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Silly comments about my bum
haha, my boyfriend well he really loves my butt (it's a kinda big),says so all the time. But he says some thing that are a little hurtful, like they don't hurt my feelings really I'm just not used to someone saying things like "You have a fat ass" or 'Damn, girl you have a nice big butt". haha, I remember once when I was sitting on his lap he was all 'Oh is my phone hurting you" I was like "Nope", he goes "Yeah, probably all that padding" he says it though, in a loving way. Its not rudly spoken.
I don't know what to think, it is a compliment right?
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I'd say he just really likes your butt.
The fact that he says it lovingly makes me believe that he's trying to compliment you.
If it bugs you a lot, ask him to say it in a more polite way, but don't be surprised if he gets a little upset over his 'compliments'. Guys can have fragile egos just like girls can =]
-LM
[16/f]
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hes prolly just teasing you. girl, if your really not sure, get straight to the point and ask him urself. tell him that you dont feel comfortable wiht him saying that.
good luck!
lori 16/f
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yea l0l. the way you make it sound, he definitely loves your butt! =]
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I would talk to him about it. I'm sure he doesn't mean it to be rude, because if he did, you would probably be able to tell.
Ask him if he means it to be mean when he says those things, and if he says no, you'll just have to accept that.
Maybe ask him to not poke fun at you because even if it doesn't hurt you, it might soon turn into something he says to you in public, and then he might offend someone or something.
--Jack
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