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being naked :D advice from guys?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 years and just recently started living together, despite our young age (I'm 19 and he's 20). My question might sound kind of silly... but do guys ever get tired of a girl's body? I mean, we have sex 3 or 4 times a week, but most nights I sleep without a shirt on... which needless to say he loves, but do you think that after a while he would stop getting turned on by me? Or is this something that many couples do? I feel like I am maybe too liberal with my body... generally speaking, do guys prefer girls to be more liberal or do they find modesty a turn-on when it comes to sex? Thanks for your advice!
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To be honest. As long as you are of complete sound mind and body, you will never bore him. Just remember that no matter what you look like or what styles you both share there are always new things to try as far as sex. When it comes to sleeping nude or partially nude, whether the territory is being sexy or not I just find it damn comfortable. Then again I'm a cuddler rofl. Your best bet is to ask him. When you do ask and he gets all "Oh I could never get bored/tired of you, I love you and I always will." be sure you find a POLITE way to get around that "correct" answer. I say polite because although he has/had/will/may answer that way, in his mind he'll be wondering why you are asking making him feel vulnerable and defensive so find a good way to work into it. Else you may spawn a little tiff on accident or even just an awkward lonely night. We don't want that. :( But I do hope you find the answer you are seeking. I'm sure you will with such good answers from the columnists here. Good Luck. :]
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You ask a very interesting question. You can probably ask this question of any number of guys and get any number of answers.
Is modesty a turn-on or turn-off: I would say it depends on the relationship or where in the relationship you are. In a committed relationship such as the one you are in my answer would be it would be a turn off.
My wife and I have been married 40 years as of yesterday. I still enjoy being naked and cuddling up to her naked body. True her body is not what it was 40 years ago, then again neither is mine. All through those 40 years being naked and being sexual together has been different. We can be naked together and not have to be sexual. It was different 40 years ago when being naked almost always ended with sex, but as we became more accustomed to each other we could enjoy each other without having to be modest about our bodies.
Modesty has it place when trying to attract someone. Unless you are someone who is a naturalist(nudist) modesty tells the other person something about you. Once you have had a relationship for sometime and are comfortable with one another, modesty should start to fade.
This is of course my opinion. Like certain parts of ones anatomy everyone is going to have one; this has been mine. I hope this one has been helpful to you.
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It's all about attitude. My wife and I do not wear clothes in our bedroom. We can be hanging out watching a movie and cuddled up naked and have nothing sexual about it until she turns around and kisses me in an inviting way.
The novelty of nudity wears off a bit, but then it just becomes about being in the mood. If you are, it's still hot. If you aren't, it doesn't have to be. It's comfortable. Comfortable is nice in it's own way. It's a nice break from hot when you're both tired.
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My girlfriend sleeps topless as well. We'e been together nearly 7 years, and it's still hot.
However, leaving something to the imagination is sometimes hotter than showing off the whole thing.
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