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My name is Jordyn. I am 13 years old. i live in Southington, Ct. I have braces, glasses and i also have diabetes. I'm going into 8th grade this year. Next year i'll be at the Southington High School.

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what would a 13 year old guy look for in a 13 year old girl? my friend(who is a girl and im a guy) asked me what does a guy look for in a girl and im not completely sure what i look for
so some point of views from 13 year old guys or older would be helpful but i dont care whio answers this question

what 13 year old guys would look for in a girl is that she has a great personality, she's into what ever your into, smart. The first thing that you would ask her is what is her special quality about her, like her eyes or something like that.

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my friend always talks bout me behind my back, and im soooo sick ov her shit! She wont stop, but i want to keep being her friend. what should i do?

if your friend is talking behind your back, don't be her friend. Tell her if she doesn't stop the crap that she's saying, then tell her that you don't need a friend like her.

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I've liked this girl for awhile now, and I've been thinking about asking her out, but how can I figure out if she likes me?

ask her if she likes you or if your to shy to ask her, write her a note and put it in a spot where she would find it and in the note ask her to respond to the note.

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what are some preppy nice colorful backgrounds for myspace? can anyone give me pics or a website? Thanks

www.myspacemaster.net try this. I use this for my myspace layout to. I really like it.

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ok so ive liked a guy for 3 years
just aske him if he liked me
he said no
thats not problem...
problem is weve been window painting there car
so same night he said he didnt like me
they come attack my car
i want to stop talkin to them
to get over this guy
but my friend thinks war and the guy says war now
im lost
i cant get over him if i keep talking to him
what do i do

don't talk to him. if he talks to you tell him how you feel.

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17/f

Most days when I go to school I have a severely bloated, painful and uncomfortable stomach. I'm thin but I have a really uncomfortable stomach all day and I don't feel like eating. It isn't just my stomach but all of my insides hurt. I usually find that this happens when I still have food in my stomach from dinner when I wake up again in the morning.
How can I stop this from happening? It's so horrible.

you should tell your mom and see if you can get an appointment with your doctor and see what he/she says.

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I was born with a small mark that looks sort of like a blood blister/hickey combination. It's rather noticeable, because it's on my arm; and many people comment on it... I want it gone.


My mom insists that I should leave it there because it's a part of me, but it attracts unwanted attention and can't be covered by any sort of makeup- trust me, I've tried. And it's ugly.


Does anyone know what it might be called, or how it could be removed?

you could ask your mom to call your doctor and make an appointment and tell them that you would like it removed. My cousin had that same problem, except it was on her neck. So anyway what they did was they gave me Novocaine to numb it and then they just scrapped it off and then they just put a steril pad over it and you can't get it wet for a few days or so. my cousin said it works and she was happy that its gone

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im going to be a freshman in high school and i havent had a boyfriend yet. pretty much all of my friends have. i feel like im doing something wrong, but i dont know what. is anyone else in this situation? or has been? i need adviceee. haha

sometimes its okay to not have a boyfriend. maybe later on in life you'll find someone special and have a relationship.

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I went to France for a while to practice my French, and on my last night out I went out to town (well I went out every night with the same people) but I ended up getting quite drunk, and I was with this amazing guy all night.
He made three attempts to kiss me, but I didn't react (basically because I don't usually do things with guys when I'm drunk, unless I'm dating them) but now I'm back home and I regret it so much.
I don't think I'm ever going to see him again, but I have his number and msn.
He lives in a different country...but I just regret it.
It would've been one night of fun and me being happy.

I don't have a boyfriend at the moment, but there's a potential...but I don't know.
I need to get over this regret...
What would be the best way to do that?

what you need to do is to call the guy and just talk and say to him that you were the drunken one.

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I'm a gal and I am totally in love with this guy(im 14 which I know is too early so let's call it a crush) I decided to do something about it when this other girl asked him out. And they became close. But not as close as me and him still are. He spends more time with me than with her, but they are still going out. What should I do?

Dear Guyz,
You should tell this guy how you are feeling and tell him that you like him. Tell him that him being with another girl is making you feel uncomfortable and that you should tell him that if he is still hanging out with this girl, tell him that he doesn't need a girl who is right for him.

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Rightho, I've been on the pill for 21 days now, and am now on a break. First, I may as well tell you I've been taking it pretty much exactly the same time each day and to the letter of the instructions, which are:

*Take a pill on the first day of your period, and take it for 21 days. Then take a break for seven days. You should have a lighter and shorter period within these seven pill-free days.

I'm not too worried, as I have taken all 21 pills and I'm on my break of 7 days - but I'm on the third day and still no period. My period normally lasts about 8 days, but when i started taking it it lasted a full 10 days and was much heavier.

Is this lack of a period simply the way my body is reacting to the pill in the first few months?

Me and my boyfriend have had sex, but it has been protected with a condom as well as the pill this month. Could I be pregnant?

During these seven pill free days I was advised its fine to have unprotected sex; so me and my boyfriend yesterday decided to try it. Because he wasn't lubricated enough it was quite painful for him, so we'll be investing in some, and we never finished - I mean, he didn't come in me.

I know pre-come could contain some sperm, but as I'm on the pill, I'd think considering the one time I did have unprotected sex, he didn't even finish, it would be unlikely I was pregnant.

I'm sorry for bothering you!

Could I be pregnant?
Is it just my body reacting to the pill?
Thanks! :)

Dear late period and pill,
Your body might just be reacting to the pill because sometimes when you go on pills for 21 days, your body could be reacting with with. No i don't think you could be pregnant. You just might want to have a test done to see if you are pregnant or not.

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heyy im 13 years old i would like to no something im in bif trouble you see...i kinda stole my moms hair straightner and i used it for a year and now its not working but she never used it anyways she doesn't even no wheres it is...and im feeling guilty i no the best thing to tell the truth but its soo scary im sooo clueless but its eating me up inside i really dont wanna tell what should i say? can i not tell and prmise i'll never do this stuff again cuz i really wont...i mean everyone has stuff they did bad that they keep 2themselves rii please help im soo sad:(

Dear Lieing,
You could always tell your mom the truth and after you tell her that you had it, tell her that you will buy her a new one and ask her to use it when you need to.

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