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I screwed up and broke up for one guy and now I want the guy I dumped back!
well i broke up with this guy for another guy that i had liked for 2 yrs and now i feel like i messed it up the one guys name is caleb and i really really like him but i think he hates me now i was textn him the other day and tld him how i felt about the sittuation n he was like well ive been through it and itll get better trust me and i dont think it will i think i just lost the guy im inlove with can someone please help me asap ..
~alysaaaa
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I had a similar situation.
I liked a guy while I was dating another guy, and told that guy i would dump my boyfriend for him. My boyfriend and I broke up and i thought the world had ended because I loved him so much. Your ex may be hiding what he is feeling but it is too soon to fix anything because that will make him change his mind even faster. Let him mend his heart and let him think about the situation. You had already let him know how you felt, so now leave it alone and don't push it. I did that and my ex was done with me. So let it be and the only thing that can heal your heart and his, is time. Just be careful with what you do, because if you push it too often and let it show that it is bothering you may make you seem look desperate. So just be careful about your actions and just give it time. In the end you will see which was better for you.
You may be better with him or without, but you will only find out in time. (:
Good luck hunny.
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It will get better. Over time, it does improve.
I read your other question and realized that 3 minutes after you mistakenly thought your boyfriend called you a bitch, you posted this and want your ex back... :-(
You seriously aren't going to even try to work things out with the boy you waited years for?
Well, you dumped this guy, so as all guys know he would have to be really stupid to take you back. Why? Well, because you will dump him again the next time you see another guy you think is hot or whatever. You did it once, and it is a safe bet you will do it again.
Look at it from his point of view: You waited all that time, for someone else to be available so you could dump your boyfriend... then after all that time, you want to dump the guy you waited for and go back? Guys like girls they can trust 100%. You are very obviously not someone who even trusts herself to know what she wants... so how can he trust you?
Be honest with yourself. If you really want this guy back, you will have to stay single until he is, and maybe in the future he will take you back. I wouldn't count on this, since you broke his heart, but anything is possible.
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I'm going to spill the beans
Would you take someone back if they dumped you for someone else? I don't blame this guy for not wanting you back, You betrayed him. If you really liked him then why did you go and leave him for someone else? You cannot force someone to be in a relationship with you. Obviously this guy has no interest in being in contact with you. Do you blame him? You learned from your mistake but now your best bet is to leave the kid alone and meet someone else and don't make the same mistake again.
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well if you broke up with him then just leave it at that. if he really loves you and cares for you, he will come back to you!
but if he doesn't (but dont expect to happen over night) maybe a little while later (not to long) twll him everything and tell him you made a big mistake and you were thinking about all the good times you guys had and you were never as happy befor you met him! just talk to him, what is the worst that can happen, he says he's over you?
i hope that's not the case, but if it is, it will hurt for awhile BUT guys aren't the only thing in the world! you have the rest of your life with more exciting things then just that!
"You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore"
hope i helped and i hope everything works out!(:
if you have any questions just ask!(:
melissa!(:
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Ohkayy. iThink you might be over reacting bhut in a good way kind of.. But back to your question.. well , if he tells you that it will get better i don't think he hates i think he's trying to help the situation. My advice is to calm down and look over the situation and jus forget it and talk to the boy you like or the one you want back and tell him how you feels and see if that helps...
Love,Neice (: P.S. Hope everything goes well. ! (:
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