|
Just wait? or make a move?
Ill be 18 in august/f, 24/m.
Im out of highschool.
I thought I posted this question but it never showed up, so if it posts twice Im sorry.
Just to get things out of the way, maturity is not an issue. Most of the people I chill with are his age or older, and I usually date guys 22+. My parents are okay with this as well. He doesnt care about my age, he just thought I was a lot older.
Ive chilled with this guy a few times in the passed month or two, and I met him through a mutual friend. The first night I met him we were at a show, and we just danced together, talked a bit, and exchanged numbers. I sent a mass text about a week or two after about an event, and he replied 'is this my sexy dance partner?' And we just texted back and forth for a little. Then a few weeks later I saw him at a party and we just chatted for a bit. Then, we hung out with 3 other people a few weeks ago, and after everyone went to sleep or left, we stayed up until 5am talking and we found out we had a lot in common, and I realized I had feelings for him.
I havent chilled with him since just from having different plans or hes out of town. He texts me and we have day long conversations just about whatever, but he never is actually like 'hey what are you doing this weekend?' I know he thinks im attractive and funny.. but I want to get to know each other.
My question is, should I just text him saying 'hey! Lets hang out this weekend! :)' or just wait for him to ask me? My personality is the kind where Id usually ask myself, but I dont want to seem pushy or eager, but I also dont want to play it too cool to where he thinks Im not interested. What should I doooo? Its thursday and I really want to see him!
Thanks :)
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I sounds like you guys are perfect for each other! :) i think that you should text him and dont try and play it cool and dont be nervous! just say: "hey,whats up??" then when he answers then just say: "wanna meet up or something this weekend??:)" and just go from there. anyways good luck!
message me with anything you need:)
]
ask him :) He's probably just waiting for you to make the first move. You never really know unless you try!
If he says no, well that sucks. Thats life. Just keep on talking to him. There's nothing wrong with just being close friends if it doesn't work out.
PS: guys like when girls are brave and confident. He will think that if you make the first move, especially since you're younger than him. He won't expect it and it'll surprise him :)
]
More Questions: |