I'm a gal and I am totally in love with this guy(im 14 which I know is too early so let's call it a crush) I decided to do something about it when this other girl asked him out. And they became close. But not as close as me and him still are. He spends more time with me than with her, but they are still going out. What should I do?
jordyn011395 answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 9:56 am: Dear Guyz,
You should tell this guy how you are feeling and tell him that you like him. Tell him that him being with another girl is making you feel uncomfortable and that you should tell him that if he is still hanging out with this girl, tell him that he doesn't need a girl who is right for him. [ jordyn011395's advice column | Ask jordyn011395 A Question ]
Volleyball2150 answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 8:57 am: there is nothing you can really do. just spend time with him but beware... dont spend too much time with him otherwise his girlfriend is thinking that you are trying to steal him away and that will just get so messy and ugly.
dont try to win him over because like i said, its just too much drama and you are 14. there should be no drama for a 14 year old. so for now, just be friends with him and when they break up... wait a few days and ask him out yourself
it is very important to wait a few days otherwise he will know that you wanted them to break up. instead he would want you to be there for him when they do break up. and not celebrate. capiche?? [ Volleyball2150's advice column | Ask Volleyball2150 A Question ]
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