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my guy friend i like him more then a friend
With my guy friend jaymes i really like him like alot , i've liked him the whole school year , and i'm not sure he likes me now but i know he used to . i'm scard to ask him out and he says not and it will then feel akward cause i see him alot helives two house away from mine but i LIKE hime soo much
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The fact that Jaymes used to like you kind of works in your favor. That way, you know there at least WERE feelings, which means there COULD be feelings. However, if you turned him down or didn't really awknowledge his feelings before, he could have moved on.
Are there any significant girls in his life that he seems interested in, or are you the only one? Talk to him about these kind of things. Kind of subtley bring up dating things when you're talking. Mess with him about having a crush or someone and try to get him to tell you who it is. Do the same with him, but refuse to tell him for a little bit. This might give him the idea that you like him, and could help make him think about you two being together.
Since you seem like you like him so much, I'm assuming you guys are pretty close? Try talking a little more, and hanging out alone since you guys live near each other. That, or take little walks together or something along those lines.
If he seems to be acting positively toward the hinting and wants to be around you, it's probably pretty likely that he likes you back. In that case, start dropping hints like crazy if you're too shy to do it in a blunt, straightforward way. Talk to him a lot more, and play around with him. If he dosen't ask you out, take the inititive to ask him out eventually.
Just make sure you can be pretty sure once you do. If you're scared of things being awkward, you have to be pretty sure things are going to go your way. If you can't be sure, give it a little time.
Then, if that happens and things still don't work: Don't worry! If you don't MAKE things awkward by acting really upset or getting angry with him, he'll probably think things are fine. Also, don't give up! He may have given up on you at some point, and you changed YOUR mind about him. If you still have feelings, continue to hang out/talk/etc, just make sure you know your limits.
Good luck, let me know how things work out!
XOXO
KAT.
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the best way to know if he likes you is if you have a friend ask him for you. if he does like you, ask him out. dont be shy. if not, then... find another great guy or try and make him like you.
but if you get a freidn to ask, tell them not to say that you asked them to ask, then he'll know and probably wont tell the truth so...
good luck!!
lori 16/f
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This answer of my friend Laura's might help you out a bit:
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Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
--Jack
(16/m)
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