Hi everyone!
My name is Alexandra!
But my nickname's Aly. And as you can see I love the color pink hehehe i really do.(but you probably don't care) so anyways I'm here to help out anyone with their questions, concerns, etc..
So ask me! And if I know i'll be more than happy to answer!
lots of love
Aly~
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: July 28, 2008
Answers: 44
Last Update: July 30, 2008
Visitors: 3470
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In your opinion, how stupid are boys? (link)
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Hi!!!
Well depends on the boy...
Some r totally clueless, and by totally clueless I mean REALLY...
But others r smart, sweet, sensitive...
So it really depends...
Hope one day you find one, let's just say not stupid...
Hope I helped!
toodles
Aly~
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Well, I don't know is my answer, I would like to know him better, but not in that way. (link)
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Ok, well then I think (from what I read in your question) that you think you don't have a chance (seeing as he is possibly straight)... Anyways, I say you should put in your mind you can't be with him you know? Cause those feelings r in vain... I don't mean to sound like this but i think it's for the best... Anyays get to know him better, who knows?? maybe he isn't straight hehe...
So my advice is:
1. Don't think you're the class loser... and make your self esteem higher...
2.Get to know him as a friend... (who knows)?
3. And if it does't work out, find what's best for you (sexual orientation)
And work it out from there...
Hope this worked!!
Anything else just inbox, and i'll answer gladly!
toodles
Aly~
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heyyy ok i have natural curly & kinda frizzy hair. i get soooo many compliments on it because the curls are so perfect and stuff..but i still like to straighten it. soo i have this ceramic straighter that i bought for 80$ and it takes me like an hour to do my hair perfectly straight..but then wen i go out it gets kinda wavy at the bottom and it gets a little puffier.i HATE wen that happens.what shouuld i do to prevent this? should i put any creams, sprays, or anything before or after i straighthen?thanKs SO much for the hlep!! (link)
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Hi!!!!
Well my hair used to be like that...
looked great when I was done but when i walked outside it went: "poof"! anyways now it doesn't (it's not perfect, but it looks good)...
I use with my hair damp, mark heat styling protection, then I use a bit of sunsilk cream for straight hair (if you have a doubt on this let me know), or pantene for straight hair (which is also a cream). whichever i find first. Then i straighten it and put some avon drops (or something like that)...
And this works just fine!
Any doubt on the products just inbox me!
toodles
Aly~
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im 14/f
if it matters?
well here goes...(sorry it's so long)
i've liked this guy since about january
he lead me on
he flirted ALOT!
so natrually i flirted back and began to like him
this continued for a few months and during those few months i had my friend ask him out for me a couple times and he said no...
which got me real confused
i didnt understand why he would flirt so much
but not date me
my best guy friend told him if he didnt like me that he should stop leading me on
but he didnt
so it kept on
close to the end of the year
there was a field trip for all the good kids at school(my parents didnt let me go)
so my best guy friend,the flirt,and me stayed at school with everyone else who couldnt go
there was alot of hugging and flirting going on
a game of truth or dare started up and i got dared
to kiss the flirt and well i did it that day we started going out than i thought everything was going good and he dumped me a week later
well the last day of school came along and that day he kissed me good bye but little did i know i would be seeing him again...
my friend invited him to her pool party
he showed up
we hugged
we flirted
we kissed
ALOT!!!
i saw him a week later and only got one hug
it was like nothing ever happend
could someone please tell me what to do im usually pretty good about all of this crap but im so confused.Thanx in advance (link)
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Hi!!!
So i know it's confusing, but hey! no fear, I'm here... haha jk... anyways seems to me like he's using u... you know the attitude of i'll be with you when I want... I'll kiss you, hug you, Or do whatever I want,when i want... So don't let him (or you could talk to him, show your feelings bkah blah all that stuff) it's better to not let him do that... Hey, there r lots of guys out there (although it may seem like all the cute good ones r taken)...
So anyways that is just MY and entirely My point of view (no guarantee)...
anyways hope this helped
anything else inbox!!
toodles
Aly~
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so my fams going on a vacation and wnen i was younger my cuzins how im going with would be relly mean to me callin me all sorts of names and they even hit me before.it has stopd now cuz it only happens when i live with them. but whenever im with them we all ways fight but only with words i have to be with then for hours of flights and i dont know if i can handle it being with them 24/7 and theres no just "walking away" on a plane and im on ship the rest of the time so i cant relly get away from them
what should i do?
how do i stop form going crazy??
eney why to get away form them???
p.s. they get worst when there friends are around and one of there friends is going with us!!!
thanks a bunch
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Hi!!!!
Ok so let's get to the point: they make your life impossible!! All they want to do is bug you, and people who bug others get totally mad when they can't... What I mean is if you ignore them they'll totally get tored of doing it, and it having no effect... (believe me, I bug my sis and when she ignores me, I stop hehehe)...
I know you're thinking:"Its not that easy". But in a while they will stop if you ignore them, the really will... ANYWAYS why should they damage your vacation??? NO WAY...
DON'T GIVE THEM THE SATISFACTION...
Hope this helped!
Any other thing inbox!
toodles
Aly~
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female/18
okay so there is this boy that im falling for. he is so great! i like him A LOT...problem is... i cant tell if likes me too or if he is just being a friend. he flirts with me,i flirt with him and he is always hinting things that suggest he likes me but then will say just kidding or something silly after.i get so confused like the other day we were talking and he asked why i talk to him all the time and i was like hmm idk:)(even though i wanted to be like bc im crushing on you so bad) and i asked him the same and he said bc your a fun person to talk to and then was like what do you want me to say and i just said idk i guess i was just wondering but then he was like would you have rather me said bc your beautifully wonderfully amazingly extravagantly gorgeous and smart? and i was like WOW i love that answer and then he said yeah "if only it were true haha jk"...i just get really confuse and i want to tell him so bad how i feel for him but i just dont know how to tell him or even hint it...any suggestions?? (link)
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Hi!!!!
Ok well guys as i've said to other girls r really weird hehe...
But there r some ways to read him like an open book, because yeah we girls have instincts hehe...
Ok what I've noticed from the info you've given is that he says some stuff like he means it and then its like: "boom"! he says it's jk or something like that... And that behavior is totally normal in lots of guys...
Believe me, from experience, guys sometimes when the're getting the nerve to tell you something and finally do, they just back out and say it was jk... cause they're afraid of what you'll say... Cause like think about this: Why would someone tell you that you're beautiful, wonderful, amazing, etc etc... I mean they wouldn't waste saliva haha... So I think he's just nervous and is afraid...
So anyways on how to tell him, he hinted you a lot from what i've heard... So if i were you (i've done this), just hint him more than ever and flit a lot, yes, A LOT...
If he's no a retard (which I think not hehe), then he will know you like him and probably take the first step and tell you :D
If he doesn't, then he's proably shy, so you tell him hehehe...
anyways I hope I helped!
anything else please just inbox (I love to help :D)
toodles
Aly~
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....whom I've got these strong feelings for, feelings which I've never had for anybody else in my life and I care about him a lot.
The problem is is that I'm also a guy who goes to an all boy school.
I don't know if I'm gay (still deciding) or what but all the same I've got feelings for him and I don't know how to deal with it.
There are some things you need to know first: I'm 16, so is he; he's got a great life, I don't; he's popular, I'm not; he's a fantastic guy, I'm not (more like the class looser).
So the problem: for a while now, I've been wanting to get over him because a) I'm 1000% sure he doesn't feel the same way about me b) We're so different c) He's not even interested. But I can't, every time I see just a picture of him, I get those strong feelings for him and I just don't know what to do.
Talking to him is out of the question because I don't even want him to know what I feel for him.
Please, can you help? (link)
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Hi!!!
I'll do my best effort to help you out :D
Ok... so for starters i need to know one thing before I can help you out: Do you wish to be gay (by this I mean if you don't have any problem in being gay)?? Cause if you do then I will give you some tips on how block out those feelings (yes, it is posible)...
If you don't have any problem, well my answer will be different...
So please tell me, so I can give you my advice..
toodles :D
Aly~
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hehe can you look it up for me? The straightener =] (link)
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Hi!!!
OF COURSE!
anyways I did...
I went to sally's beauty supply site, and it was there so yeah they sell it...
if you don't have any sally's close to you or don't order from the internet, let me know, i'll search in another place...
toodles
Aly~
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where can i buy that or where DID YOU BUY this straightener --->generic value products (GVP)? (link)
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Oh it's supposed to be in any beauty store like sally's, etc etc...
but the exact store i have no idea...
but if you want i could look it up for you in the internet...
toodles
Aly~
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where can i buy a chi straightener besides online?
and which CHI straightener is the best? I heard that there are different kinds?
p.s. do you think thet the conair inifiniti straightener is pretty goood? (link)
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Hi!!!
Ok well the chi is really good... but when i saw your question i'd totally wanted to tell you that there is this straightener that is just as good as the chi call gvp (generic value products) look it up online!
and it is much cheaper..
my sister wanted a chi and they told her about the gvp and she got it and she loves it (me too and i have lots of thick hair, and it straightens mine out spr good) anyways i hope i helped!!!
toodles
Aly~
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There's this guy that I just met [well, not really "met", but I knew who he was but then I got to know him] maybe like, 2 weeks ago and we've been talking almost every day since last week and I've kind of started to like him. We just went to the movies together the other day, but it wasn't a "date", we mutually agreed to go together and my friend tagged along, but she didn't sit with us. However, on the phone, we talked and he kept saying we were just "good friends" who are going to the movies together and how he didn't understand why my friend kept thinking we were more or something.
It seems like he likes me though because we just talk SO MUCH and I don't know a lot of guys that talk that much. And we talk at night until like, 1AM. What do you think? (link)
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Hi!!!
to tell you the truth guys are really weird haha yeah they are... anyways i noticed that you said that he kept saying how he couldn't understand why your friend kept thinking you were more... (given that by what you say he does seem to like you.. i mean in my opinion) Maybe he thinks you don't like him and felt embarrased by your friend and thought the best way was for him to tell you that... or think back. when your friend said that did you say something like: "No, we ara just friends". Or maybe put like a face (which is something all us girls do when we get a bit embarrased). If so then maybe he got the wrong impression and told you that as i already said, to not be embarrased. Anyways that is my opinion cause if he talks with you till 1am well it does sound like he likes you. But again some guys r like that... so go with the flow and when the time's right you'll know if he likes you or you'll tell him YOU like him hehehe
take care and hope this helped. Any other thing just inbox
toodles
Alexandra~
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Alright, well, I know during the summer alot of people are going on vacation and things, but that's usually only been the case with a couple of my friends. My best friends and me always talk during the summer and hang out and keep in contact as much as we can.
Well, this summer seems to be different. Nobody's really been calling me, or asking me to do anything. My one best friend stopped talking to me for three weeks, and only the other day texted me to tell me how her and another friend of mine got backstage passes to this show. That doesn't make me jealous or anything, and she doesn't seem like the type of person to plot something like that, so it just made me wonder: "why text me now? and why tell me that specifically, really?"
My birthday was also a couple weeks ago. Had a couple "happy birthday" comments sent my way, which was nice, but nobody asked if I wanted to do anything. Even if they were busy THAT day, a hang out offer for another day would've sufficed. I know birthday's [ especially a 17th cause nothing too special happens ] isn't a humungous deal, but I'm the type of person that when things happen with/to friends, it affects me inside.
It's just been confusing me and making me angry. Sitting inside my house alot of my summer, spending my whole birthday alone in my room watching movies, just been making me feel really lonely lately and that either I'm the problem, or the people I have friendships with are the problem. I think it's just dawning on me now cause I keep thinking how it's my senior year, I figured everyone'd wanna especially get together now, this maybe being our "final summer" to spend together and final school year to hang and have a great year together, and ignoring me... isn't the best start.
I'm not even sure what advice I'm asking for here, I think I just wanted to see what other people's views on this was. If they've had friends like this as well, if it's just a "phase" that we all go through, everyone goes through a million friends. (link)
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Hi!!!
oh I totally understand, that happens sometimes no worries...
but i'll tell you the truth people wanna hang out with people who they feel close to an have fun with them i really recommend calling your friends or different types of people and just being outgoing and you will totally recieve lots of invitations... believe me... if you lose contact with them they think maybe you don't wanna go out or you don;t wann hang out with them so try calling them. Or maybe invite people to go to the movies and you be the planner... then they will totally invite you...
anyways this happens to everyone so don't sweat it or take it too personal...
take care and anything else just inbox!
toodles
aly~
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This is sort of a rare question. You see my father died in August of last year, and now it's just me and my older brother living in the house for now. My mom moved, and I am the only daughter of my dads, therefore half of the house is mine. Anyways at first I was paying all the bills up until 4 months ago. Now I only give so much and my brother is paying mostly everything. The thing is he has ALOT of friends that come over all hours of the day and night. shower,eat,party etc. And I feel it has gotten out of hand because he's a nice guy and they take advantage of that. I was not comfortable in my own house. So I asked him if he could tone it down. Do I have that right? He agreed but I feel like I have some nerve. I just don't want to lose the house or end up in jail. I am 39 and hes 46. Still very popular (link)
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Hi!!!
well you're probably thinking why am i listening to advice from a 14 year old...
well truth is i will try to give good well rounded advice (as i try to do with everyone). Anyways No, you didn't do anything wrong. You not only did it because you weren't confortable but also because you think his friends take advantage of him..(so cheers to you for caring about your brother)... If you still feel badly about this (which is the case) just talk to him, tell him your motives for why you told him that... I don't think he minded much (or maybe he knew it was getting out of control), but anyways tell him that you didn't mean anything but you just don't want anything bad happening to him, you, or the house. I'm pretty sure he will understand... So take lots of care and remember communication DOES work...
toodles
Aly~
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Ok so i was with this boy for a total of a little over 2 years kinda on and off. When we were about 7 months into the relationship he cheated on me and I took him back really quick. I felt like I couldnt be without him. We were together for a while when I went through his email and found emails from these girls. He had been talking to girls on the internet |not from his school, the one from the dirty websites| I told him the next time I found something like that it was over. Well he ended up doing it 3 or so more times. And everytime I took him back. Then almost 2 months ago we breakup for like a day and get back together. And I find out he was telling this girl that he wanted to be with her. He claimed he talked to her the one day we were not together, but you dont get those feelings in a day. We break up and this time I really don't want to be with him anymore. He begged and begged and I said no. It got to the point where he tried to kill himself 2 times. Everyone tells me I'm being mean because I wont talk to him or be his friend. He hurt me very badly. It was like 2 years of lies with him. What do you guys think? Am I being too mean? (link)
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Hi!!!
Nope you are NOT being mean...
you did take him back a few times and it DIDN'T WORK so that means no more chances for him...
so next time someone tells you you're mean tell them that mean is how he hurt you so many times and mean is how he WILL continue hurting you if you get back together...
It seems like it wasn't accidents he has a problem, he can't stay true to you and that means he doesn't deserve you...
so cheers to you and your decision you did the right thing...
ps. look for another cute, sincere guy (people say they don't exist but FYI they do)
hope everything works out
anything else inbox!
toodles
Aly~
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ok well ive been talking to this guy for a while now and he lives far away so i could never date him or anything but he was visiting his friend who lives near me so i met him. anyway we had phone sex like through txting and i want to stay a virgin and stuff so is that like bad?? like is it against God and i know i really shouldnt but idk could it have to do with craving guy attention? but hes sincere and isnt just talking to me to talk about sexual things but still..and also when a girl does that she can grow emotional attachments which is what im worried i will do..i kno this is a weird question but please help!! ive never even been fingered or anything but tonight i had phone sex! (link)
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Hi!!!
well seems to me like you're feeling guilty, because you think it's against God... Well phone sex it's actually masturbation while talking blah blah blah... First of masturbation is a sin (It is) because when you masturbate you lust... so practically yeah phone sex isn't good... but don't worry, i'm a christian and we are not perfect... just pray and ask for forgiveness and God will forgive you... as for not doing it again just stay away from talking about stuff that could lead to that... anyways about the emotional attachment, if you think you will, then just stop talking to him or have in your mind he can just be a friend... oh and look for a guy that lives close to you hehehe...
hope it works out
toodles
Alexandra~
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14/f
ive cut for like a year and for the 3rd time im trying to quit i just need someone to talk to about it and i dont mean a shrienk or anyone like that.im not trying to seek attention from this just help. i know how much my life can change if i keep cutting and how important it is to stop but i dont want to hear that.
if your a VERY trustworthy person that i could keep talking to and wouldnt annoy you then HELP ME PLEEZ! (link)
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Hi!!!!
Well to tell you the truth I can't say that I have myself... but i would really love to help you, I think i'm a bit good at that, and no you would never annoy me... thats why i'm here i want to help, i really do... I don't have much to do these days so really, talk to me i think i can be a big help...
If you talk to me i'll be willing to help you stop in any way I can... and whoever you end up talking to hope it goes super well and you can change that(i know so) so take care toodles
Aly~
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why is mac so expensive?
what is it made of?
are there any special thng they do to make their makeup great?
i dont get why they have to go so much up the numbers on a simple thing
explanation please? (link)
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Hi!!!!
Well I've heard that Mac makeup is totally worth it because they have so many good things (but still 20 dollars for foundation?) anyways the good thing about it is that in the store you can try out the products, that way if you don't like it don't buy it...
I've even heard they actually apply it to you...
anyways as for the special things in the makeup I don't know... I'll stick to cheaper makeup hahaha ...
Hope this helped
toodles
Aly~
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is this true that L'oreal is made by Lancome ? (link)
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Hi!!!
well loreal owns lancome...
:DHOPE i helped
toodles
Aly~
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does best buy sell straighteners?
(Conair - Infiniti Nano Tourmaline Ceramic Hair Straightener - White) (link)
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Hi!!!
well I saw that on the internet (bestbuy.com) and they had that but I saw it in pink and silver... It was 49.99 dollars...
anyways hope i helped :D
toodles
Alexandra~
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whats mineral makeup? (link)
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Hi!!!
well mineral makeup is products made of all natural, finely ground minerals from the earth, without any of the chemicals, dyes, and preservatives found in traditional makeup. So to make it simple it's better makeup than the normal one... Lots of people love it because it gives a long lasting glow... But other people say it makes them look older blah blah blah...
In my opinion it's very good, cause i have a mineral powder and it's super great I love it...
so try it!! hehe
hope this helped
toodles
Aly~
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