For sometime now, I have been talking with someone online, and we just met for the first time in person...we had a really great time that night, and he even kissed me and we slept in the same bed together...but in the morning, he would kind of snub all affection I would try to give him, like he didn't want to be touched in any way...until the next night came, and then we would be kissing again...I have been in a situation before where I mistook genuine feelings that could lead to a real relationship for just wanting sex and nothing more, and I am terrified that it may be happening again...am I just being paranoid and nit-picky about myself, or was I giving too much affection too soon? And if I am (which I actually think I was giving too much) then what should I do to let him know that I didn't mean to be clingy?
blacksXeroses answered Saturday November 7 2009, 1:22 am: for a true relationship the other has to always be ok with affection for it to be great. its ok for someone to want it more late in the day, but they can not blow off other times. just ask why he does that. guys usually want more than girls so that would make me question him, but maybe he is just the less affectionate type which isnt bad. just ask him [ blacksXeroses's advice column | Ask blacksXeroses A Question ]
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