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so theres this boy


Question Posted Wednesday July 30 2008, 1:47 am

female/18

okay so there is this boy that im falling for. he is so great! i like him A LOT...problem is... i cant tell if likes me too or if he is just being a friend. he flirts with me,i flirt with him and he is always hinting things that suggest he likes me but then will say just kidding or something silly after.i get so confused like the other day we were talking and he asked why i talk to him all the time and i was like hmm idk:)(even though i wanted to be like bc im crushing on you so bad) and i asked him the same and he said bc your a fun person to talk to and then was like what do you want me to say and i just said idk i guess i was just wondering but then he was like would you have rather me said bc your beautifully wonderfully amazingly extravagantly gorgeous and smart? and i was like WOW i love that answer and then he said yeah "if only it were true haha jk"...i just get really confuse and i want to tell him so bad how i feel for him but i just dont know how to tell him or even hint it...any suggestions??


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Alypink answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 9:39 am:
Hi!!!!
Ok well guys as i've said to other girls r really weird hehe...
But there r some ways to read him like an open book, because yeah we girls have instincts hehe...
Ok what I've noticed from the info you've given is that he says some stuff like he means it and then its like: "boom"! he says it's jk or something like that... And that behavior is totally normal in lots of guys...
Believe me, from experience, guys sometimes when the're getting the nerve to tell you something and finally do, they just back out and say it was jk... cause they're afraid of what you'll say... Cause like think about this: Why would someone tell you that you're beautiful, wonderful, amazing, etc etc... I mean they wouldn't waste saliva haha... So I think he's just nervous and is afraid...
So anyways on how to tell him, he hinted you a lot from what i've heard... So if i were you (i've done this), just hint him more than ever and flit a lot, yes, A LOT...
If he's no a retard (which I think not hehe), then he will know you like him and probably take the first step and tell you :D
If he doesn't, then he's proably shy, so you tell him hehehe...
anyways I hope I helped!
anything else please just inbox (I love to help :D)
toodles
Aly~

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 9:33 am:
you can try being direct with him?
i mean, he must tell you must be crushing on him. if you're leaving the usual hints. just that sometimes theyre just as shy as us, when it comes to making the first move.. there's no harm in being straighfoward in my opinion.. and im sure that if he's not interested, maybe he won't be a big jerk and brag to everyone nor stop talking to you.. good luck :)

flirty

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