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Q: I have a lump in my right armpit. It doesn't feel like the right one. It hurts when i touch it. And it isn't discolored at all. I'm not positive what it is. I looked it up, and it said it COULD be breast cancer.
Does anyone know what this could be?
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it could also just be a swollen lymph node. this explains all about them http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/003099.htm
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Q: hey. my name is evan. im 15 years old and a freshman in high school. i have been diagnosed with malignant melanoma which is a skin cancer for the 2nd time. im tired of trying to keep the secret that im sick again. im gonna do chemo this summer but i feel like im gonna burst if i dont tell my friends. my parents said not to cause i already get made fun of alot and i dont wanna get teased about this. what should i do? should i tell my friends or keep the secret like my parents want. i just feel like i need to talk to someone. thanks for the help.
~evan n
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iv had the same type of cancer for a long time actually. im sorry to hear its back though for you, stay strong youl do great :) .i say you should not tell many though, only tell two or three, your absolute closest. im in a very close group of friends and only three of the 9 know only because i dont want anyone to feel bad for me becuase i say i am fine. but if you like you can tell four but dont let them tell others. have your best friend or so for support and youl be set. friends always give the best advice. tell your most understanding one who knows you the best, who swears not to tell anyone and ask him what you should do since he knows you. good luck, hope all goes well :)
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Q: Hi, I am a little worried about my keets!
I have two, had em fora few months now. and one just grew her wings back (when I got her they were clipped) and flies high up..it makes me happy she has the freedom to fly around in my room with a high ceiling, however, when I let her out of the cage, she will run into walls...why is this..????
Another point of concern, the male only has one noticeably long feather, the other is gone, so he cant fly high up like he used to!!! Makes me sad..:(
How long will it take to grow back? Will it grow back?? I just need to be informed about feathers...
I spend time with them, I give them toys, I have them seperated into two cages (set right by each other for when I train them) but when I'm not training them, I let them play/stay in same cage with each other....
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keep birds' wings clipped unless you want them flying away especially if he is very off balanced keep the feathers clipped until it grows fully back. they shed their feathers and grow back naturally and it will. eventually they will learn to fly away from walls its just because their young hopefully :)
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Q: Last night, at work i was lifting up things that have never been too heavy for me. I was pouring this bucket for about 5 min..that was about 5-6 lbs. Well my arms have gotten really weak lately. (I cant even do more than 4 CORRECT pushups.) Anyways right afterwords my arms were shaking like crazy (like i had Parkinsons disease or something.) Even for a minute, my legs began to shake. I felt soo weak like i was going to collapse. And even now, almost 24 hrs later, they are still shaking when i try to lift things that are only 3+ lbs. It also hurts about 4 inches from my wrist..almost like i pulled a muscle there. Ive been anemic for a year or two, and ive never taken any medication for it. I dont think its because of that or something that i ate. (My exercise and eating habits havent changed.) I think its more of a health problem i dont know about. I would see a doctor, but my parents wont take me. I just wanted to know if any of you had any idea what is wrong with me..or if youve ever experienced this before?
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iv ben strict anemic for about two years too and its progressing slowly but surely to the worse but no im not on meds, but yes what happens to you happens to me very often. so i think its normal and its just your anemia. start something that pushes you to your max, im in mma where im so frail yet i push to throw a person and track its hell but i love it and it helps. you just need to drink a lot of water and i mean as much as you can hold haha, i keep a water bottle in my purse at all times. if you start to get extremely weak for a moment then lay off and just sit back for like five min then walk around. also eat alot of iron if you have that type especially
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Q: I've just started using tampons for my period and I've noticed they don't come in a wide array of sizes really (light, regular, super, super plus from what I've seen). I picked up the super absorbencies since my period flow is really heavy but it feels pretty uncomfortable when I insert it. I thought maybe after the tampon soaked up some that it would be more comfortable and "normal" feeling but it still feels the same.
I read that you could get TSS from using a tampon that was too heavy for your flow and I really don't want to risk that. How do I know if my tampon is too big?
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you use the smallest size that works. most people just use regular so try that and after the time if ur fine then thats ur size haha if you need bigger then try the next size up. but it all depends on comfort and if it works, but use the smallest size that works never start with the biggest size
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Q: How did you first start going off jumps? Weren't you scared since you didn't know what you were doing? Did you just try it or is there a technique I should know about?
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go to tiny ones at first, but just tell yourself you can do it and dont think haha. i wasnt scared i just went for it once you learn to snowboard pretty good then get jump platforms or whatever and have faith in yourself. dont be scared, dont think of consequences just go for it you will be determined and steady and it came naturally for me. you learn as you go. practice makes perfect. and to jump one i guess u just squat a bit and jump then tuck, then land :)
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Q: My daughter is 13. She has been playing soccer since she was 5. We have a tournament this weekend and the last game of the day is at 5:30pm. It will be over at apprx. 7pm. The tournament is about 1 and a half hours away from our home. If she plays the game we won't be home until about 9pm. She has her first school/Valentines dance on Saturday which starts at 7pm until 10pm. She is very good at soccer, attendance is key and her position may be comprimised if she doesn't play. But, this is her first dance and she really wants to go. Her dad says play the game and forget the dance. I say forget the game and go to the dance. What do we do?
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every girl needs the first dance, there will always be more soccer games but not the first dance for her school. i missed an mma tournament to go to my dance last night and it was worth it even though mma is my life. have her pick but i think she needs the dance more.
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Q: so im 14 an still have not kissed a boy and im worried that when i do, i'll do it wrong and when i say kiss i mean geting into them ( snogging) has anyone got any tips on how to ? :)
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first kisses are so sweet but dont worry just stay relaxed and act shy, and smiley. kisses really cant go wrong. i was 14. our first, we missed but dont jump back, i gave a cute smile, lingered a bit, said oops and he just pulled me in and went again it made it a million times better. im just saying, dont worry the only bad that could happen is a miss but it can be so simply turned around into the best moment. dont dramatise it lightly pucker and right before you kiss lightly close your eyes. maybe keep a hand on his chest or side/back of his neck. goodluck :) and just have confidence, advice wont help much, confidence is key.
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Q: So I want to make my hair seem like those scene kids. The only problem is that my hair is complicated. It never stays straight! So I'm calling out to all the African American girls who have scene hair! Do you guys have your hair permed/chemically straightened? And i have to get extensions cause my hair is kinda short. Any brands that you like?
Thanks So much!
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im not but my best friend is, so close enough? :) shes got sewn in extensions and her natural hair is mixed in not netted at the top. her real hair is cut to a short choppy bob type cut which makes the poofyness at the top more so than the bottom and its cut to blend in and just brushes tips out alot not everything. her extensions are down a little past her shoulders and there chemically relaxed and straightend. that way its more poofy at the top and easy to keep up and it is pretty much permanently. you do not tease it at all cuz youd have to get them reput in. she brought in a random scene picture and they made it so it could work and look good with her hair type and length. im bad at explaining stuff so just tell me if u want me to retry haha, i hope it works!
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Q: PLEASE READ!!!
I've gotten headaches basically for 4 years straight now, and I'm pretty sure it's from stress. I got my eyes checked and they're 20/20 but my left eye has been slightly more blurry than my right lately. A few months ago I had a couple sharp pains in the left side of my head for about 2 days. They were off and on.
I don't know why I did this but one day I was feeling my temples and noticed they're slightly different (inside?). My left temple seems to be lumpier inside, and my right is more smooth-feeling inside. I don't know if this is good or bad? The lump doesn't hurt, and it doesn't show from the outside .. could it be anything bad? After checking just now, the right side has the same feeling bump but it's not as noticeable when I feel it ... I don't know what's wrong or if this is bad? It also slightly hurts when I push on my left temple on that lump.
ALL HELP IS APPRECIATED ;)
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im in the same situation as you its creepy.. but i just go to a neurologist for it but i have chronic pain disorder and i get alot of catscans. there is an area on a brain that is for vision and eye area i can point to it but i cant really explain in words. i am not saying it is your brain, but it mainly is for me. maybe you have migraines or tension headaches though. which they also hurt ur eyes and temples along with head. i felt my temples right ones bigger but they feel like that to so maybe all do if you rub them and have a headache cuz its a muscle and all muscles move. its not good but its nothin to worry about your not in danger, but since it bothers you just go to the doctor or try over the counter excederine for either migraine or tension headache kind or midal. probly spelt wrong but you understand it :) hope i helped, if i didnt really answer right just ask me
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Q: Ok I am just going to be blunt with this whole thing. I am constipated and I haven't been able to poop for almost a week now. I usually poop at once every two days or so. I am really unhappy and it's making me feel AWFUL! I have sat on the toilet for a long time trying but am unable to just do it.
Please, help me! What food helps you poop? And what makes you constipated anyway so I can try to avoid that again?
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eat alota mainly fruits, oatmeal, drink alota water and go exercise. no bread or cheese
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Q: When making a chicken Caesar wrap how and what do you season or marinate the chicken with before you grill it?
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you could cook it in a skillet really buttery or cook it in the caesar sauce, or get breaded chicken and add poppyseed. you could even season it with spice, salt, or dry garlic. that tastes really good and you could try tofu chicken caesar wraps though there even better :)
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Q: Hello,
I Am a Vegan and My Parents Don't Truely Understand Why. I Explain To Them About Animal Welare,Yet They Still Don't Understand. My Mother Belives That Being A Vegan Is UnHealthy. Is It Truely UnHealthy To Be A Vegan.
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it is very healthy as long as you eat and dont starve yourself. i was vegetarian for a while then vegan and actually got skinnier. i have the book "skinny bitch in the kitch" its a vegan cookbook that has amazing foods in it, its not offensive, it even explains alot of reasons why its healthier. rent it or buy it its great.
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Q: Hi, I was wondering.. if I want to delete an individual song from my ipod, can I just go and delete it from the playlist on itunes and then it will delete off my ipod? Or do I have to delete it a different way? Thanks
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if you delete it then its gone off your itunes. but you should go to settings when you plug in you ipod and at the bottom theirs boxes options you check, so check the box that says something about only adding checked music then go to your music and uncheck whatever you dont want on there, that way you dont have it on your ipod but its still on you itunes.
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Q: Hey, im a 14/f.
I live in salt lake city, Utah. (Murray)
I need a job and fast!!
Any idea's??
Thanks in advance
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try and get a workers permit from the city law center since the average age for them is 15 but 14 with a good reason, then you can be a shelf stacker or bus tables or hostess pretty much anywhere but you can not be a cashier or cook. all states are different though but thats what it is mostly across the board.
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Q: Post by: Corez3r0
Just as the title asks "Whats your favorite song?" Theres no wrong answers here. : ) Please respond with an artist name and song title. Just one!
(This question will not recieve feedback)
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Afterlife by Avenged Sevenfold is my favorite song of the day haha
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Q: i'm semi-new to being vegetarian, like i've been on & off for forever now, but i only stop, because i get sick of the same old thing. i need help thinking of really simple recipies i can make myself. like i found vegetable burittos, that were very easy, and i want other vegetarian/vegan snacks/recipies that are simple & quick to make. i'm the only vegetarian in my house, so yeah. & i like vegetables, and all that, and i'm open to about anything. :)
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get or rent the skinny bitch in the kitch cookbook. it is a vegetarian/vegan cookbook with a lot of recipes that allow you to eat chocolate cake and cookies n everything with substitutions.
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Q: My nana was a schizophrenic and recently passed away. She developed symptoms of it when she was married, which lead to her divorce from my grandfather. Schizophrenia is genetic and my family was scared that my sister was showing signs of having it. She was diagnosed as having an anxiety disorder at age 6 and with proper medication, she's doing fine now (she's 9). Sometimes I get scared that I'm showing signs of having schizophrenia and if not that then some other sort of disorder. I have a horrible anger problem that my family has threated to send me to counselling for, I have been getting panic attacks more often and I've been secretly dealing with bulimia. The reason why I think I may be showing signs of schizophrenia is because before I fall asleep, I will hear voices. Last night right as I was about to fall asleep I heard a girl voice (it was in my head) and it woke me up but it didn't scare me. This has been happeneing more often when I know for a fact that I'm not asleep yet. Usually it's the voices of multiple people but I can't hear anything they say (its cloudy). They sound like they're in my head or right next to my bed. It's always right before I fall asleep. It doesn't just happen at home either. I'll be out sometimes and fall asleep (say at school, on the bus ride, etc) and it will happen. I know it's not anyone around me either because its literally right next to my head (no one is close to me). I just realized how strange it is that I'm hearing these things. It's never gone further than it just startling me/waking me up. Has anyone ever experienced this? I know I need to talk to a professional about this, I just wanted someone's opinion on it. Thank you.
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i dont think you are schizo, just try and be happy and blow it off. hallucinating when you are tired or barley concious is somewhat normal i had it every night every morning and all threwout the day on and off. dont convince yourself you are it because then it gets sooo much worse, because it can be a tricky mind game. like for me, i was treated as schizophrenic, bipolar, ptsd, anorexic and i had severe anxiety. which i had no heredity of any of that in my family. ptsd i can see bc i had something extremellyy bad happen to me. i went to many stupid doctors, one nearly every other day for a year and being treated like all thoes things made my mind believe i was all thoes things since i know everything about them all because that is what i study. i tried not to believe but self and mind are two different things. i still dont know what was ever wrong with me, i still am addicted to painkillers and am still am in paranoia or people. dont be scared, worried, n dont think you are. talk to your closest friend and if it gets worse go to a psychiatrist. blow off the hallucinations if you dwell on them they will get worse, think of it as a sign of sleep. the only way i escaped the constant doctor visits and pills so often was talking to my boyfriend and best friend, going off on my doctor and refusing visits and pills. be strong you know yourself better than them. by doing that within a while i was doin better than i thought possible because i had hope in myself and was independant which kicked out most of my paranoia and hallucinations, derealization, depression, mania, and i ate non stop and i told myself anxiety was a mind game which that was a year ago im almost all the way gone with anxiety and hallucinations. other than that im great. moral to my freakishly long answer is that you need to just believe in yourself before you even question a doctor, you can fix yourself better than them, think of it as soul over mind and right now your mind is over your soul. you can do anything you set your mind to. i really hope i helped if not just reply and il try again lol sorry its one am here. everything will get better :)
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Q: What do i wear with light grey skiny jeans? they're bongo brand and they are a really light grey. I have no idea what colours go with them. Please help!
XXXOOO
Lonley_girl
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any color but white, grey, brown or tanish tops i think. colors or black are perfect and look great. any type of top at all will look great as long as you wear it right, i wear long shirts alot with skinny jeans because it looks better than plain shirts on me since i am a small pear shape i guess. so wear the colors and with acessories and try stuff out to find what type of outfits look best on you. good luck!
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Q: For sometime now, I have been talking with someone online, and we just met for the first time in person...we had a really great time that night, and he even kissed me and we slept in the same bed together...but in the morning, he would kind of snub all affection I would try to give him, like he didn't want to be touched in any way...until the next night came, and then we would be kissing again...I have been in a situation before where I mistook genuine feelings that could lead to a real relationship for just wanting sex and nothing more, and I am terrified that it may be happening again...am I just being paranoid and nit-picky about myself, or was I giving too much affection too soon? And if I am (which I actually think I was giving too much) then what should I do to let him know that I didn't mean to be clingy?
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for a true relationship the other has to always be ok with affection for it to be great. its ok for someone to want it more late in the day, but they can not blow off other times. just ask why he does that. guys usually want more than girls so that would make me question him, but maybe he is just the less affectionate type which isnt bad. just ask him
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everything happens for a reason. im a survivor of skin cancer since birth, my life revolved around MMA but repeated concussions ended that career n caused me permanent chronic pain, cheated on from a two year relationship with my 'perfect guy', iv had ptsd for a few years from attempted rape. im artistic, in lovee with guitar, singing, and writing music for friends' bands. i have expirienced many horrible things in my past, but its called past for a reason so forget about it. lifes a lesson learned and i love it :) im the type people say they can never forget, im loveable to all and the chick always smiling friends come to me for everything. -peace
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Gender: Female Location: STL baby!!! Age: 16 Member Since: March 15, 2009 Answers: 43 Last Update: June 26, 2010 Visitors: 4396
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