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Hey, my name is Sadie and i need help with life! i am 13 turning 14 and who knew that this age would be so drama felled? Any ways, i am at my moms house for the summer and i have no one to talk to. That is why i joined this site. i have to say this site has helped me more then i thought i would. I have a boyfriend and he is my life right now! sometimes he gets on my nerves but at the end of the day i think about how much i care about him and everything just doesn't madder anymore. We have been dating off and on for about 5 or 6 months now. we just had our very first fight a few weeks ago. I was so upset and sad when this happened. i stopped answering his calls and texts that day. i know he cares about me because he called and apologize soon after we had the fight. i try not to think about him to much because were 500 miles away from each other right now. we haven't seen each other over a month:(
I love to try and help people so if u need help feel free to ask me anything:)
i love listening to music! my favorite song right now is "i wish by the secret handshake!"
I love to hang out with friends!!:) 98% of the time i'm with my friends hanging out having a blast!!
I am a straight A student!!:) i am very proud of my self(:
i CAN'T forget i loooooove taking pictures!
i am such a happy person:) nothing can get me down.
i think drama is stupid and i try and stay out of it.
PLEASE ASK ME A QUESTION I WILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU WITH ANYTHING AND EVERY THING:)
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18/f
So me and my ex-boyfriend broke up twice and got back together twice. The relationship we have is kind of complicated. He broke up with me I guess because of stress and he wasn't able to handle it very well-school's tuition, job, moving out, and family errands. He saw me as a distraction, and broke up with me. Even though we broke up, we still talk to each other. Still tell eachother "i love you" and we still act like a coupe. Not as affectionate, but still as a couple. Kisses now and then, cuddling, etc. We're both really stubborn people, and I have to admit that I'm more stubborn than he is. I just won't give up. A lot of people call me stupid, but I'm the type of person that thinks, "good things come for those who wait" and "hard work pays off." I use these quotes for everything not just for relationships.
The thing is, I don't want to give up. I know where I stand. So is there a way to have him think that I'm not a distraction? Is there a way I can get him back?
in my opinion it sounds like he still likes/love you. if he thinks your a distraction then dont be one. if hes going through a lot then offer to help him with whatever can be helped with just do little things to make things easier. this might make since but it sounds like you guys are perfect for each other, but it seems like that he/ you are not ready to be committed to the relationship. hope ive helped! good luck!
my best friend in the whole intire world told me she was going to go to a school in bixby and ill miss her soooooooo much will she cange will she forget about me will she get a new best friend??????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:(
i know how you feel my best friend moved out of the state 2 weeks before i moved. i thought she was going to forget me and act like i don't exist. i think you should trust her and just be come closer to some of your other friends, i thought my best friend was going to chance, i was right because she started hanging out with the bad kids. im not saying that your friend is going to change it just depends on who she makes friends with and hangs out, you never know she might just stay the same:) i dont think she will forget about you unless you stop talking and you both completely ignore each other. well i hope i have helped! good luck!
well today i started talkn to my ex and i realized that i love him and want him back but i have a bf and i had waited for nmy bf for 3 months to finally come around what should i do!!!
i think that if you truly care about your ex you need to find out if you want your ex over your bf right now. i had a situation like this but i choose me bf over my ex because he hasn't done anything wrong. if he does do something wrong and hurtful break up with him and go to your ex thats what i am doing, but make sure your ex still likes you so you dont break up with your bf for no reason. i know this might be complicated but trust me just go with your gut feeling and do what you think is right. that is what i have been doing and in the end i never went to my ex because with my bf i learned to get over him. good luck! hope i have helped!
message me if you need anything or have any questions:)
Ill be 18 in august/f, 24/m.
Im out of highschool.
I thought I posted this question but it never showed up, so if it posts twice Im sorry.
Just to get things out of the way, maturity is not an issue. Most of the people I chill with are his age or older, and I usually date guys 22+. My parents are okay with this as well. He doesnt care about my age, he just thought I was a lot older.
Ive chilled with this guy a few times in the passed month or two, and I met him through a mutual friend. The first night I met him we were at a show, and we just danced together, talked a bit, and exchanged numbers. I sent a mass text about a week or two after about an event, and he replied 'is this my sexy dance partner?' And we just texted back and forth for a little. Then a few weeks later I saw him at a party and we just chatted for a bit. Then, we hung out with 3 other people a few weeks ago, and after everyone went to sleep or left, we stayed up until 5am talking and we found out we had a lot in common, and I realized I had feelings for him.
I havent chilled with him since just from having different plans or hes out of town. He texts me and we have day long conversations just about whatever, but he never is actually like 'hey what are you doing this weekend?' I know he thinks im attractive and funny.. but I want to get to know each other.
My question is, should I just text him saying 'hey! Lets hang out this weekend! :)' or just wait for him to ask me? My personality is the kind where Id usually ask myself, but I dont want to seem pushy or eager, but I also dont want to play it too cool to where he thinks Im not interested. What should I doooo? Its thursday and I really want to see him!
Thanks :)
I sounds like you guys are perfect for each other! :) i think that you should text him and dont try and play it cool and dont be nervous! just say: "hey,whats up??" then when he answers then just say: "wanna meet up or something this weekend??:)" and just go from there. anyways good luck!
message me with anything you need:)
What are some good songs/quotes about a guy playing you and you knowing it and he thinks you have no idea?
some quotes for a guy playing a girl:
-I wish I was a white crayon. So no one would use me.
some songs:
-my happy ending by Avril Lavigne
-dont bother by Shikira
-get out by jojo
-ain't it funny by Jennifer Lopez
- Over It by Katharine McPhee
-Irreplaceable by Beyonce
hope i have helped!
I know it seems stupid as I'm about to give an example of the type of info here, but this place is different.
Anyway, she just knows my age and gender, what country I live in, that I have a weak stomach, and that I like art and music. There's lots of people like that, right?
I know I'm likely worried over absolutely nothing, I'm just a pretty paranoid person about online friends. It has been pounded into my head that it's "better safe than sorry."
Feel free to flame and call me an idiot, don't even feel bad about it. I just feel kind of nervous..
if you know this person personally then sure its okay to give them this info about you. but if this just some stranger that you randomly started talking to many you shouldn't of given them all that info. you never know what type of people out there and what there capable of. all i'm trying to say is be careful!
lastnight i had a dream of my ex boyfriend. just me and him were hanging out in my room (as friends) with nothing sexual going on. we were play fighting and just talking about funny things. it felt so real, and it made me miss him alot more.
i never got to see his face much in the dream, but i heard and recognized his voice, so i knew it was him. i'm trying hard to get over him but all i want is to be with him again.
why am i having dreams of him?
my guess that your having dreams about him is because you might still like/love him and you want to get back together with him. maybe you just want to be with him again. i know that's how i felt after i broke up with my boyfriend. i had dreams about him to and now were back together and have been dating for 6 months straight now.
14/f
Ok, so the other day my friend and I were hanging out at my house. This friend is jealous because she liked my boyfriend before he asked me out and wants to ruin our relationship. While we were hanging out, she started texting my boyfriend pretending to be me. She was saying really weird things, so I got my phone and texted my boyfriend that all those texts were from her. So then, she takes my phone and starts pretending to be me! I don't know what she told him because she deleted all my sent mail. I asked my boyfriend later and he wouldn't tell me because what she said was too mean. As if that's not enough, this friend knew that once she left I was just going to tell my boyfriend it had all been her. So, I walked her to the door when it was time for her to go and asked to have my phone back (my dad was in the room; he witnessed the whole event.) She told me she left it outside where we had been. I looked out the window and didn't see it, then turned around to find her PUTTING MY CELL PHONE INTO HER BAG. I asked "What are you doing??" and she laughed like it was all some joke and gave the phone to me because my dad was right there. She then asked me to come outside to look at her motorized scooter. I fell for the trap and came out with her. She grabbed the phone from my hand, hopped on her scooter and took off down the block. I started yelling after her and even stared crying! I ran inside and got my mom. We both came out, me in tears and my mom got very mad at my friend and got the phone back. She didn't apologize, so I texted her a few days later and we had a conversation about it and I said to her "we need some time to cool off" cuz I'm not allowed to see her anymore (not that I want to.) All would be fine except we are going to the same high school this fall and we're both trying out for the tennis team and may have the same elective. What should I do when I'm with her in the fall? I'm a really nice person and don't want to be a bitch but she's crazy! I don't want to be friends with her! How should I handle her when I see her again if she tries to talk to me?
You do sound like a nice person so if/when you see her again and if/does talk to you nicely explain that you don't want to talk to her or be friends with her and say that i don't deserve a friend who does what you did, im sorry. or something along those lines. well Good luck!
Hey guys! I just have a really quick question. I gave my boyfriend handjobs and after he came we both washed our hands with soap and water (sometimes twice.) Afterwards he fingered me + there was no wet sperm on the bed. Even I know theres no way this can happen but what are the chances of getting pregnant like this?
i'm pretty sure your safe, haha. you wont have a chance of getting pregnant because his sperm isn't in you and is being injected into you. if that makes since
22/f
me and my best friend (also a girl) have been friends for like 8 years. lately i have had some confusion on weather or not i'm bi but am starting to think more so that i am. well she also is attracted to girls and fools around with them and believes that she might be bi. thing is i feel like i may like her more than friends...idk if i should try talking to her about it or not. just confused about the whole thing.
I think you should talk to her face to face and see how you both feel. if she doesn't feel anything maybe you shouldn't worry about it. but if she says she does have feelings for you, you should try dating or see what type of relationship you guys are capable of having. i think that if you really care about her you should at least try and talk to her. i hope you do whats right. good luck! if you need more advice ask me anytime:)
My boyfriend always ignores me. He complained I was clingy and we argued for about three days over it. And then made up. But still, I felt weird when we hung out, scared almost. I was scared to say or do certain things in case I came off as clingy. We went through the day just fine. And afterwards he didn't even call or text and every time I give him space he doesn't bother to answer.
I mean first the relationship was perfect. And then it just went downhill... He said we'll fix it but he isn't doing his part and whenever I text or call to talk about it, he ignores me. My mom said to ignore him even if he ends up contacting me, but I just wanna get it over with. Should I break up with him or go with my mom's plan?
Your mom maybe right. i think you should try what she said and if that doesn't work then you should break up. it sounds like you really care about him but it also seems like he is having trouble caring about you or at least showing he cares.
I just feel like giving up. Every since me ex wife and I divorced she has made it her purpose in life to ruin me. I gave her the house in divorce and asked for nothing in return. She was ordered to get the house refinanced and has not. She wont even let me see my daughter by making excuses everytime I try to see my daughter. I really feel like killing myself. I have no money and am always stressed out. I cant take it anymore. I cant afford a lawyer, maybe I wasnt suppose to be here. I just bought a gun and st first I was scared to use it but I am losing that fear.
DO NOT KILL YOURSELF! think about your daughter. do you really want your daughter to live life knowing that her dad killed himself??? i know i wouldnt. My parents got divorced to. i HATED it. i felt the same way that you do. my dad didnt want my mom to see me, we even moved 500 miles away so she couldnt see me. life is a gift. dont take it away. you never know what will happen. when something bad happens at the end something good will happen. i hope/pray you do not kill your self. i also pray that in the end everything will get better for you.
12 Female.
Theres this boy i know i've been hanging out with him since the beginning of summer. We have hugged & all that. But today when i was laying down my sister was at the corner of the bed and he was next to her & then i was next to him. He kept holding my hand, & making me feel all loved by him. Then at times he would put his face right near mine. Then finally he kissed me... He hugged me & held my hand, he kept moving his head shaking yes & no. I told him what was wrong? & He asked me out. I didnt know what to say. A Few Minutes After he leaned again and i kissed him but he wanted to make out but i didnt so he stopped and gave me a kiss on the cheek & forehead.Not sure what i wanna do/:
Dont worry about it. if you just want to take things slow and just kiss then tell him that. if you do want to make out with him them just do it. its nothing to be afraid to do it, you might be scared cause you might think that you dont know how. thats what i thought. but really i just knew what to do. i kinda wish i didnt make out with my boyfriend because now were kinda taking it fast . . he always talks about wanting to sleep with me and every day he wants to make out and things like that. and hes always touching me every second he has. but any ways good luck!
I've been dating my boyfriend since June 8th. It was perfect from the first time we met. We had good chemistry and a lot of things in common, with the same interests and quirky silly attitudes, to the love of animals and art. He and I got along so great.
In the weeks that followed, it couldn't be any better between us. He was everything I wanted, complimenting and comforting me, so loving and so romantic. He always showed me he cared and never let me down. He told me how much he loved me everyday and made so much time for me and invited me to family events. His family really enjoyed me. But somehow it all went downhill. I became punished and got my phone taken and wasn't allowed to see him but when I was off punishment he practically died when he heard I was back. He was so excited. Everything went great and we called each other every night, but then around Thursday, things just got sour. He ignored me all day and I got worried. We got in an argument because I got scared and he didn't tell me he was out drinking, so on and so forth. The next day everything was fine. He apologized and so did I, and it went smooth. However, yesterday wasn't so good. I called him and he ignored my call but answered my texts saying that he is awake. He stopped texting me back and then I stopped talking to him and asked what was wrong. He said I was too clingy and he got mad from what I did Thursday. So I gave him space. Today he and I are supposed to go to the river and he was told to wake up at ten but he isn't answering and I'm upset. He disappoints me all the time. I love him but I don't know what to do anymore.
this sounds like you guys really care about each other. when me and my boyfriend got in a fight for the very first time my friends told me that every good relationship the people have fights. i thought that was true but he started getting rude. im still with him. my advice for you is to just let it blow by and give it a rest for a few days maybe a little longer. if its still not working then maybe its just time you guys break up.
We had a stupid fight because i sprayed his cologne. We argued and carried attitude for about 30 minutes until he called me a worthless ***** then i asked him why would he get mad just because I sprayed his cologne. He told me to say it again and as i said it he punched me right in the mouth and busted my bottom lip. He said he was angry and didn't mean it. We have been together for since freshman year in high school and this has never happened before. what do you think?
He HIT you!? i think no madder how much you love him or no matter how much he says he didn't mean it, he HIT you! no man should EVER do that! i would break up with him because i feel that the day a guy hits you like that you should get away from him and make sure it NEVER happens again. i know i don't know you but i can say your better then that!
My boyfriend and i have been together since 2mths..
i love him alot..he is gud 2 me and says he is serious wid me 2..
whenever we meet he is nice to me but once daily life routine starts he stops texting me..
i really gt annoyed wid his behaviour..
and everytime he has a excuse ever ready with him..
what you think should i cope up with him cuz i love him or move on without him?
if you love him stay with him. if it annoys you think about if that annoys you more then you love him. if you love him more stay but if it annoys you more break up with him.
I had the weirdest dream about my boyfriend John last night. He has told me he wants to marry me but I've been cautious about believing it. However, I've had a weird series of dreams lately.
Last night I had a dream I was wearing a light yellow dress in front of a mirror, and I walked out into the hallways of his house, and out into the courtyard. His parents smiled at me and his mom kissed my cheek and was squealing excitedly saying how pretty I look and such, and my boyfriend came over and he took my hands and sat me down next to him. His little sister is two and she climbed up into my lap and pointed to the baby that appeared in my boyfriend's arms. His parents started taking pictures of us and after that my boyfriend took me into this really fancy decorated room that looked like a hotel and he smiled and kissed me and told me that he's so happy that this day is all about us and he turned on the tv and hopped on the bed and I changed out of my dress into pajamas and cuddled up next to him, and my mom came in with her boss and they were both crying and congratulating us with big grins and gave me bouquets of white roses and asked where we were going for our special night, and they gave me a little blue book and told me to fill it up with all of the memories and good moments with my boyfriend. Then the dream ended. It was really weird.
I also had a dream once, where I was in a jewelry store. It was a blurry dream, and I was standing over a glowing glass case full of rings and John kissed my head and slipped a ring on my finger but took it off and looked at another.
Could it be my mind just fantasizing or could these dreams really mean something?
i think you could just be fantasizing. i don't know, it could mean something. it sounds like you are very happy with him. if your dreams do mean something believe that he wants to marry you and that he loves you. maybe your dreams are telling you to believe him and then you;ll be together and happily married.
i'm actually starting university this year (in a few months), the problem is that i always wanted to study abroad but now my parents(now divorced) do not have the finance, so i am stuck in the local university, and this is really tormenting me, so much that i do not even sleep some days... :( please tel me how to live with it..thank you :)
my parents are divorced too. i hate that fact that they are but what can you do you know??i think a way to help you sleep is to do physical fitness stuff to make you really tired, that's what i do. i'm in boxing and i still have time to study. it makes me so tired i have no problem sleeping.
OhKayy. Let's see how this gonna start off ... So . My bestfriend is movinq next week or next month and she is haveinq trouble with these 2 boys... 1 is her ex-boyfriend charles and the other 1 is a boy who she used 2 tlk 2 lik 1 or 2 weeks ago and to give you background on her ex-boyfriend i can truthfully say he treats her wrong and he broke up with her for another girl and he also my cusin .. like my favorite cusin. Ohkay. dah boy she use to talk to his name is chris their background is they had some fights and she had one incident with his sister .. Well to say his sister cussed my bestfriend out because my bestfriend tlked proper and said she got an attitude with her (which she didnt because i was there when she did and the situation was on ooVoo) anyways the situation is that she says if she moves back or visit bak if charles (her ex-boyfriend) and chris ( the boy she used 2 talk 2) still liked her she will choose charles and i believe thats the wrong chose 2 be truthfully if i was in her shoes i will choose neither am i'm right??
If she's moving and might come back to visit i think she shouldn't choose any of them. i think you are right because why come back into town and cause drama.(if there was a problem that caused drama.)
Guys call me boo,babe,baby,beautiful.. ect. What are names I should call guys?
guys call me things like that too. i call them things like that back. me and my boyfriend always talk and if he calls me babe i call him baby if he calls me honey i call sweetie. just things like that.