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what do girls look for in guys?
what would a 13 year old girl look for in a thirteen year old guy?
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I'm not 13, I'm 16, but I'll try to help you out anyways...
It really varies from girl to girl. Everybody has different preferences and turn ons and turn offs.
Some girls like athletes, some girls like boys in drama. Some girls like funny, outgoing and social guys, some like quiet shy bookworm guys.
Personally? I'd go for the theater guy over the basketball player, and the bookworm over the socialite. But that's just me ;]
Personality wise, here are my top 5:
1. A good sense of humor.
- A good sense of humor is always beneficial. And not a stupid "that's what she said!" sense of humor, somebody who can genuinely make an original joke. Making a girl laugh is one of the best things you can do in an effort to "win her heart".
2. Intelligence.
-Being smart is good, too. Us girls don't want to talk to somebody who can't count higher than 10, or who doesn't understand what's happening in the world. You don't have to be a total know it all, just smart enough to hold a decent conversation.
3. Nice guys.
- Nice guys DON'T finish last. If you compliment a girl, chances are she won't forget it any time soon. However, if you're mean to a girl, she'll remember for A LOT longer.
4. A good appearance.
- I'm not going to lie and don't think I'm shallow, but looks are all you have to go on for the first few minutes of knowing somebody. So if you're shirts half untucked, your shoes are untied, and your hair is unbrushed and a mess, chances are girls won't be into it.
5. Showing interest/having similar interests.
- I cannot tell you how attractive it is when I'm talking to a guy and he asks my favorite band, and the replies with, "I love The Rocket Summer, too!" Ask questions, and tell her when you like something she likes. If you have a lot in common, your relationship will go a lot farther than if you have nothing in common.
Those, however, are just the things I like but like I said, it's different for different girls. But a good sense of humor and giving a girl compliments are DEFINETE ins.
-Laura. (16-f)
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Well i am almost 16, but i can help. You got to be nice, but also stick up for the girl if she needs it. DONT BE A PANSY! haha. And dont be concieted or talk about the size of your dick. Because quite frankly we all know when you brag about the size, its really small. Be a LITTLE BIT of a rebel. And dont be afraid to hold a girls hand in front of his friends. But dont be obsessed with sex. Its disgusting and not attractive what so ever. Respect her. Make her laugh. And be sensitive. Dont be afraid to hold her when she is crying. Know when to be serious and when to be fun.
-hayley
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you came to the right person.
im 13 and a girl.Bingo.
we like sensitive boys , cute boys , funny , smart (or put a lot of effort into school) , but not a swot , bit of a rebel , doesnt change around his mates.
good luck
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