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she needs me bad!!! i need answerz
be prepared to read this you may believe me and want to help me and if you dont then leave!
alright so i have this friend she moved away to another part of the state i call her mir i love that girl to death we were practicly attached to the hip we never left eachothers side we were like sisters. once she moved i felt lost. shes been gone for two months and we talk on the phone every night but tonight was the worst. she was telling me how she felt crazy like losing her mind. she said she felt like she was gonna die in someway like in her sleep or in a car wreck. she even told me that she almost drown her lil brother in the pool and she didnt even remember it.also she told me she finds herself talking to herself and has scary moments like someones watching her...i dont wanna think my best friends crazy i wanna help her but shes so far away and i miss her alot...and she has no one to talk it out with except me
how do i help her?
whats she going through?
what do i tell her to make her feel better?
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Well its ovious that you were very very close and this is a very hard time for her , especially as its only been 2 months , it will get better, tell a parent and try and ask her why shes doing this.
Keep in contact , you will completey lose her if you just call , maybe once or twice a year arrange to meet up , if she is very far away you might need to consider making new friends.
If she continues , ask her to ask for help , if missing you is making her going crazy , maybe only call her once a week , calling every day will make the pain worse , this will be difficult , but tomorow , get her on the phone and have a nice long chat.
You just need to reconsider things , i think if it is impossible to see her reguarly , you need to make some new friends and so does your friend , but dont lose contact with her , keep meeting up.
Just tell her its going to be okay , never blank her out completely , but you both need some space .
Try making a big group of friends , instead of joining yourself at the hip with someone cos when they leave , its hurts.
Good luck!!!
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