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hi, we have been together for a 3 and half years now. we love each other and we live together. he's a single father and he has a kid with his ex girlfriend. it's just that sometimes when i hint him to buying me a ring or does he see me marrying me in the future he always replies by saying, ''u never know'' or he just changes the subject with a smile, which i don't understand. i'm thinking now, he's not that serious about me even though he says he loves me and sees us in the future. so, guys if a guys changes a subject, what exactly does he thinking? thanks (link)
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Ok. Apparently he dosen't want to talk about the marriage subject yet if he keeps on avoiding the question. Most men are scared to get married because its more effort. And most think it just complicates your relationship. When they think about marriage they think forever with a person. They might don't want to admit that they're scared, but dnt keep pestering him with the subject... It might get him annoyed and probably ends up becoming into an argument.. So every now or then try to bring it up, but not occassionally.. Give him time to think a little more (: also, Be PATIENT !
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So my current boyfriend is the best boyfriend I have ever had. He treats me like I am his princess and I could never ask for anyone better. but because my ex boyfriend treated me so badly i.e. cheated on me many times, hit me once, made me feel worthless and that no one wants me and just horrible things that i've gotten over and feel better about myself because i know he just did all that to manipulate me to keep me with him. and that's why i kept going back to him, because he was so good at manipulating me. and we've been broken up for a while and i have my new amazing boyfriend that my best friend set me up with. but just because of that past relationship. i'm just a little on edge that it will happen again. i am able to hold it in and think about it most of the time and talk about it if i really think its something to worry about, but he still talks to his ex girlfriends who he was both with for 2 years each. its nothing inappropriate but just from past experience it gets me worried. i just really need advice (link)
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My advice to you is to talk to him. He can't read your mind, the only way for him to understand is for you to communicate with him. Tell him how you feel about the situation an maybe he can help assure you that the things in your previous relationship won't happen in this one. (:
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Long story short...
Been dating a guy since September. Made it "official" the beginning of this month. After a few beers tonight, we were in his bed and he told me he loved me. I know it wasn't to get laid because that happened before we were even dating. So i'm thinking it was mostly because of the alcohol tonight. I did say it back, i think i messed up there because I do like him a lot but not on that level. I am about to sound dumb as hell for asking this but What could I say to apologize for not meaning it? (link)
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Well I disagree with the person who gave the advice to not say anything. I believe that you should tell him the truth because if he finds out later that you really didn't mean it, its going to hurt him more. To put in better terms, say if yall switch positions and you was in his shoes.... Wouldn't want to know that he didn't mean it instead of being lied to...?? If you really want that relationship to work, being honest with him and yourself is one of the key points to make your relationship sucessfull. (:
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hello sir this is brock who asked about that fb woman can u plz help me (link)
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Umm. Im A Girl .. Lol and yes i can help you but with what ?
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My friend and I have a lot of history. Long story summarized...
I lied to her about a pregnancy from when i was 15 years old that I told her was aborted but really never became a viable pregnancy. The boy who impregnated me was my boyfriend of 2 years and we broke up when I was 15 around the time the pregnancy happened.
When I was 17 i met my friend, lets call her Sally. Sally and I were friends for 6 months before she started dating the boy who got me pregnant, he was a mutual friend of ours and rather than ask me for my blessing she just kind've told me it was happening. Realistically I would've liked to have just been asked and I would've said yes regardless, they've been dating for 2 years now.
I'm now in a new relationship with a guy that she thinks is horrible for me and recently him and my new guy got in a fight. I stood by her in that fight and he almost left me for it.
Now she's calling me a selfish bitch because I admitted to having lied and told her how I felt about her never having asked about my new boyfriend.
She says she cares and wants the best for me but she's also telling me that she doesn't want to be my friend because she doesn't want to be around my relationship with my boyfriend.
Now she's being rude to me and I don't want to show that it hurts because I feel like that will mean she's winning. I just don't understand how we went from being friends and thinking that we were standing by each other to being so hostile.
I am now 20 and she is 19. (link)
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My advice for you is to tell her how you feel and if she don't understands that mean she really wasn't your friend . My answer to your question is no , she is not worth your pain and no one is .
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what do you do if your best friends steals your crush what do you do or tell her ???? (link)
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Well , i would tell my bestfriend how i feel about the situation and how i feel about him .. And hope she understands .
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so i wanna have sex for the first time but im really scared that the penis wont fit, i have been masterbating but only with my fingers and i can only stick 2 fingers in otherwse it hurts...is that normal? and is it possible that the penis wont fit? im also scared that its gonna hurt :(...oh and sorry if im being too personal but i just wanna kno what it feels like when someone gives you oral sex? im a female and im 16 by the way...please help! (link)
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Well , to tell you the truth i have heard that when you have sex the first couple of times it will hurt . And Yes it's normal . Most penis's fit but either way it's going to hurt .... But the only way you can feel how oral sex feels like is to actually do it .. Andd i'm nt trieing to courage you to do it or incourage you to don't do it. But , i do want you to be careful ecspecially when you only 16 .. So.. all i have to say is gud luck . (:
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so today i was talking to my ex and he started telling me he loved me and things and i didnt no what to do so i said u2 and i have a bf so he thinks im goin to break up with my bf for him but im not goin to and i dont wanna be mean to him because hes really sweet and i care about him alot but i just dont know what to do (link)
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My advice for you is to tell him how you feel about him and that your not going to break up with your bf to go with . Because whether or not he's going to figure out anyways . But , it's up to you to tell your bf about this .. It may be best for you not to , but , maybe it is for him . Think about his feelings too . But , i think you should hurry up and tell your ex , before it's too late ..
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Hello,
my name is Kailey and i am a 17 year old female. My problem is within my body.. well i guess you could say outside of my body. I am very insecure about my Vagina and i need a real opinion on this. My Labia is alot longer than normal and i have no idea why, i know its "normal" for woman to have this but is it normal for men to truly like it? i have a boyfriend but he hasnt said anything about it becuase its obviouse i am self contious about it, i know he wouldnt leave me over this becuase we are inlove and i made sure of that before i let him in.. but i am afraid it will make our sex life worse over time becuase he is a very sexual guy and i would be to if i didnt have that large problem between my legs. If guys acually like it, why is it? i find it vulgur and nasty.. even though thats what sex is about, i still dont feel okay about it :( (link)
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To start out with , guys have diffrent taste than women right ? For example , he may like a red shirt better than an blue shirt and you may like the blue shirt better than the red shirt . But what i'm trying to say is you may not like that your labia is alot longer than others but , he might .. I think you should talk to him about so you wont be insecure around him . Because you dosen't suppose to , you suppose to be comfortable around him even if you have a promblem . Many men 's are diffrent from others . What i'm trying to say is maybe it can be a good thing . (: P.S. Think about it ...
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so i used to work with this guy who is 2 years older than me, and we got along really well. he dated a girl for 2 years and i thought they were going to get married, but they broke it off last summer. she was super gorgeous and i'm not haha. well i've been helping him with some church stuff and we got to see each other (we both quit our jobs in september of last year). so we asked me to lunch and we just talked about life and stuff no big deal. but he paid for my lunch, he also talked about this girl that wanted to spend one-on-one time with him, he said he didn't spend alone time with girls -yet he was with me? he told me, "you're different i've known you!" and then later tht night he posted a status "it came out a little country, but it was right on the money" he has never posted a song lyric in a status lol. i know that's looking far into it, but i need help. i'm crazy about this boy, but does it seem like he likes me? i'm not even as pretty as his last girl, she was drop dead gorgeous!! (link)
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Well my advice for you is to , spend more time with him and see how he reacts from spending more time with you and see how it goes from there . Andd maybe he dosen't see his ex-girlfriend as drop dead gorgeous , maybe just in your eye's ?? (:
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my best friend in the whole intire world told me she was going to go to a school in bixby and ill miss her soooooooo much will she cange will she forget about me will she get a new best friend??????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:( (link)
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Well , to let you know my bestfriend in the whole wide world is moving and going to another school too. But , my best advice for you is to trust your friend and know that she is not going to forget you or change .. Because if she is really your bestfriend she woudn't do that .. (: P.S. Try to keep in touch when she moves .
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How do you stop yourself from having a mental breakdown, All i want to do is cry. How do i harden up and deal with it. I can't do anything!!Please help. Thanks (link)
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By helping you come down i will say , think about all the good things or good memories that you have in your life . And think about the future , your family and friends... Talk to some that's very close that you can tell most things to . Like one of your friends , mom , dad , close family member , etc. Jus take a deep breath and calm down ..
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I don't know what to do. On the 20th of June me and my fiancee had unprotected sex. Now I have not seen my periods. Can I be pregnant? (link)
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To be honest , their can be a
possibility .. But , if you have an irregular period , your periods come on diffrent times .. But their is another reason , your period may be coming on late .. Jus take a pregancy test and if it says negitive , your period may be coming on late and i think you would know if it says positive .. (:
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I met a guy (friend of a friend), about a couple months ago...I've seen him twice. We talked briefly the first time we met, and the second time I saw him, I realized I am attracted to him, and unfortunately, was pretty drunk and dancing up a storm with my friend (a guy); so not nearly at my best.
It was pretty apparent to me that the attraction ran both ways, but he seems shy- he did kinda hint at wanting to meet up again, but no numbers were exchanged- plus I was pretty drunk and dancing the night away with a guy friend the second time around. Don't know if that sent him (the guy i like) the wrong signal...
So now, a month after...I decided to just go ahead and friend him on facebook, a few days ago. He did confirm me as a friend shortly after, but hasn't contacted me in any way. I didn't send him a message, but thought if he were still interested, he might initiate something. So I commented on his post, and no response.
Maybe I'm overanalyzing this, but I'm thinking that he's either a) lost interest, b) my somewhat drunken/dancing turned him away, or c) he's shy, or even yes, d) there's nothing to read into, and I just need to chill.
SO...what could any of this mean? And should I do anything, or just let it go...
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I think you should message him on fb and check on him and get to know him before you start to like him .And take it from there . (:
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I know it seems stupid as I'm about to give an example of the type of info here, but this place is different.
Anyway, she just knows my age and gender, what country I live in, that I have a weak stomach, and that I like art and music. There's lots of people like that, right?
I know I'm likely worried over absolutely nothing, I'm just a pretty paranoid person about online friends. It has been pounded into my head that it's "better safe than sorry."
Feel free to flame and call me an idiot, don't even feel bad about it. I just feel kind of nervous.. (link)
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To be honest thats not too much information .. To much information will be like if you tell her your street address or tell her your phone nummber or something similar to that .. And plus like you said there are lot's of people maybe are like that . So my advice is to don't go overboard about telling her too much information about you and you haven't been giving too much information to your friend. P.S. Good Luck to you for your online friend ! (:
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21 female. Nick 18
So I have known Nick forever. We just haven't always been close the whole time. Well recently we started hanging out more. But just this last week I was up at my cousins cabin and Nick's family cabin is right down the street (my aunt and uncle are good friends with nicks dad and step mom) and me and Nick were together all the time. He even slept with me every night.
I am starting to fall for him. I know he likes me cause he tells me. He's the sweetest guy and hes not like any other guy. He respects me and treats me like a princess. He doesn't try to hook up with me, he only cuddled with me all night when we slept together. He holds my hand and hugs me tight and reminds me of how beautiful he thinks I am every day.
The only thing that is holding me back from dating him is that he's 3 years younger than me. I just feel so weird and sort of like an idiot for going for a guy 3 yrs younger than me. I'm scared of what people will say or think -even my family. What do you guys think? Should this hold me back from dating him? Does it seem wrong?
Any advice is welcomed!:) (link)
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I personally think you should go out with him.. Like i always hear "Age is nothing but an number" If he makes you feel special and treats you right that all should matters .. And your family and friends should not be mad or any thing about this because like i said all that should matter is that he treats you right and you really like him and stuff . And it should'nt matter what people think it's not like their the one who wants to date him and it's your love life not theirs . (:
P.S. I hope you choose to go out with him he sounds like a really great guy i will be sad for you if you choose not to go with him, not every girl gets a guy like this .. Trust Me ! (: Good Luck !
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There's this guy I know, he's a year older than me, but we're going into the same grade (I'm twelve, he's almost thirteen). I'm going to get this out right now: I have a HUGE crush on him. Last year, he always paid me special attention, like making sure I was the first to sign his yearbook and sitting down next to me or near me every day in class. I'm really shy and unpopular ( I am what most would call a genius with a high IQ), and there's this other popular girl who likes him too. What can I do next year so we can be more than friends? Thank you :) I'll feel a lot better when I get a reply. (link)
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Well , When iWas 12 i had a crush on a boy and he was also was an year older than me and we was in the same grade and lets say i was in the same situation you in to tell you the truth i really had ah BIG CRUSH on him and some how he found out.. But soon he started ignoreing me and stuff and i started to think it was too late to tell him how i felt about him.. And that folowing year he asked me out ! (: iWas like oh my gosh ... So , my advice for you is be your self around don't act any diffrent or try to be popular because another girl that is popular like him .. Tell him how you feel about him before it's too late like i thought it was for me ... (:
P.S. Good Luck ! (:
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So, on my other PC somehow system32 got deleted and/or corrupted. How exactly would I go about re-installing without a re-install disc? (link)
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You should go to the place you bought it from or a computer place they should know what to do (:
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My boyfriend and i have been together since 2mths..
i love him alot..he is gud 2 me and says he is serious wid me 2..
whenever we meet he is nice to me but once daily life routine starts he stops texting me..
i really gt annoyed wid his behaviour..
and everytime he has a excuse ever ready with him..
what you think should i cope up with him cuz i love him or move on without him? (link)
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To be honest i dont think you should break up with him .. I think you should have a conversation about it and tell him how you feel about and say when he have something and involves him stop texting you just tell him to text you that he haves to go or something .. And that should handle the situation (:
Love, Neice(: P.S. Hope everything goes well ! (:
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well i broke up with this guy for another guy that i had liked for 2 yrs and now i feel like i messed it up the one guys name is caleb and i really really like him but i think he hates me now i was textn him the other day and tld him how i felt about the sittuation n he was like well ive been through it and itll get better trust me and i dont think it will i think i just lost the guy im inlove with can someone please help me asap ..
~alysaaaa (link)
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Ohkayy. iThink you might be over reacting bhut in a good way kind of.. But back to your question.. well , if he tells you that it will get better i don't think he hates i think he's trying to help the situation. My advice is to calm down and look over the situation and jus forget it and talk to the boy you like or the one you want back and tell him how you feels and see if that helps...
Love,Neice (: P.S. Hope everything goes well. ! (:
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