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heyy. im lori and im 16. i am currently in senior high school but i can give really good advice if i know what im doing. feel free to ask me anything: love life, sex, friendship, school (im a straigt A student btw), health, music (i play guitar, piano, violin, and i love to sing), etc. hope to help you guys out! :p
advice
ok i know this isnt exactly your subject but i just wanna know the answer to a simple question: is theater an elective?
yes, actually it is. there's usually theater I , theater II, and theater III.
ok im in eighth grade right now and im in advance orchestra. should i start learning vibrato? :|
definitely. vibrato helps u express musically. it will really help you in the future. i recommend that you start with hand vibrato. if you know how to do that, then other forms of vibrato will come naturally c:
good luck!
lori 16/f
haha, my boyfriend well he really loves my butt (it's a kinda big),says so all the time. But he says some thing that are a little hurtful, like they don't hurt my feelings really I'm just not used to someone saying things like "You have a fat ass" or 'Damn, girl you have a nice big butt". haha, I remember once when I was sitting on his lap he was all 'Oh is my phone hurting you" I was like "Nope", he goes "Yeah, probably all that padding" he says it though, in a loving way. Its not rudly spoken.
I don't know what to think, it is a compliment right?
hes prolly just teasing you. girl, if your really not sure, get straight to the point and ask him urself. tell him that you dont feel comfortable wiht him saying that.
good luck!
lori 16/f
I am with a girl now that had cheated on her previous boyfriend with me and now i work a 3 week on 3 week off rotation which puts me out of state for weeks at a time and its been eating at me that she might be cheating on me while im away. what should i do? im lost.
well give her a chance. if she still cheats on you, shes not worth it. break up with her and just tell her to get back together with her ex or something. good luck!
lori 16/f
16/f
i love my bf and everything but we were on the verge of breaking up today.it started off with him asking me if i thought about him. then he said thathe didnt think that i wasnt an important part of my life. he is! i asked him if he wanted to break up and he said no. he got mad cause i didnt answer my phone at 5 and he was looking forward all day to this. then he said that he was thinking and saying that he didnt like me. after thinking he was like im stupid i love you. he said he was having a really bad day.then i got really hurt by that. we were both crying on the phone. then he said he loved me i wanted to be with me.2 min later i called him back saying i wanted to be with him he said the same. i dont know what do i do ? i love him but do i just take his word for it?
well sweetie, theres nothing you can do. just wait for an answer. and try to improve yalls relationship. be nice to him you know. act sweet and show him your feelings for him.
good luck!
lori 16/f
Fourteen Female.
Okay so I hadn't seen Benamin since Friday and he wanted to see me, and my parents were out and still aren't home so I was like come over it'll be fun.
Well we were ust hanging out, like usual. Were friends, that yeh a little bennifits but it's just fun [[and no nothing below the belt.]]
Well Friday night I got Breaking Dawn-- an amazing book and we weren't doing much so I started reading it while sitting in the recliner chair. So he started messing with me and was like "Your such a nerd- only you would read with ME in the room." Which is true, a lot of girls in my school like him.. and like obsess.. =X
so he climbed on me, and tried taking the book away and he had my legs pinned with his knees and I dont know how it happened. He leaned and started kissing my neck.. and stuff. Kind of groping\grinding me. This is the furthest this has ever gone. We do kiss but its just joking. or just to me.. And a lot of people have been telling me to date Ben but he's just a friend but he's amazing and I was hoping to feel something for him but I couldn't.
So I let things get out of hand, letting it happen when all of sudden he jumped off me and ran for the bathroom. To say the least I was scared i did something wrong... hurt him. Or or something.
ten minutes later.. when he came out he was so red. And I didnt know why. He just started apoligising. "Katie, Im so so so sorry. I can't believe that happened. It wont happen again.. I swear." Just rambaling. And I was like What happened? he looked at me like I was on crack and I sorta wish he never told me. He was like. "Katie... I just got.. hard on you."
----MEH!
He left very sortly after that and I've tried talking to him because his friend Ralph called and was like duude.. you need to talk to him I swear he's gunna get a vasectame he's so embarressed.
=X I feel horrible. I could have stopped it before that happened and Ive been trying to talk to him. To explain it's not that big of a deal.. and he wont listen.
Is it normal for boys my age to.. get hard that easy? I don't know what these means. I mean im friends with him, close but. Ahh. I don't want Ralph making fun either... Can you help getting hard? I donno.. how can I make this right?
umm.. im pretty sure it's normal for teens. my parents always used to tell me that i shouldnt be alone with a guy too long. thye jsut can thelp it..... :|.
anyway, good luck!
lori 16/f
One of my friends in 6th grade, when he lived in Texas, said he faked a sickness which I forget and he skipped a whole school year and was home schooled. Don't really know how true it was though, but It was a contagious sickness of some kind...
Anyway, does anyone know any sickness that can work like this? The reason why is sort of personal, but I only want to skip one year of school, and come back the next... Its sort of a long story why...
Any ideas would help. Thanks.
well if have like small pox or somehting then... cuz there's no known medication for viruses.... or chicken pox but its not year long... something like that.
hope that helped! :|
lori 16/f
whats a pep rally?
ok forget that umm what things can i do to avoid DRAMA in high school?
i had some drama in my middle schoold years and i want to avoid it so uhh i need advicce
i want answers from people with experience and people with no experience because they did the advice theyre about to tell me.
thankss
pep rallies are something that schools have to show pep and spirit. usually cheerleaders come up and do drills and the sports teams with winning streaks come out and show off. its basically a jock thing.
if my DRAMA you mean as in the elective, just dont audition for it.
if by drama you mean like as in drama queen.... then just stay low and dont get too close to the bitchy cheerleaders...
hope that helped!!
lori 16/f
16/F
hi!! i have a SEVERRRE allergy to dairy. its exactly like people who are allergic to peanuts and other nuts, but just with dairy.
so if im with my boyfriend and he had, lets say, popcorn with butter or cheese either earlier that day or even on our date and then we make out, will i get a reaction?? (remember the one story of the girl with the nut allergy who kissed her bf who had nut butter for lunch and she dies cuz of it??)
i just don't want to get sick/die or anything from kissing my dairy ridden boyfriend. HELP!!
thanks!!!!!
well, the worst that can happen is that you'll get a reaction. but make sure that you rinse your mouth out right after so it doesnt stay in there. the girl prolly died because she didnt realize it and it stayed in tehre too long so.... ya.
good luck!!
lori 16/f
I need some advice in what to say to my parents. They are forcing me to play a sport that I dont want to play. Can you help me?
just tell them. your parents should understand. they wont force you to do something that you dont like. tell the truth. the worst that can happen is that they will be disappointed and give you teh silent treatment for the next few days (which is very unlikely). so prepare for that. be ready for the worst.
good luck!
lori 16/f
Female 21.
I moved in oct to fl. I made friends fast and had been flirting with this guy for months. Finally I had to move and moved into a house with my new friends two brothers and ones girlfriend and two other guys. The brother(21) without a GF is the guy i had been flirting with for months. We finally hooked up (no drinking involved) He said he didnt want to date anyone but wanted to try new things since he never had a gf he was pretty innocent with alot of things and that was fun to me. I was ok with this. Then every now and then we would have sex(no drinking), months later he started having this other girl come over and hooked up with her. Since it was bothering me i new i was getting attached. So we disscussed this and i stated no more sex.He didnt really want to stop but he didnt want a commitment. It was fun but now it was over. Well now everytime i get drunk and come home from the bar i brush my teeth and he comes into our bathroom and i end up having sex then going to my room. Hes not nice he dosnt want me to sleep in his bed even though the other girls do. Sometimes i dont even remeber. But my roomies tell me they told me not to.Now I cant figure out how to stop having sex with him. I tell him i dont want to and i tell everyone in the house not to let me. but when i drink i come on to him and he dosent tell me no. Any advice?
well you should just try and not get drunk. if you dont get drunk then you wont want to have sex wiht him. dont drink so much.
good luck!!
lori 16/f
With my guy friend jaymes i really like him like alot , i've liked him the whole school year , and i'm not sure he likes me now but i know he used to . i'm scard to ask him out and he says not and it will then feel akward cause i see him alot helives two house away from mine but i LIKE hime soo much
the best way to know if he likes you is if you have a friend ask him for you. if he does like you, ask him out. dont be shy. if not, then... find another great guy or try and make him like you.
but if you get a freidn to ask, tell them not to say that you asked them to ask, then he'll know and probably wont tell the truth so...
good luck!!
lori 16/f
I recently found out that my ex-boyfriend is gay. I'm not saying this is a bad thing at all. I could care less what sexual preference people have. I have three lesbian friends and it doesn't bother me. It's just that when I met my ex, he wasn't gay. When I met my lesbian friends, they'd already come out and everything. It's just such a shock to me. It just feels weird. He only just realized that he was gay a few months ago, and he came out last week. (We broke up in March, and he realized this apparently in the beginning of May.)
I'm not prejudiced at all against gay people, it's just a weird feeling that someone I was dating turned out to be gay. There's nothing wrong with that as a person, just the idea is sort of uncomfortable you know?
Him and I are still friends and everything...it wasn't a messy break-up. I don't have a problem being around him even though he's gay, in fact it makes things a little easier. Just the idea is hard to get used to.
-15/f
so... if you dont have a problem wiht him, what's your question?
i answered to make a point. if you need advice, ask a question. dont think that people will automatically understand what you're saying.
this must sound really wierd but me and my boyfriends kisses are really boring- wenever we make out its the same thing. wat can i do to spice them up
try different positions and use your tongue.
think different. good luck!
lori 16/f
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and at first our relationship was amazing.
my dad hasnt spoke to me fot nearly 3 years now after a bad split with my mom, but he still sees my 11 year old younger brother. so my boyfriend really helped me through tough times when i had councelling for other family problems.
he has been my rock. i couldnt even imagine my life without him.
now he acts as if he doesnt care if we are together or not. like he hates me in a way. he is constanly in a mood with me. he just says hes got alot on his mind. we had a healthy relationship - we didnt see too much of each other.when he first got with me he was crazy about me, which was flattering. im a young model and i know i am good looking. modelin really helps my self esteem. but now i cant bring myself to get out of bed, let alone turn up to shoots. he makes me feel like shit. he told me he didnt fancy me today. he is tryin to make me leave him i think.
should i leave him? i know i can do alot better. but there is just so much on my mind. my councelling doesnt seem to be helping either.
i would just break up with him and find someone else who is good to you the whole way. but really think it through before you make it final. good luck!
lori 16/f
Hi--
Well, let's get right to the point. My mom and I are going shopping in August soon for back to school shopping, and I REALLY want my best friend to come. But, there's only one problem. My family doesn't really like her parents... We went shopping a couple years ago together for Halloween, and her mom ended up coming, and the whole time it was a disaster. She was dragging her around the store, she wouldn't let her buy certain things, and in the end they actually ended up doing they're OWN shopping. And, anyways, my mom said she could only come if my best friend's mom DIDN'T. So, now, my best friend called me up awhile ago asking if it was OK if her mom came to pay for her stuff if she couldn't afford some things... and I REALLY don't want her mom to come, because we are going into 8th grade for Chrissake, and I really DON'T want her mom to come, because she won't let us go to certain stores, which is TOTALLY unfair. So, I have no idea what to do. I love my BFF to DEATH, but... I don't know what to say to her! Please help me!
well... if i were you, i would let her mom come. your mom's coming too right? great. (lol) there could be two ways of solving this problem.
solution 1: have your mom talk to your bff's mom. ask your mom to tell her about your annoyance with her. adults should get along pretty well and chances are, she'll listen to your mom. but that's taking a huge risk of losing her mom's friendship.
solution 2: go shopping alone wiht your bff and have both your moms go to starbucks or something. have them both together and let you guys shop alone. then when it's time to pay for whatever you can't afford, call them and meet up. and again, if her mom disagrees with anything, have your mom talk to her. that way, she wont be mad at you and you'll still have your bff. let your mom do the talking. im pretty sure she'll want to.
hope at least one of these ideas work. i did the best i can. tell me what happened as your feedback ok? i really wanna know.
good luck
lori 16/f (sry its so long)
I'm 16/f and ever since my older sister hit her teen years she has been driving me nuts. She is now 20 years old, and she is still driving me crazy, but now to the point where I wouldn't mind punching her in the face. I'm a VERY civil person, where if someone annoys me, it's easy to ignore. But, unlike my sister, I don't know any other person, and their reason for making me wanna put a gun in my mouth is a reason that I don't know them. However my sister just thinks that everyone was put on this earth to serve her. If you do something or say something that she agrees with, it's not hard to get along with her. But, if you do something that's an inconveneince to her than "you-know-what" hits the fan. Just yesterday I was so close to punching her in the face, because she was flipping out over a TV show. A TV SHOW! TV! I'm sorry, but I refuse to put up with this anymore. I'm tired of worrying that everything I say will upset her, then I have to deal with how "I'm wrong." "I'm younger so I have no clue what I'm talking about."
So... long story short. She's inmature, I'm tired, I want to hit her, and I want to make this stop. How do I do it?
Thanks
well jsut tell her what you feel. are you guys close? just talk to her. make it clear that her obnoxiousnous has to stop.
good luck
lori 16/f
im 14/f and in desperate need of some help...
well here goes...i've liked this guy since about january.he lead me on.he flirted ALOT!so natrually i flirted back and began to like him
this continued for a few months and during those few months i had my friend ask him out for me a couple times and he said no...which got me real confused.i didnt understand why he would flirt so much,but not date me.my best guy friend told him if he didnt like me that he should stop leading me on,but he didnt.so it kept on.close to the end of the year,there was a field trip for all the good kids at school(my parents didnt let me go).
so my best guy friend,the flirt,and me stayed at school with everyone else who couldnt go
there was alot of hugging and flirting going on
a game of truth or dare started up and i got dared
to kiss the flirt and well i did it that day we started going out than i thought everything was going good and he dumped me a week later...
well the last day of school came along and that day he kissed me good bye but little did i know i would be seeing him again...my friend invited him to her pool party and just my luck he showed up and so it began...we hugged.we flirted.we kissed
ALOT!!!
i saw him a week later and only got one hug
it was like nothing ever happend
could someone please tell me what is up and what i should do?im really confused.Thanx in advance
well if you think he doesnt like you, dont seem too anxious. maybe hes playing hard to get. if he pretends nothing happened, go should you. just wait for it. good luck.
lori 16/f
15/m.
Ok, so I just recently got into a longdistance relationship and its been going strong for almost two weeks, we see eachother via webcam everyday, we text nonstop and sometimes talk on the phone..
But yesterday night she told me she had to go to the movies with this guy. She said the first time they met was at the movies, and within the first hour of the movie they were almost at thirdbase... Im hoping this doesn't happen again, can I trust her?
i wouldn't trust her. but i can tell that she really wants to not cheat on you. but i wouldn't continue to date someone who's not clean or cant control herself. besides, yall ought to start seeing other people anyway. long distnce relationships never turn out into a great future for the couple. good luck
lori 16/f
I'm 17, female, about 5'6" and 110 pounds.
I hardly ever have an appetite and I'm rarely hungry.
I can't sit down and eat a meal, so I usually have one to three snacks a day.
I know it's really unhealthy for me, so is there anything I can do?
yes, you're pretty light for your age and all but you should really have meals. you start by making those snacks larger. change a granola bar into a small portable serving of salad. jsut keeping making your food portions bigger. then eventually you can eat maybe small meals. good luck!
lori 16/f