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He says he doesn't like me, but it seems like he does
There's this guy that I just met [well, not really "met", but I knew who he was but then I got to know him] maybe like, 2 weeks ago and we've been talking almost every day since last week and I've kind of started to like him. We just went to the movies together the other day, but it wasn't a "date", we mutually agreed to go together and my friend tagged along, but she didn't sit with us. However, on the phone, we talked and he kept saying we were just "good friends" who are going to the movies together and how he didn't understand why my friend kept thinking we were more or something.
It seems like he likes me though because we just talk SO MUCH and I don't know a lot of guys that talk that much. And we talk at night until like, 1AM. What do you think?
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I think, since he talks to you on the phone a lot, there definitely is a slight attraction, and likely a crush, too ;]. Guys have a hard time getting close to a girl and not falling for her for at least a little while.
Here are other signs that a guy might like you:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
Guys will say they don't like you when they actually do. It's quite common, and I know that because I do it, too ;].
--Jack
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mayube he just wants to get to sorta try it out for awhile, you know see how it would feel to date you, but he deosn't wanna admit it until he is sure. but if you really want to know, just go straight to him and ask. demand that he tells the truth. he just might really like you! :)
if he says no, then maybe he's telling the truth.
if you think he's lying, just wait for it. if he does like you, he'll wana date you. he'll ask you out. but if not, then maybe yall can just be good friends like wat he said.
lori 16/f
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Hi!!!
to tell you the truth guys are really weird haha yeah they are... anyways i noticed that you said that he kept saying how he couldn't understand why your friend kept thinking you were more... (given that by what you say he does seem to like you.. i mean in my opinion) Maybe he thinks you don't like him and felt embarrased by your friend and thought the best way was for him to tell you that... or think back. when your friend said that did you say something like: "No, we ara just friends". Or maybe put like a face (which is something all us girls do when we get a bit embarrased). If so then maybe he got the wrong impression and told you that as i already said, to not be embarrased. Anyways that is my opinion cause if he talks with you till 1am well it does sound like he likes you. But again some guys r like that... so go with the flow and when the time's right you'll know if he likes you or you'll tell him YOU like him hehehe
take care and hope this helped. Any other thing just inbox
toodles
Alexandra~
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