So there is this guy (Kenny) that my friend likes and lately me her and him
have been hanging out a lot you know just being teens, like going to the park and playing disc golf...
anyway like today we were with me her, her friend Sam and Kenny and we were
playing disc golf and me and Kenny were just messin around you know like
throwing the discs at each other and hitting each other with them and I
guess now that I think about it, it would kind of look like we were flirting
but it wasn't intentional or anything... but yeah after I took him home and
I got back to my house she texted me and asked if I liked him and I said no...
for her sake because she has liked him for a very long time...she said that
she asked him the same question and that he wouldn't answer it...and she says she thinks he does..
Last night he texted me and asked me if at all it look like he was flirting with my friend and I said no and then she told me to ask him if he liked me and that is was an emergency so I did I said "Audrey wants to know if you like me" and he said "I told her its not like that between me and you" and I said “yeah I know I just think she might be jealous about I don’t know what yet…”
then he was just playing around and said “we should tell her that we are in love” and I was all like “yeah right!! haha she would shit a brick...”
then out of no where he was all like so... “how do you feel about me..”
and I told him that “I don’t know...”
ugh I don’t know what to do...
Help...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Samantha_Answers answered Friday August 1 2008, 3:15 pm: Hun i know you probably don't want to hear this but the guy sounds like he really likes you and was flirting with you on purpose that day. Even if you weren't he was. If you don't want to hurt your friend the best thing to do would be to show her the texts he sent you or she might find out from someone else that he likes you. But you before you show her the texts you have to explain to her that your not really that into him or she will freak out. But if you don't really feel comfortable telling her all this i suggest that maybe you should lay low alittle bit around him and try to get her closer to him. Well thats all i got really.
Teza answered Thursday July 31 2008, 12:56 pm: I think that both of you do really like each other, but for her sake, neither one of you will admit it. I understand that she's your friend and she likes him, but you need to talk to her about it. If you really like Kenny, that shouldn't stop you. You have to do what's right for you and look out for yourself first. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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