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Im Tori , I live in The UK , So i speak english and some french.

I love Europe , France , Luxembourg ..etc.

Ive been through a lot , so i Can give advice to about everything , but dont ask about technology ok??!!

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When your a teenage girl , your body goes through a LOT.

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alright so i have this friend she moved away to another part of the state i call her mir i love that girl to death we were practicly attached to the hip we never left eachothers side we were like sisters. once she moved i felt lost. shes been gone for two months and we talk on the phone every night but tonight was the worst. she was telling me how she felt crazy like losing her mind. she said she felt like she was gonna die in someway like in her sleep or in a car wreck. she even told me that she almost drown her lil brother in the pool and she didnt even remember it.also she told me she finds herself talking to herself and has scary moments like someones watching her...i dont wanna think my best friends crazy i wanna help her but shes so far away and i miss her alot...and she has no one to talk it out with except me
how do i help her?
whats she going through?
what do i tell her to make her feel better? (link)
Well its ovious that you were very very close and this is a very hard time for her , especially as its only been 2 months , it will get better, tell a parent and try and ask her why shes doing this.
Keep in contact , you will completey lose her if you just call , maybe once or twice a year arrange to meet up , if she is very far away you might need to consider making new friends.

If she continues , ask her to ask for help , if missing you is making her going crazy , maybe only call her once a week , calling every day will make the pain worse , this will be difficult , but tomorow , get her on the phone and have a nice long chat.

You just need to reconsider things , i think if it is impossible to see her reguarly , you need to make some new friends and so does your friend , but dont lose contact with her , keep meeting up.

Just tell her its going to be okay , never blank her out completely , but you both need some space .

Try making a big group of friends , instead of joining yourself at the hip with someone cos when they leave , its hurts.

Good luck!!!

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where can i buy the barry m eyeliners? in store or online?

if in a store, what store? walgreens? or? (link)
oh.You live in the usa dont you!! , soz im from the uk .

okay then .... most american pharmacies and stuff.

lol


whats the best eyeliner around?


cheap and expensive

and i mean pencil, liquid and gel eyeliners , =]


tell me the brand and price (link)
i found some examples -barry m is my personal fave-

http://www.barrym.co.uk/products/product.asp?id=104

http://www.barrym.co.uk/products/product.asp?id=101

http://avonshop.co.uk/shop/product_list.asp?level1_id=700&level2_id=701&pdept_id=965&dept_id=1049&cat_type=C

hope these help!!


My friend had unprottected sex on day 7 (july21) of her mestral cycle. She asked me to read up on it for her and all I found was that your most likely to get pregnant between days 6-19 (july 19- august1). is this true? if so how likely is she to be pregnant and when should she take a test? (link)
I think she should take the test straight away. the test will tell you if shes pregnant , if she insn't , ok , but she should be more careful , you need to explain the dangers of unprotected sex.

If she is , tell a parent IMMEDIATLY, they will respect you for coming to them.

here are some sites if you need help--

brook.org.uk
ruthinking.co.uk
the sexual help helpline-
0800 567123


hi, I've had my belly button pierced for about 2 months and I've changed it once, steralyzing (sp) the jewelery and washing my hands before. the top part of the piercing is a little red around it and kind of sore, could this be an infection? also, I clean it regularly. (link)
If its red its probably sore , so an infection might be the problem , so i would go to the place you got it pierced or a doctor to check it out.

Dont worry , piercing infections are very common.


Okay, I know this may sound stupid.
But is it possible for a guy to pee while he's releasing sperm?
Like basicly peeing in you?
Just wondering. (link)
I dont have any experience with sex but with all the juices coming out anyway , i dont really think it matters.


So I was checkin out my cousins myspaces the other day...
Lets say Her name is Lauren.
And his is Ryan.

Well I hung out with Lauren about five days ago and she was talkin about these two guys she liked. But then today i read her "about me" on Myspace. And it was talkin about how she's done with guys cuz there all the same. And they all break her heart. So do you think this is just a phase for her? (shes 16 going on 17)

Then theres my cousin Ryan. I dont talk to him much. But i looked at his Myspace today and in his "orietation" space it said "Not Sure." So do you think that means theres a chance of him being gay? (hes 13)

Well Im just curious about whats up with them... Please and thank you.

love rachel (link)
Hes probably just joking , or he just put im not sure cos as a teenager your totally confused , so you might start fancying a person of the same gender , but just for a period of time , and that doesnt make you gay.

i wouldnt worry about it , and whats wrong with being gay?


what would a 13 year old girl look for in a thirteen year old guy? (link)
you came to the right person.
im 13 and a girl.Bingo.

we like sensitive boys , cute boys , funny , smart (or put a lot of effort into school) , but not a swot , bit of a rebel , doesnt change around his mates.

good luck


Okay. So, I had sex for the first time tonight. Going into it, since i was a virgin, I knew it was going to hurt. And... it did. It wasn't horrible pain or anything but it was kind of like... the first time being fingered in the sense that I hadn't had that much in me before. It felt slightly good but slightly uncomfortable and a bit painful. It also didn't help that he was going for a longg time. Haha. I want to be able to really enjoy sex. My question is... will it get better? How long will it take until I actually enjoy this? Any experiences/comments? Thanks! (link)
Dont worry , when you first have sex your hymen breaks and its painful , but on the second time , your hymen is broken and your body is used to it.

So you can now enjoy it !
Use protection ! , lol


so i think im about to tell my crush i like him.
how the heck do i start!? u can't tell by his reactions if he likes someone and i really don't want rejection. how do know that its the right moment to tell him? i won't even see him much till next year. besides church and wednesdays...
im thinkning i should wait till high school.
idk if you can help, please do =] (link)
Well first of all , send a few more hints out to get a good reaction.
What do you have to lose?
If you ask him and he says i like you to , brilliant!!
but if he says sorry , i like someone else , then thats ok , thats how life goes , and you can move on , thats better than having the annoying

'what if' in your head.


15/f

Could any girl here please help me with some eye linner and eye shadow advice please? I have dark dark brown eyes and my skin is caramel my eye lashes are a good length so for eye linner I use black pencil because I've been told it goes good with my eyes and skin texture but I'm having a lot of trouble with eye shadow =/ I don't know which color to use . . I've been using a gold eye shadow but I'm tired of using the same color eye shadow... anyone know what color I should try? And diffrent ways to apply it? Thanks :] (link)
Because of your skin colour dont go for anything to bold , go for caramels and stuff , peaches would look good , glitters always looks good with dark skin but dont over do it!

Use a good mascara and a dark brown or black eyeliner .

experiment at boots because they always have makeup for you to try on , its all about being yourself.


hey i am looking for a really cute, practical, small laptop case for my macbook. i want it to protect it well. what are your suggestions? (link)
Well i found this

http://www.laptopessentials.co.uk/laptopstore/index.php?cPath=16_54

But go unto ebay if that doesnt help :)


my boyfriend and i of 2 years broke up and he already has another gf.. and i dunno what to do.. i cant handle him being with her.. shes a bitch and doesnt even care abt him.. he says he still loves me but i dunno if thts true because he rates his love for me on a scale. like 1-100 and i dont get it.. (link)
Well , firstof all welcome to the confusing time called Adolencence!!

Your jealous because hes already going out with someone , as if he didnt care about the relationship , but he does.

Boys dont show feeling , but i guess hes hurting inside but doesnt want to show it , hes probably trying to make you jealous!!

I would move on , the m,ore you dream of him , the more itll hurt.
Get rid of everything that reminds you of him , and avoid him , the pain will go away.

And if shes treating him like a bitch then they probably wont last long.
But try and look out for over cute guys , this guy is just getting you down.

hope i helped!!
good luck!




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