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17, Male, and from Tennessee, USA.
Just some guy so no worries. :P
I work mostly in construction and working with my band and our audio productions.
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Website: Scott's Facebook
E-mail: scott.sharber@live.com
Gender: Male
Location: Tennessee
Occupation: Roofing/Musician/Audio Preduction(Uncertified)
Age: 17
Yahoo: chevorlet12@yahoo.com(you'll never find me here)
MSN: scott.sharber@live.com
Member Since: July 9, 2011
Answers: 16
Last Update: July 18, 2011
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My kitten is so adorable. He always wants to eat whatever I eat. Just now, I took out a slice of cake and milk and he's trying to crawl all over me, and try and jump on the plate so he can eat it.\


And typically he doesn't meow, or mew.. Only when he's hungry, needs to go to the bathroom or just wants attention. I have his food out but he just wants to eat the cake. I have a glass coffee table that I have the cake set on, and he's trying to go underneath and see if he can somehow get it (so cutte!)

Anyways, I feel bad but I definitely know I cannot be feeding him cake or cow's milk. So what can I do to make him stop wanting it so much, and make him stop mewing? (link)
I have also heard it's easier to break young animals from wanting human food by giving them TINY samples but before doing so, in some safe way make it taste horrid to them. They sell sprays and powders solely for this. It's more commonly used as anti-gnawing utility. They try to gnaw. It tastes gross. They learn.
Hope this helped. ^_^


Hello,
my name is Kailey and i am also 17 years old. I was looking for a certain person to answer this question for me becuase i have only had girls answer it and the answer isnt the one i needed to here. This is very hard to say to another guy my age but i feel like if i need anyones opinion its yours, sorry for making it weird:S
Anyways, my Labia is quite longer than it used to be, sex made it bigger. and i HATE the way it looks. i have a boyfriend but he hasnt mentioned it at all because he knows i dont like it. What im asking from you is to tell me your HONEST opinion on bigger labias and how i should really feel about them, i know guys talk about them and stuff, dont worry im a big girl it wont hurt my feelings. (link)
Well to be honest. It doesn't so much bother me as long as kept well clean and taken care of. So to me being me. Well it just doesn't matter. To me you would be like any other girl as far as your genitalia.
I mean every guy has a certain specific set of things they like in a girl in their mind. But as far as your labia is. Don't worry about it. As long as you are clean and groomed well, you will be awesome.
Actually now that I think about it, sometimes they look nice bigger. But I don't really think I should go into my preferences. Lol.
This is normal. Sex causes wear and tear to the body just like any other physical activity. Doesn't mean anything bad. And it doesn't make you look or feel any worse. As I've mentioned in many cases it even makes them look better. After all there is porn entirely based around that standard. ;p
If you have any questions or any other problems you'd like my help with or if you just want to tell me my answer sucked. I can be reached by messenger or even email at scott.sharber@live.com

Hope I helped. ^_^


we have been dating for less than a month...hes very nice! and well i don't know what he likes. and well i don't know what to give him!! :(
please help me! his birthday is in less than a week!!!
PLEASE GIVE ME ANSWERS??
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I agree with Zane as far as the very general gift. BUT maybe you should try getting him something that he completely won't understand. Figure that out. Because I know what I mean and I'm not sure how to explain. So... Rate me badly I guess... Probably shouldn't have answered this one. ROFL


I have a question..i am getting my cartilage pierced this saturday and at walmart. But before i do, i want to know if there r any cheaper places and if it hurts a lot. Some people say it hurts like hell, others say they dont feel a thing....I just want to know all the facts before getting it done. thanks :) (link)
Well I myself have had an Industrial piercing which is an ear cartilage piercing. I will admit that it is a much more noticeable feeling than your average ear piercing. It is actually, obviously going through more than flesh, being that it is going through cartilage. It is a bit painful. Not unbearable and well worth the bit of pain in my opinion. Keep in mind that this piercing will require a bit of a different style aftercare than a normal earlobe piercing. Pain Scale Below
Pain Scale 1-10


During Piercing: 7

10seconds after: 3

One minute: .5(mostly just warm swollen feeling

4 Hours After: 0(Fairly Normal but tender to touch)

Next Morning: 9(Throbbing pain from slight rejection it will lesson the longer you are awake)

2.5 Weeks: No Notable pain unless roughly handled

Healed : No pain at all unless the tissue is damaged


Hope I was helpful. :]


I'm getting a laptop soon, and i was wondering if this is possible, if i write papers on my laptop, can i print it from the home computer printer?

My printer is an hp, and i don't think it has wifi if that matters..?

but i will get my internet from the wifi on my home computer. (link)
The simplest way to do so would be to use a USB flash/jump drive. Save the file to the drive and print it from the other computer. Or even install the printers drivers to your laptop. You could burn the files you want printed to a CD or any other form of storable memory really. Otherwise you can not print from your laptop on the desktop/home PC without undergoing a bit of set up to share files and computer use. Which isn't difficult at all but isn't worth the time just to print something. Hope I was helpful. :]


So as a child I masterbated all the time, though I didn't know really what I was doing, just that it felt good.
I am sixteen now and only very recently realized that I don't really have a clit... or it's small and hard and doesn't feel anything.
I'm wondering if I hurt myself when I was young? And is there a way to fix it?
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Well it's quite resilient so I'm going to doubt you damaged it. Assuming you've never used any strange objects. Often your clitoris is a tougher item to find. In different women it is even in a slightly different position but never far from where you'd expect. Perhaps you don't know exactly where it is? No offense but almost entirely every bit of the vaginal area is sensitive to some forms of stimuli. Meaning perhaps what you thought was your clitoris actually wasn't it but on the other hand was still sensitive to touch. They aren't really just large objects that protrude themselves out from you. You must find it. (being that there is a sheathing that hides it known as your clitoral hood) Most people do not realize it but it actually runs down most of the downward path to your entrance. Try tracing directly up and spreading you lips while drawing the upward a bit and you'll see a small area you may find to be VERY sensitive. Be careful as it is so sensitive that even the slightest of too harsh a touch will hurt or cause discomfort rather than pleasure you. Also your clitoris is not nearly as detectable unless you are aroused. Much more noticeable if it has been directly stimulated as it engorges and grows a bit and will get tighter/harder and more sensitive yet less pained by touch. I being a man do not have perfect information but these are some of the things have learned from personal experience and I hope I have helped you. :] Good Luck


Where could I work as a thirteen year old boy? (link)
I used to do anything for a buck. Always used to cut grass. Hit a country club always a good place for richies to pay you fair for your sweat. Paper route is also a good one from.. ehh I'd quote their name but I can't remember it sorry. McDonald's also hires once you reach the age of 14 in many locations. Any landscaping though seems to work out well. I know this may be a bit off or out of pace in this answer, but when I was 12 I joined my first band and we did fairly well. Played birthday parties and public events. 3 hour gigs for a minimum of $100 overall. Not great nor steady money but it's money. Good luck.


My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 years and just recently started living together, despite our young age (I'm 19 and he's 20). My question might sound kind of silly... but do guys ever get tired of a girl's body? I mean, we have sex 3 or 4 times a week, but most nights I sleep without a shirt on... which needless to say he loves, but do you think that after a while he would stop getting turned on by me? Or is this something that many couples do? I feel like I am maybe too liberal with my body... generally speaking, do guys prefer girls to be more liberal or do they find modesty a turn-on when it comes to sex? Thanks for your advice! (link)
To be honest. As long as you are of complete sound mind and body, you will never bore him. Just remember that no matter what you look like or what styles you both share there are always new things to try as far as sex. When it comes to sleeping nude or partially nude, whether the territory is being sexy or not I just find it damn comfortable. Then again I'm a cuddler rofl. Your best bet is to ask him. When you do ask and he gets all "Oh I could never get bored/tired of you, I love you and I always will." be sure you find a POLITE way to get around that "correct" answer. I say polite because although he has/had/will/may answer that way, in his mind he'll be wondering why you are asking making him feel vulnerable and defensive so find a good way to work into it. Else you may spawn a little tiff on accident or even just an awkward lonely night. We don't want that. :( But I do hope you find the answer you are seeking. I'm sure you will with such good answers from the columnists here. Good Luck. :]


A kid from school that I've been hooking up with on and off with is coming to stay with me this weekend because my mom is going out of town. my question is what can we do. my house can get really boring and i dont want him to be bored but I dont have any ideas! (link)
Well I must say seeing as you've been "hooking up", there will obviously be sex in the plan. Rofl. I mean is this a boy you like? Or Just a hook-up/booty-call/tap-and-run/fwb/fuckbuddy/potential-relationship? Because it is very difficult to give advice on such a question with such little information. :(



We had a stupid fight because i sprayed his cologne. We argued and carried attitude for about 30 minutes until he called me a worthless ***** then i asked him why would he get mad just because I sprayed his cologne. He told me to say it again and as i said it he punched me right in the mouth and busted my bottom lip. He said he was angry and didn't mean it. We have been together for since freshman year in high school and this has never happened before. what do you think? (link)
I don't have the ability to answer this question politely so I won't. If you would like to see what in this situation would be my opinion, please message/ask me discretely. I hope you find your way through it though. Good Luck.


i've heard that stressing about pregnancy can make your body think that you are.
well the problem is that me and my boyfriend were playing around like 2 weeks ago when he precumed a little on my vagina and then fingered me.. so i'm scared that that could've made me pregnant. usually i ALWAYS use a condom and he only went inside me for like 3 seconds. i told him to pull out so he did.. i dont think he ejaculated in me though.
so i've been worrying aLOT that i'm pregnant. i should've gotten my period on wednesday but i didnt :/ my breast hurt a lot but i also get that before a period so i dont know .. i dont have any other symptoms though. and i do get cramping like i do before my period but it doesnt last long and my periods not coming...
i think that i'm pregnant but i've been stressing myself out a lot.. like i've been crying over it pretty much every day since i've missedit. so is that maybe a reason why i've missedit? i'm so scared cause i'm only 17 and if i get a baby now my whole future will be messed up. i'm also so angry at myself cause i'm usually ALWAYS careful except for that one time when i got carried away :( (link)
Yes it can. If you have ever heard of sympathetic pregnancy. (Cause the pregnant female's partner to have feminine hormones, gain weight, develop larger breasts, and basically cause male pregnancy.) This can also happen to you. This is an autonomic reaction being caused by your mind. You think too much about things and they will happen or be close enough to happening. (within reason) I'm not saying thinking will get you pregnant. But it will cause you to feel and seem pregnant. But keep in mind there are false negatives even with top-shelf pregnancy tests. Some disorders actually make people show negative no matter how long they've been pregnant. So I advise going forward and having an actual doctor investigate for you.


18/f

I'm about to be 19 in a couple of weeks and i think i'm like having a mid life crisis for some reason. I have been watching shows I used to watch when I was like 10 and even looking at my old dolls, ones that i used to collect, i was even looking at the collector dolls considering buying them. I've been watching disney movies and just all sorts of kiddish stuff.

I'm just sad I guess because I know I'm not really a kid anymore. The next 6 years will be hard (i'm getting my masters degree.) and i just won't be a kid anymore. Pretty soon I'll be done with school, married, kids, and then i'm dead. It's just so depressing.

I've always acted older for my age, and grew up too fast. Is it normal to feel this way and act this way? at my age haha (link)
Well then... I am older and still do the same. I still have back thoughts about such things and still even watch cartoons. I remember being a little one and watching Dragonball and Dragonball Z. Loved it. Still do. I have a few thousand pokemon cards from when I was younger and I don't do much with them. But simply having them is enough to make me think about it.

I see exactly where you are coming from and to be honest. I wouldn't be worried about it too much. People go in and out of times in life that cause temporary depression issues. You may be thinking way too much like I often do. Or maybe just seems like things aren't right lately. But remember you are you and your personality is what you like,who you are,what you think and so on.

There's no wrong way to be you. Even if you is liking cartoons and figures and such. Don't be ashamed of you. There are people who go to conventions every few month for anime and toons and dolls/figures. Hell I worked with a guy who was 34-36(can't remember exactly) who had a normal life. Nice house, good job, beautiful wife and awesome kids. Won't put them past annoying but they were nice. He was very mature, although he loved to joke and screw around he knew when to be serious and when it was okay to have fun. EVERY month he had a new convention he went to just to look at collector's action figures. And he didn't just collect them like most, he played with them often. You should be old enough to know better but too young to care at this point and I assume that's about what you are eh? Interests are all you. Many people share the same interests as you, don't be ashamed. I still watch Dragonball and other anime/cartoons a bit. As far as the life thing. Yeah that's how it happens but I think you missed a few points. It's not about where you end up or how you think it's going to be. It's about filling the gaps you left open and enjoying it, making it one to be proud of, never looking back but only to remember. You have a big blank page with your name on it to fill and I know that I'm gonna do my best to make this mofo I got colorful as hell. ;x


I'm M/16. For the past few years my mom and other family members are always asking why I don't hug & kiss them that much. When ever a family member hugs me or something, I feel uncomfortable. When certain things happen, I don't cry and they get mad. Its like they think I don't feel anything. But when they say stuff about me being like this I feel bad. They also get mad at how I don't call them often. It also feels uncomfortable when a friend puts their hand on my shoulder. But when it comes to girls that I like, I do hug them a lot & randomly. I remember feeling stuff too. But I haven't really had a gal in a while. My family always treated me well. Is this normal? They also say that I don't talk to them that much. Is there something wrong with me? (link)
This is completely normal bro. I was the EXACT same way when I was 16. I didn't tell my mother I loved her for almost 2 years.
I felt horrible because I knew it hurt her. But it was just too uncomfortable. I didn't enjoy hugging, kissing, or any more than normal-for-a-friend type activity. Even though daily I had no issue interacting with them as far as being around each other and living period. Although I was fairly sexually active at a young age. Which seemed like an indifference because I didn't mind at all being with a girl in any kind of way you could think. (within reason) The fact that you even cared that they asked and cared enough to come ask us here, shows that you aren't desensitized. You just go through different stages and feel different emotions as opposed to none at all. You will most likely slowly fade out of it and get back to normal and you and everyone else forget all about it. No worries. It's normal.


Ok ima 14 year old girl gone semi wrong. I haven't killed anyone or robbed a fricken bank at gun point, but iv befriended a 33 year old pedifile (dudes that rape kids), a rapest, and have gone onto sites I sooooooo shouldn't have been on!!! Iv got these voices in my head telling me to kill myself and in all honesty I hate my family, or at least a good portion of them. I'm planning on getting a dragon tatoo on my neck and acquire a taste for strong liquor. All im asking is how the hell am I supposed to get my act together? My grades have plummeted and so has everything else and informing out like my uncle and my dad that left befor i was born. Can anyone tell me how to straighten out???? Ppplllzzzz??? (link)
Well. That's either a lot of bull thrown together to screw with people or true. I won't be the judge of which so I'll assume true. My greatest advice with the situation at hand, first you need to lose the pedo friend. Obviously that's the same answer anyone's gonna give you. Although most will tell you to report him. I realize that he has rationed with you that what he has done is okay and fine. So you won't report him. But at least lose him as a friend. If only for your own safety. And for all the rest, Just calm down. Life is a long ride. Not nearly long enough for most people's tastes, but it's quite a while at your age. You have plenty of chances to get it right. Go out and have fun like any other 14 year-old and enjoy life. Yeah, there's hard times and rough patches where we hate it, especially at your age, but that's just how it is. Keep in mind there are a lot of other young women going through the same trials and tribulations you are at your age at this very time. Everything will be alright.


My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a month now, and I am sixteen, and he is eighteen. He is going to the Navy in December, but he says that if we last until I am eighteen, he wants to marry me. He seems really serious about it, and it's not like I'm afraid of committment, but I kinda wonder...

He is extremely mature and when he says something, he means it. I'm not worried about him changing his mind, but should I be cautious with this relationship if he brings it up this early? Or is it really serious?

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It is nowhere near my place to say what is right or wrong in this life. But having it been that this is such a short-term relationship, I would go with "EXTREMELY Cautious" Also you are very young, yet mature enough to have questioned this in your mind.You are sixteen and you have much, MUCH more life to experience and new things to try. I'm just saying you may want to try on a few shoes before you pick which one is most comfortable.


how can fuck at first time (link)
You lose your virginty first. (Not trying to be rude) but, You don't really need to "fuck at first time" if you haven't had the experience yet.




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