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Should I stay with my boyfriend even though he hit me in my mouth?
We had a stupid fight because i sprayed his cologne. We argued and carried attitude for about 30 minutes until he called me a worthless ***** then i asked him why would he get mad just because I sprayed his cologne. He told me to say it again and as i said it he punched me right in the mouth and busted my bottom lip. He said he was angry and didn't mean it. We have been together for since freshman year in high school and this has never happened before. what do you think?
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If he says he didn't mean it, that makes it WORSE. It means he lost control. What's going to stop him when he loses control again? Nothing. Get out of this relationship right now.
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I don't have the ability to answer this question politely so I won't. If you would like to see what in this situation would be my opinion, please message/ask me discretely. I hope you find your way through it though. Good Luck.
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He HIT you!? i think no madder how much you love him or no matter how much he says he didn't mean it, he HIT you! no man should EVER do that! i would break up with him because i feel that the day a guy hits you like that you should get away from him and make sure it NEVER happens again. i know i don't know you but i can say your better then that!
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Trust me I have been in a relationship like this. Please dont be like me. He said he was sorry and he would never do It again and I believed him... every time he did it.
This was the first time but it wont be the last.. He will say that every time he hits you.. I love you I am sorry, I will never do it again, I didnt mean it, Please dont get angry. He might even baby you after it happens.. But this only last for a while. Someday he wont even care.
My Aunt was murdered by her husband who at one point said the same thing I didnt mean to I was just upset Im sorry... Leave him now before it gets worse, before its too late good luck
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Dump him
There should be no tolerance to any sort of level of abuse. Your boyfriend's sorry isn't going to cut the fact that he was way out of line.
He verbally abused you and he physically abused you. No women should have to put up with that, When you forgive someone who abuses you your telling them it's okay. Was it okay for him to hit you? No absolutely not. You could be with someone for years with no problems and all the sudden one day they lash out, It happens. You are better than this, Pack your bags and find someone who will treat you right
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Leave him! You have to. You have to because he is abuisive. It is an endless cycle. He will get so mad and then hit you, then feel bad about it and buy you things, make you feel better so that you dont leave him. Then the cycle starts all over again. I know this may be hard to hear, but you have to leave him. If he can do it once, he can do it again and it might be even worse. Something so small like that setting him off, what if something else bigger happens? You can get really hurt. You dont deserve to be treated like that, nore being disrespected like that. Noone deserves that, no matter how much you guys love eachother.
You have to leave him. You deserve so much more. If a guy punched me, that shows his anger issues and that he has no respect for me. I would istantly leave him, no matter how hard it was. If you love him, which im assuming you do, you have to leave him. If you dont get out now, then his anger issues may continue and even get worse. Then he might prevent you from leaving and that brings so many more issues. This is not your fault, you have to know that. You should leave him. Hope your ok and make the right decision :)
good luck!
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No. No. No.
This is so wrong on so many levels.
He said he was angry? He said didn't mean it?
What about the next time he gets angry? Not to mention he got angry over something absolutely and completely absurd. What on Earth is he going to do if you, lets say, accidentally break something of his?
He said he didn't mean it? If he 'didn't mean it', he shouldn't have done it.
Punching a woman in the mouth is 100 times different than calling them a worthless bitch.
While both are wrong, in the heat of an angry moment calling somebody names to ease your anger is normal.
Punching a woman in the face, is not.
This may be the first time he's ever done such a thing like this. But that's how abusive men work. They act like the perfect boyfriend, and than when you get comfortable and you fall in love with them, that's when they start letting their true colors shine through.
Please. Please get our of this relationship. It only takes one punch to start making it a daily thing.
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