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Hate that i love him...
im 14/f and in desperate need of some help...
well here goes...i've liked this guy since about january.he lead me on.he flirted ALOT!so natrually i flirted back and began to like him
this continued for a few months and during those few months i had my friend ask him out for me a couple times and he said no...which got me real confused.i didnt understand why he would flirt so much,but not date me.my best guy friend told him if he didnt like me that he should stop leading me on,but he didnt.so it kept on.close to the end of the year,there was a field trip for all the good kids at school(my parents didnt let me go).
so my best guy friend,the flirt,and me stayed at school with everyone else who couldnt go
there was alot of hugging and flirting going on
a game of truth or dare started up and i got dared
to kiss the flirt and well i did it that day we started going out than i thought everything was going good and he dumped me a week later...
well the last day of school came along and that day he kissed me good bye but little did i know i would be seeing him again...my friend invited him to her pool party and just my luck he showed up and so it began...we hugged.we flirted.we kissed
ALOT!!!
i saw him a week later and only got one hug
it was like nothing ever happend
could someone please tell me what is up and what i should do?im really confused.Thanx in advance
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I understand why you are confused. Seems like one minute he's 'into you' and the next minute he's not.
Take a piece of advice from a dating veteran that's learned the hard way. Chances are... When you think that he's sending mixed signals... He's not, you're just misreading the signs. Don't feel bad, all women do it.
By telling you that 'no' he would not go out with you on several occassions... By dumping you a week later... He's trying to tell you that he just doesn't want to date you. It doesn't mean that he doesn't like you. He likes you enough to flirt with you and kiss you... But nothing more. Take his behavior as a cue to move on.
And while I know that it's hard... Try not to take this rejection personal. Everyone get's rejected from time to time. It doesn't mean that you aren't fabulous... It just means that he doesn't realize it. Don't try to do him a favor and open his eyes either. A more productive use of your time would be to find a guy that realizes you're fabulous all ready.
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well if you think he doesnt like you, dont seem too anxious. maybe hes playing hard to get. if he pretends nothing happened, go should you. just wait for it. good luck.
lori 16/f
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