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my bf called me a bitch what do i do?


Question Posted Tuesday July 12 2011, 10:35 pm

well today i was talkn to my boyfriend on fb and he sent me a link .. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) your a bitch by bowling for soup he posted it on my wall and i dont get it so i think he was calling me a bitch and that reallly upset me i wanted to go off but i waited 3yrs for him and i really dont anna mess this up ..what can i do to make this better?

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DangerNerd answered Thursday July 14 2011, 12:22 am:
You completely misunderstood the song.

You know you are bitchy to him at times, and if you say you aren't then you aren't being honest with yourself... and this song says that even though you can be a total bitch at times, he still loves you and wants to be with you.

If you take the time to re-read the lyrics and still don't get that, then you should probably let him go. You two aren't a match if you still think he was calling you a bitch.

Heck... look at the comments on the youtube video you linked to... all the other girls that had it sent to them understood it, and some said it was sweet that he sent it to them. :-)

So, what can you do to make it better? Well, you could try taking the song the way he meant it, for starters, and then in the future when something he does offends you, you could try talking with him about it instead of posting about him on the internet behind his back.

Communication is key.

Good luck to both of you.

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melissa123 answered Wednesday July 13 2011, 10:37 am:
get him back and send him a song! just laugh it off and maybe be like "im sorry baby am i really bitch?" or joke around and say "damn i turned this way ever since i met you, maybe im turning into you." haha or something like that. if you guys really like each other don't get mad and start a fight because if it's a joke he will be like "wow she can;t take a joke." but if you do think your acting like that and you know it, try to change it! and to the post maybe comment it with a heart or a :p

hope i helped, good luck!

ohhh and something else you can say:

"Bitch"
"A bitch is a female dog.
dogs bark.
bark is on trees.
trees are in nature
and nature is beautiful,
so thanks for the compliment<3"

haha if you have any questions just ask!(:

melissa!(:

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lifescomplicated answered Tuesday July 12 2011, 11:10 pm:
I think he called you a bitch but in an affectionate way.....the song says ignoring the bitch...........that he loves you anyway and that he never wants for you to go away. Basically he's telling you're human with flaws like singing bad or something else but he still loves you anyway no matter what you are. I wouldn't take it a bad way....in fact i think it's cute. You have a cool boyfriend lol.


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