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ok well ive been talking to this guy for a while now and he lives far away so i could never date him or anything but he was visiting his friend who lives near me so i met him. anyway we had phone sex like through txting and i want to stay a virgin and stuff so is that like bad?? like is it against God and i know i really shouldnt but idk could it have to do with craving guy attention? but hes sincere and isnt just talking to me to talk about sexual things but still..and also when a girl does that she can grow emotional attachments which is what im worried i will do..i kno this is a weird question but please help!! ive never even been fingered or anything but tonight i had phone sex!
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:) Bless you, dont fele guilty or worried about what you Did. Phone Sex, Doesnt Actually Include any actual Sex - You are Only Not A Virgin when Actual Sexual Intercourse happens, basically, when Both the Penis, and Vagina is Involved! Phone Sex Can be seen as a relief, Theres nothing bad about it at all - so dont worry. If you want to stay a virgin, thats fine, but as your grow you may want to change that :). Sex isnt a sin or anything - Sex is NOT against god, we were put on this earth to breed, after all XD! The Christian belief is not to have sex until marriage basically. But many Christians choose to have sex beforehand anyway. It doesnt make you any less of a person. This guy lives far away, you're fine. Just dont be pressured into anything your not ready for, as its obvious your not ready for anything like sex if you dont want it yet! Just, sometimes people need to let go, sometimes people need to have fun - you had phone sex - dont worry about it :). Theres nothing dirty about it, its only words, and noises. and as for growing emotional attachments, sometimes that can happen, but emotional attachments could mean a beautiful relationship in the end:) you never know.
Toodles x
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Hi!!!
well seems to me like you're feeling guilty, because you think it's against God... Well phone sex it's actually masturbation while talking blah blah blah... First of masturbation is a sin (It is) because when you masturbate you lust... so practically yeah phone sex isn't good... but don't worry, i'm a christian and we are not perfect... just pray and ask for forgiveness and God will forgive you... as for not doing it again just stay away from talking about stuff that could lead to that... anyways about the emotional attachment, if you think you will, then just stop talking to him or have in your mind he can just be a friend... oh and look for a guy that lives close to you hehehe...
hope it works out
toodles
Alexandra~
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