mary kate and ashley,ect no ones is alone in some we we are the same but we all different image is nothing never compare you self to ant one be your self be healthy exercise eat healthy and you'll be happy thank you for reading this have a good day. my webpages myspace/ANNAIKA my email chrissibug@yahool.com

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I have a sadness in my heart and I don't know why I cant seem to feel more positive about myself. I wanna be a great mother to my children but fear I am not strong enough to endure all. I love them more than anything in the whole world but that just isn't enough I fear. I don't want to fail them as a mother, I want to be a better person for my partner and I feel lost because I am not happy with myself so how can I make someone else happy. I feel he does not want me anymore. I feel so judged and hate it. I am tired of being so anxious about everything I want peace of mind. Sometimes I want to just live in a bubble and never leave. Why do I feel this way? What is wrong with me? What are steps to improve myself for my family.I have no insurance and unable to seek professional help so I am turning to the web for any suggestions. Thanks

it look like your not getting time with your self mabee and your inpressing ever one else and sacerfice for other mabee it time that you did somthing for you. like get your nails odne od somthing new if you dont take care of you you not going to be happy, mabee you need a night with the girl night out with out kids some time mother need that men get to do so can women hope this helps.

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My friend's friend came to school today wearing something that I thought was just awesome! She looks so good it's not even funny and I want to look like that too! The problem is I'm not exactly sure what it's called or where I should go shopping for one I asked her but she doesn't really like me and she just told me they were called outerwear corsets.

Can somebody please tell me where I should go to buy an outerwear corset? Is it something I can buy without shopping online or do I have to go to a website? I have never seen one before in my entire life so I have no clue where I might get one.

Thank you for your help.

well thier sites im a pluz size model thier lots of site woth outer cosets probly better then what she had i seen ones with poka dot on them and every thing and roses fron the best people try thesesites i forgot my friens is a model for corsets she bigger then me aome make them for her but youo cna find them all over the internet http://www.hipsandcurves.com/plus-size-lingerie/p-10352-plus-size-pretty-in-pink-polka-dot-corset-corsets-bustiers.aspx
http://www.fredericks.com/ if your friends a bitch she dosnt like you she not a real perosn people that wear corset are nice people really she jsut a fake hun.

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Long story short
The boyfriend and i are sitting in our apartment hosting a small birthday party, about 6 people, drinking a pony keg being fairly quiet and just hanging out.
My room mates boyfriend (whom also lives there) decides he is going to invite 15 people over. They are very loud and obnoxiuos, i go out and tell them to shut the hell up. All of the sudden they all run to the parking lot get in a fight. Cops are called, everyone runs into the apartment. We are all minors so we lock the door and get down to be quiet. The police say "were going to bust down the door" (they can not) but this scares some dumb ass kid into hopping out the window. ALl the police jump in the window we get on the ground. They confiscate my marijuana, pipes and all that. But inorder to do this they had to dig through my closet. They were there for people, not bongs. They broke my closet doors, my bed supports, my organ. Turned the AC down to 55 witht the window wide open for my cats to jump out and a robber to come in. My roommates and I were all arrested got procuring possession and parafonelia. My father is getting me an amazing attorney, but id like to know what exactly i am facing here. i turn 19 in two weeks.

well if you have minor and your the adlut you can get in trouble for that, and the drugs and the noise it dosnt matter if you were in a car with a person if you didnt know thwy had weed on them you get in trouble if I were you move to the country were crap dosnt happen

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i want to travel to england, get a job and live there for about a year in my gap year but dont know where to start, anyone know anything about trav3elling and visas??!

http://www.sugardaddyclub.biz/english/index.htm

it going to cost alot try it never hurts

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Hey,

I have heard other girls talking about snm and I want to know what it means. Can anybody help me? I am not even sure if that is how it is spelled it sounds like S and M.

Thank you!

I am a submissve was raised in this life style it mean slave and master or submissive and master it a bond that a master and a slave but it takes years of train for a dom to br a dom and a sub to be a sub and should be at a legal age of 18 and if your new becarful because it not good to to rush i have herd of to many storys i have been in bdsm since i was 16 but i was submissve i wasnot a slave submissve have freedom. thier are many kinds of bdsm. daddy doms baby girl pony slaves.pets ect this roleplaying. people that have been a abused or thier dad wasnt in the picture come in to this lifestyle because of guidance the man takes care of his sub mind body and soul.it not good to play games in this life style and trust is the main key so mean it if you are.

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I just got involved in a relationship with an amazing guy. I've been dating him for about a month but I've known him since he was 17 and I was 10, currently I'm 19 and he's 25, almost 26. So far our relationship has been going very well and I'm really happy with him, I really do believe that I'm in love.
Only one problem, he's thinking about going away to college to earn his bachelor's in a year. The school that he wants to go to is in Florida and we're in New York, so I'm worried about the distance. Main reason for that is in my last relationship the guy that I was “dating” got stationed in Fort Benning, GA and I never got to see him, he also basically “dicked” me around the whole time. I'm worried about the same thing with this relationship, even though I know that this guy really truly cares about me and always has (he was my sister's best friend, and a close friend of mine for a long time before all of this began). My mom also isn't helping me at all, she makes remarks like, “he's going to find a new girlfriend in Florida,” and all this crap.
I really want to support him in his decision, he deserves that much. This is such an amazing opportunity for what he wants to do, if he gets in and things go according to plan. The school that he's thinking about going to is the third best video game designing school in the country, and this is his dream, and a lot of really big video game companies hire from them. I'm basically just worried about what this is going to do to my relationship with him, I really want to be with him for a LONG time and I know that it's also what he wants. I'm also going to miss him A LOT. How do I get over my fears, and learn to accept his decision, and support him? I have a year to digest all of this, but right now it's a really hard concept for me to “swallow.”

if he fare away your useing your hard work money on his what about your self thing a bout that.

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do guys date women who dont drive because they are too scared and they are unemployed due to being laid off of their job. im 29 by the way.

i dont drive I am a webcam model on line yes some people can be rude but if you date some jsut be truthful you just need some that can deal with it.

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is there a special diet that models follow? I mean is there an actual "model diet" or do they all just do their own thing to stay skinny? Thank you for answering my question! :-)

a model diet is exercising every day and eating right eat wheat and stay away from sugar and fating stuff Im a plus size model just work out 20 mins a day go for a run take it slow just stretch before working out or find a work out thats good for you.

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I live in a small town and there is only one shop that sells dresses. Now, I would like to have my promotion dress be different than everybody else's if at all possible in any way!

Can somebody tell me good places to shop for promotion dresses online? Maybe if I can find a really cute one I can order it and have it here in time. :-)

Thank you in advance!

debs.com just look it up hun

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how do I make myself squirt? My boyfriend really wants me to but I don't understand what I am doing wrong. I don't mean to be gross or anything but can only some girls do it or is there some special thing I need to do? Thank you!

Squirting...You Can Do It!
by dirtyjoe69©

Squirting...You Can Do It!

In most of my stories I mention how the women cum so hard it shoots out of their pussies. Not unlike a guy shooting ropes. It is all in the technique, and you can get there too. Whether you are a man who wants to see his lady just soak the hell out of the sheets or you're a woman who would like to experience total indescribable bliss. Then you should read on.

A long time ago when the wife and I first started dating, almost fourteen years, we were like any other couple just starting a relationship. We would fuck our brains out every chance we got! The kitchen, the bedroom, the living room it didn't really matter what room or what place, if we got a moment we took it. We thought our sex life was spectacular. Heck one night I remember ejaculating more than seven times. I couldn't begin to tell you how many she had. We loved it all; oral, different positions, tie up games, fun with food, and even ventured into the swinging scene. We would read erotic novels or go on the computer to Literotica to find hot stories then play out the scenes. We had tried just about anything "normal" (because normal is relative) two people could do with each other. She would give me mind blowing orgasms with her mouth, cunt, and ass. I would eat her pussy till she couldn't take anymore. Then one day we watched a movie, I can't really recall what one it was but anyway, in this movie it showed a technique for making the woman cum so hard that her cum would actually squirt right out of her pussy. And let me tell ya, the look on the girl's face when she was finished cumming was remarkable. It was a look of pure satisfaction. My wife asked me if I thought we should try the procedure and I said absolutely!

Now that you know how we started with the squirting, and let me tell you it is still a regular occurrence, let me explain how it is done! A pre-step to take before trying this method. MAKE SURE YOUR WOMAN (OR YOURSELF, LADIES) TAKE A LEAK BEFORE YOU START!! YOUR BLADDER MUST BE EMPTY. YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHY LATER ON.

STEP 1: Make sure your woman, (or yourself, ladies) is comfortable. Maybe a little wine, soft music, or perhaps a good erotic massage, it doesn't matter just as long as she (Or yourself, ladies) is completely relaxed.

STEP 2: Do what ever it is you usually do to make your woman (or yourself, ladies)have a nice normal orgasm.(If you have problems giving your woman a regular orgasm just skip right to STEP 4).

STEP 3: Make sure you keep making her feel very comfortable, it is key!

STEP 4: Start licking your woman's clit and slide two fingers deep in her cunt. If your woman has a slightly bigger box then increase the number of fingers being used.

STEP 5: Turn said fingers so that your palm is up facing you. Ladies if you are trying to do this yourself you should have your palm against your pubic bone then bend the wrist so it points away from your body. Almost like you are making a scoop.

STEP 6: Push your fingers toward the ceiling. Ladies you want to turn your wrist like you are trying to start a motorcycle.

STEP 7: Run your fingers along this "wall", feel for a small rough area. Believe it or not it kind of feels like a walnut. She (or you) will know the spot immediately.

STEP 8: Keep rubbing, increasing the speed and pressure as you do. Don't rub too hard or

too fast right off the start. Work up to it.

STEP 9: This is probably the most important one. When you do see your woman (or feel yourself) starting to get real excited, they might tell you to (or you might want to) stop because they feel like they are about to pee. Remind them they have no pee in their bladder (if you followed the pre-step!) and tell them to

JUST RELAX and let it GO!!!!!

STEP 10: Take cover because you are about to be showered upon. My wife has squirted over three feet in the air lying on her back!!

So there you have it, ladies and gentlemen, ten steps to oblivion. I forgot to mention one thing. TOWELS, TOWELS, TOWELS!! Or get a second set of sheets ready. And don't worry about doing extra laundry, it is totally worth it.

I can't promise this method will work for you but if you want to squirt and never have before why not give it a shot. We did and the shooting hasn't stopped since.

Cheers

Dirtyjoe69

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Hello (: In my drama class we are required to do a duo scene. My partner and I are both female, 17 years old, and we are having the most DIFFICULT time finding a scene. if ya'll could help that would be absolutely FANTASTIC! we dont have a preference to whether its a drama or comedy but it does need to be 8-10 minutes long from a full length contemporary play (1950-present day). and if you could... have lots of different choices for us to pick because we may have done that play before or someone else may be doing it. i know beggars cant be choosers but... im begging you!!!! HELPP! (: SO!! theather geeks.... drama nerds... band together and help us find a kick ass duo scene! pretty please? I LOVE YOU ALL!
xoxo fellow drama nerd :))

look up on line 5os drama short skits you have to learn to do tihngs your self you cant have people do work for you.

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Ok, here's the deal. I posted a question on here about a week ago but there's been some new developments. You can find it here: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=578710
However, you don't NEED to read it because I think you'll get what's going on anyhow. We good?

Well, a week and a day ago I had sex with a condom, but it broke in the middle. I would normally be scared, but I thought I was on my period because I was bleeding really lightly. Long story short, my "period" went away the day after. Now, I got this so-called "period" 4 days before I thought my period was supposed to come. Now I'm wondering if it was ovulation bleeding... I've had ovulation bleeding before a few times, but never this late in my cycle. It's now 4 days after I was supposed to get my real period and it hasn't come. No spotting or anything. I'm thinking I might be pregnant, especially If I was ovulating. What do you think? This brings me on to my next question:
I kind of want to be pregnant... I'm only 17 (almost 18, actually)but I'm in a really stable relationship with a guy I've gone out with for over a year and that I've known forever. I know teen pregnancy is extrordinarily hard on everyone involved but I feel almost... Ready. If I am pregnant, I already love this baby more than anything. Am I insane? Why do you guys think I'm thinking like this? Could I be forcing my body into thinking it's pregnant (like on Glee) because I want a baby so badly?

If I'm not pregnant, something's wrong... my period's never late... maybe it's just because I'm worrying/hoping so much?

This is really stressing my boyfriend out though. I haven't mentioned to him that I'd want to keep it and I'm pretty sure he'd want me to get an abortion. I'm 100% pro-choice but I could never live with aborting/adopting my own baby. He loves me and I know he's support my choice, but how can I calm him down a bit? I mean, we don't even know for sure yet... And I don't want to test until a week after I missed my period.

Ok, thanks for listening to these ramblings (I hadd a bit too mcuh coffee this morning) and thanks for giving me advice! xoxox

like what shw said

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my friend keeps trying to make me drink but i dont want to. what do i do?

dont hang out with her if she making you drink know one can make you do any thing you don't want to do.when your over the age of 21 that different but know one can hold you against your own will you just need to stick up for your self if its leadss to hanging out with her.

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A year ago I felt beautiful. It was the first time in my entire life that I actually felt beautiful. I had a boyfriend that thought I was the most beautiful girl in the universe. Since we've broken up, things have changed.

About a month ago I looked at my legs, a part of me which I had grown to adore, and saw these hideous limbs staring back at me. It was like overnight they had become fat and ghastly.

That's not even the worst part though.

Two weeks ago I swore I had started to lose weight. I knew I had been eating like half of what I would normally eat a day (I've just finished school and work starts later in the evening so I don't feel hungry till later and sometimes I'll only end up eating like two meals). I put on a skirt I had bought earlier in the month and it was a bit looser around me.

Anyway, over the weekend I went to a bar/club for the first time since I had just turned 18. I went with two girlfriends of mine. When I walked in my hair had been trashed by the rain but I still felt confident and happy. About two hours into the night after my friends had been picked up a few times and I hadn't even been looked at by a guy I still felt good because they were having a good time and I still love my ex boyfriend so I'm not looking for another guy at the moment.

Anyway, this guy who was sort of DJing came over to us and started having a conversation with my two friends. He didn't even look up at me, not even to just be polite. He completely avoided me at all costs. I just stood there awkwardly for like 15 minutes sipping my drink while he chatted them up. It really crushed me. When I go out I don't expect guys to look at me or pick me up, but I have never felt so insulted by someone before. It was like he gave one look at me and because I'm not attractive he just couldn't bare to look at me again. I'm not even overreacting, he didn't even bother to ask my name or greet me in any way, he knew I was with them since he had been watching us talk all night and because I was standing right next to them.

It wasn't that he was picking them up and not me, it was that he found me so disgusting he wouldn't even acknowledge me. I haven't been in a great place since me and my boyfriend have broken up, I just feel ugly and unwanted all the time, and that was just the final blow that has broken me a part.

It sounds so petty and ridiculous but it was just so humiliating and awful. He gave me this look when he first came over and I smiled at him, it was just this "why are you even looking at me" glare before he quickly avoided my eye contact and refused to look at me again. He even followed my friends downstairs when we had found a seat and kept going with their conversation without acknowledging me. I've never met someone who has been so horrible like that, other guys that knew a few friends of mine were there and they were polite enough to even just smile and wave or say hello when they were interested in my friends just out of common courtesy.

Since that night, I can't find anything pretty let alone beautiful about me. I can't imagine anyone ever thinking I'm beautiful again, and it hurts to know that. I feel like in a few short days I've gained all that weight back even though I haven't been eating more, my skirt is even tighter than it was now. Could the change in the way I see myself have changed my physical appearance?

I'm not really sure what I'm asking for with advice, I want to know how my body could have changed so much but then I want to know how guys can be so horribly cruel to women who aren't pretty? I want to know why guys have to be so repelled by me when I'm nothing but nice to them and a happy person. This was mostly because I feel so terribly upset right now and wish I could talk to someone about it.

Thank you to anyone who listened.

you pretty no matter what justgo to the gym you need to be cofedent in your self stop looking at the bad things do somthing for your self get your nails done join a club go to church do somthing.

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I just got photoshoppe and I edited some pictures. I try uploading them onto myspace, photobucket, and tinypic and they don't upload.

is there a way i can convert them so i can upload them to myspace, photobucket, and tinypic?

load them in paint and they will i have to do that or chage the photo info you no the words

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I need help in finding my Disney's Photo Pass pictures on photopass ID WDWB-6X3W-9Y3C-6C9N.

These pictures were taken on December 28, at the Magic Kingdom, and at Animal Kingdom on Dec 30.

Can anyone help me find the pictures. There were approx 15-20 photos.
Thanks,
Carolyn Gibbons
melcar@northrock.bm

just email disney i think they would keep the pic for you like when they take pic on rides just find the site were thier located and see if they can find it

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16/f, 17/m.
This will be my and my boyfriends 2nd valentines day together. Last year we went out for a meal, but this year I want to cook him dinner. But, I can't think of anything to cook! To start with I've decided on chocolate and strawberries and heart-shaped shortcake for dessert (it's our favourite to eat and to bake together). But what about the main meal!? I know how to cook spaghetti bolognese but I've cooked him that before. I don't really have much cooking experience but I can make anything as long as I have a recipe, I would find one myself but I honestly have no idea what to look for!
Another thing about valentines day, I just moved house a few months ago so my room isn't fully decorated. But I was thinking about in the evening, I can decorate my walls with like hearts and the words "I love you" written cut out from card across my wall, for when we come upstairs to watch films or something. Is there anything else I can do with my room to make it more romantic?
Any other ideas or suggestions for valentines day are appreciated :)

chicken and rice is the easyist thing make boil the rice for 10 mis put the chicken in a pan but put cooking spay leave chick but turn on other side till its brown color then when the other ones down take it off now with well first you want to leave the water in the pan with the rice put some salt in the pain dont put the rise in til you see bubbles hope this helps happy v-day

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i am 13 and i desperately need a way to make money. i don't have time to babysit and my parents won't pay me to do chores because i'm "already supposed to do that. it is my job as a teen..." i cant do these things because i am in integrated classes with lots of homework and i play sports...

i just saw a website called teenseyes.com where you fill out surveys for money. this is the perfect job for me because i'm obsessed with filling questionaires out.

what i need to know is if this is a reliable source. i dont care if it doesnt pay well because its just a little online job and i dont have bills so who cares? but i need to know if it is a scam or if it's the real deal.

do you think i should sign up for it?

thanks !

get a paper rotate thing that teens can do.

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Im about to switch my birth control to seasonale, and my doctor said most likely I wont experience breakthrough bleeding because Ive been on my other birthcontrol for a while. but she said to give seasonale 1 cycle (3months) first. I was wondering if anyone else has been on it, what were your side affects? I just dont want to gain weight. And is there effects of hair growth or hair loss? breast growth?

yes their is Hun best thing is ask your doctor what the right birth control for you yes their side affects it scare up s all if you don't like it have condoms OR SPERM SPRAY GET THEM AT THE pharmacy their over the counter.

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There was this guy I was together with for about a month. We're total opposites. He's a punk, class clown, partier and I'm a nerdy good girl. His friends said he liked me, and he always did little things that showed that he cared about me. Even though it was only a month, he really opened up to me and I saw a more mature, serious side of him that most people don't see. Then, he told me that he didn't want a serious relationship. He said that he once had really liked me and he wanted a serious relationship, but it just didn't feel right and he changed his mind. I talked to him about it and I could see where he was coming from. He was in one before and got hurt, and he said it wasn't my fault However, he said "I have a lot of girls that want me and I'm not sure if I wanna give it up" It sounds shallow, but he has said things that contradict it. He doesn't like slutty girls and he said that's one of the reasons why he was drawn to me. At first he still would wave to me in the hallways, but he always looks at me like he's scared. Then, I found out that he's going to a sophomore dance with some slutty girl and he's been hanging out with these easy sophomore girls. He's a senior and I'm a junior. I just don't why he's doing this. He doesn't want a relationship yet he wants to hook up with some slut but he doesn't like sluts. Right now, we're on good terms but I don't know if I should still be friends with him.

hun just worry your in school you knows what the nerds become something the sluts end up pregnant still living with mommy daddy. their will be a guy that will like you some day just worry about going to school having fun with friends,never change just to get that guy yes being pretty might be one thing it how you take care of yourself trust me the slut girl probably got rumors how many people she slept with see diseases for one thing and spreading her legs not to be mean put your head UP HIGH YOU KNOW who YOU ARE.he probly doesn't like her he just showing off men can lie to.hope this helps

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