Hello, I'm Samantha. I'm 18 and have been through some pretty bad situations before myself so i can really relate to alot of the questions you may ask me. I went through more then the average girl has probably been through before i was 14. And thats what really got me into giving advice. I'm really out going, i giving adivice and seeing that it really does help. I'm funny, nice and caring and i hope i can really help you all. If you need any adivece from me just send me and e-mail.
Yours truely
-Samantha
Website: Dear Samantha
Gender: Female
Age: 18
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There's this boy at my school. He's new, I'm a sophomore and he's a junior. Every time I see him in the hallway, he's checkin me out! And I think he's the cutest person I've ever seen in my life. The thing is, we have never talked, and probably never will becuase no classes, no mutual friends, and different groups... the groups part means like I'll never run into him at a party (he's kind of into the skater scene and I go to the weekend parties, and also I'm more popular than he is). So were not in the same group, but he is actually so attractive to me and there is just so much tension between us and I wanna hook up with himmm!! I have no idea how to approach this situation because theres a lot of setbacks. What should I do about him? (link)
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Well if you do really like this guy, then nothing should really stop you from talking to him. Next time you see this boy, just walk up to him and say "hi". Thats the best way to get things started.
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Okay, you know how you can align the text to the right, left, or center.
How do you align it so it's all together; as in straight. Ugh, this is hard to describe.
Like you know how in the newspaper the text is align and perfect. How do you do that?
Sorry, if the description is not good enough =/ (link)
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Yea i know what your talking about there. Well im not sure myslef but i think its but ifs thats not it then go online to google and type in "aling text on myspace" and it should bring you to a site that has all the codes and all that. I do it all the time so you shouldn't have a problem!
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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okay well i need some ideas for something to do for my boyfriend. i've done letters, dinner, photo album, picnic, coupon book, and movies. i cant think of anything else. so if you got some ideas that would be awesome. thanks very much. (link)
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Well what i would do is make him a really nice dinner. One he will never forget. Make sure your parents are out for the night and no one else is home if you can. Get some of his favorite music and play it in the background. Make him all his favoirte foods, maybe have some roses as a center piece. Make it unforgettable. Wear something really nice to so you look really pretty for him [[not like a really fancy dress or anything]].
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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Ok...
So there is this guy (Kenny) that my friend likes and lately me her and him
have been hanging out a lot you know just being teens, like going to the park and playing disc golf...
anyway like today we were with me her, her friend Sam and Kenny and we were
playing disc golf and me and Kenny were just messin around you know like
throwing the discs at each other and hitting each other with them and I
guess now that I think about it, it would kind of look like we were flirting
but it wasn't intentional or anything... but yeah after I took him home and
I got back to my house she texted me and asked if I liked him and I said no...
for her sake because she has liked him for a very long time...she said that
she asked him the same question and that he wouldn't answer it...and she says she thinks he does..
Last night he texted me and asked me if at all it look like he was flirting with my friend and I said no and then she told me to ask him if he liked me and that is was an emergency so I did I said "Audrey wants to know if you like me" and he said "I told her its not like that between me and you" and I said “yeah I know I just think she might be jealous about I don’t know what yet…”
then he was just playing around and said “we should tell her that we are in love” and I was all like “yeah right!! haha she would shit a brick...”
then out of no where he was all like so... “how do you feel about me..”
and I told him that “I don’t know...”
ugh I don’t know what to do...
Help...
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Hun i know you probably don't want to hear this but the guy sounds like he really likes you and was flirting with you on purpose that day. Even if you weren't he was. If you don't want to hurt your friend the best thing to do would be to show her the texts he sent you or she might find out from someone else that he likes you. But you before you show her the texts you have to explain to her that your not really that into him or she will freak out. But if you don't really feel comfortable telling her all this i suggest that maybe you should lay low alittle bit around him and try to get her closer to him. Well thats all i got really.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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i cut my own sidebangs a couple weeks ago and they were short enough to be regular bangs. so i just clipped them back.
and now, my sidebangs are a little above my eyes but on the bottom they're sidewept..like this but a little more sideswept..
how can i fix this and make it look like regular sidebangs that look like this?
or when it grows out, will it just end up like that? (link)
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Well i have the same type of bangs you showed in the second photo [[the long bangs]]. When your hair grow out some more it should look alot like what you showed in the second picuter. I would know because i cut my own bangs to and because you cut it at an angle it will grow out in an angle. But when it gets alittle longer you may need to touch it up just a little bit to make it look right [[not saying it would look bad]].
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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I am 26 years old and just recently started dating a guy about a month ago. We are having major major problems in the bedroom! He is always starting it off by kissing me all over fingering me and licking me, and then when i touch him he is soft.I am used to guy getting hard right away when we kiss passionately or he touches me. This one is a real challenge to get hard. I give him head and he is still soft. It gets pretty discouraging for me, I dont know what to do. I asked him if he has a problem, cause after all he is 36 so it might be getting to be an issue, He said no he has never had the problem before. I asked if he was attracted to me and he said YES. So where is the problem? am i the one doing this all wrong? Please help me. THere is a total blockage in the bedroom and this shouldnt be happening at all. (link)
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It sounds like he has a problem there. Your not doing anything wrong hun so don't worry. This happens all the time to men. Its called erectile dysfunction. He should probably see a doctor about this and he can get some pills for it so then maybe you would be satisfide with the results. It happens all the time and its not your fault.
Hope I helped!
Your truely
-Samantha
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I have been living with my boyfriend for two years. We live in a very small town without the possibility of EVER having a good future here. I have been planning on moving out of town within the next month. My boyfriend has no intention of leaving his home town, as he was born and raised here. Our relationship has been VERY rocky, but I have created a bond with him. I do love him, but I want to secure a comfortable living in my future. I'm not ready to leave him, and things between us have been going okay lately. What do I do? Or how do I talk to him about any of this?
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This is a tricky one. Well maybe you dont have to leave his home town. Look around the small town and see if there are new houses for sale. If not you could probably build one.
But if there are no houses you like and are avaliable [[i know this may sound bad]] but maybe you could trick him into moving. Go online and look at houses for sale in the next towns over and when you see one you like take him to see it. Say you need to go to the store or something and drive by the house. Stop and point out how nice of a house it is and get him to look inside of it with you for a while. This may just get him to move into a new home you like. But you want to make sure that you plan ahead try calling up the people who live there and fill them in on what would be happening. Well thats all i got.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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So I am already thinking of what to get my boyfriend for Christmas. I know, early. But I'll probably have to save up money. The only thing is I don't know what to get him. We have been together for four months. And he is the one. We are meant for each other. So any ideas? It doesn't matter how much it costs or anything. (link)
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Well, think about all the things you know he loves. Get him is favorite CD's but make sure he doesn't already have it that would be kinda awkward. But if you really want to do something special take him out on a date. Go see a movie, have dinner together, just make sure it just you and him. Make it as romantic as possible, and if hes really the one then I'm sure he'll love every second of it. But to top it all off make sure you put a misletoe in your door way so he can get that specail kiss from you.
Hope I helped!
Yours Truely
-Samantha
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I get these brown little dots on my legs every time I shave, and my friend told me I need to stop shaving with soap, water, and those cheap little disposable shavers. I went to the store and bought a Venus vibrance, shaving gel, and nivea cream to moistoure my skin. I shaved about 2 days ago, and though my legs still have the visible little pores [I know it'll take time for those to go away], I woke up yesterday with billions of painful little red bumps on my private area and inner thighs..some are even full of pus... My friend says I have to get used to the new shaver and that I probably shaved too hard, but is this gonna happen every time I shave? How do I get rid of them? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Well im thinking you might be alergic to the things in the creams and i think it has to do with the razors your use. You really need to see a doctor about this and tell them whats going on. They may be able to give you something to put on it before or after you shave.
Hope I helped!
Yours Truly
-Samantha
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Well
I've had sex with my bf once.
And that was it.
Everytie i kiss him a certain way, hold him a certain way, touch him a certain way of stuff like that, he gets a little "excited".
He tells me that i give him boners all the time (and he makes me pretty dern horny) and that he loves me (we've been going out for a year) and he lets me touch his happy place and all but it never really goes any further....
How can I tell him I want to have sex with him again without making him feel awkward? (link)
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Well there are ways to say it without saying it. Take him to your house one night and when no one else is there [[idk if anyone else lives there]] cuddle with him alot maybe watch a movie, but you want to remember to be kissing him alot. Try to turn him on big time, and when your sure he is well then take him to your room and things will begin to heat up there.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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Ok. So my bf's birthdays on the 29th of august, and i'm not allowed to be dating him, but i can hang out with him.
I'm sixteen, have a car, and don't know what to do with him for it...
I'm so stuck.
Does anyone know any cute places i can take him or anything nice i can do for him?
We've had sex and all and I want to take him somewhere special and low profile so my rents don't find out.
Is there anything i can do (sex wise) for him that'd be special?
please please pleaseee! (link)
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Well to make it look like you to are just hanging out for a while i would take him and a few of his friends to dinner then say goodnight to them [[make sure its kinda late]] then take him a little ways away to a beach where you know your parents would never find you or him. But remember its no ilegal to have sex on the beach so i wouldn't do it there. Stay on the beach for a while and when you think the time is right go to a room [[maybe rent a small hotel room]].
Hope I helped!
Yours Truly
-Samantha
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I would like some ideas for my daughter sweet 16 party
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Give her a surprise party! Invite all her friends, play all her favorite music, get her all kinds of her favorite sodas! Fill the room with balloons, make a big cake with a picture she loves and took to make it even more specail. Put together some kind of dance floor [[or order a room you can use]] teens love to dance [[make sure if she has a bf then put in some slow songs she'll love that]]. Get really cool lights, blacklights, strobe lights. Put up all kinds of big picture of her maybe even some with friends. Hang things from the celling in her favorite colors.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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Hey,
Im is yr 9 at an Australian high school, and my best friend gets on my nerves.
She is usually going on about how all these guys like/love her, that all these people that are older than her like her her too and it gets irratating. She also puts down my other best friend, whom she has never met except for online convos. And she usually puts down my ideas, and my crushes, and gets angry at me if i do better than her academically or in sport!
But I find it hard to actuallt tell her thses things beacuse she throws a tantrum and makes me feel bad..:(
Plz, plz help me!!
Thanx heaps!!
~*dj*~ (link)
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Dear ~*dj*~
It sounds alot like this girl is not really your friend. When someone is putting you down and yelling at you for being better then them then they are in no way a friend. A real friend would be incouraging you to do better and when they're constantly braging about guys who are way older then her liking her making fun of you for not getting anyone older then just remember it can be dangerous dating way older guys. If i were you i would tell her that shes not being such a good friend and your tired of being put down for everything your doing and making fun of people she doesn't even know! So I'm telling you, do what you want with your life and don't let anyone tell you how to live your life. Be the best that you can be at everything you do and don't let anyone put you down.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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I just want to know my vagin changed and most of the time is wet am wondering why ? And a part of it is bigger I want to know do I sufer from any diseas or what (link)
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Well i dont think you have a diseas or anything, it might be because when you lost your vaginty the skin broke inside and it caused it to get bigger. But if your still not to sure about whats happening then maybe you should go and ask a doctor.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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Hi i have babysat these 2 kids and recently i have been asked to help out at a small party to celebrate their grandparents anniversary..... There will be 6 or 7 kids there between the ages of 1 and 6.... I have like pin the tail on the donkey and a big balloon they can play with but what else can i do to entertain them..... (link)
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Well little kids like that are always into fun games and getting toys so put that into one![[for the older kids]] Make a tresure hunt for them that will last a long time. Make little clues for them. At the end have a basket or something hidden full of little toys from like the dollar store. When that ends take them over blind fold them spin them and point them in the direction of a piñata! Fill it with candy [[mostly sugar free to please the parents]]. The they'll love it! But to avoide kids getting upset make them share it equally.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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Ok,
Heres my situation. I work for the family business and my girlfriend lives approx 600 miles away. To make a long story short, we lived together before out of state away from home, but our relationship fell through, so I moved back home. We began talking a year later and we are both more mature ( I am roughtly 30) and ready for a serious relationship. We are happy together, but... I am supposed to inherit the family business, and if I leave, the business will be closed, and my father will take this fairly hard. I am close to my family, Ive always put family first. I am torn between the two. I mentioned to my father today about moving in a few months, and our conversation didnt go well. I could tell he was hurt, which inturn upset me. Ive always looked up to him. If I dont move, I will lose a really good girl, and the last thing i want to do is hurt her, but its not fair to my family as well...
Someone, please help me. This is a lose/lose situation for me.
Thanks! (link)
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This is a tough one. Well you really do care about this girl but you dont want to close the store then ask her to move down and live with you. But if there is no way for her to move in with you then your going to have to tell your father that this girl is more important to you and may even be your future. Tell him to either sell the store or get someone else to run it. Thats all I've got to offer you have a really hard question.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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ok. i know this is gross, but is it normal a ringworm?? nd how do i get rid of it?? (link)
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go to a doctor as soon as you can and ask them about it. You really need to get that looked at and they can help you get rid of it, but you have to do it soon or it can get worse!
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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okay so...i was with this guy for like almost 6 months. i broke up with him cuz he was always lying to me and hurting me. i gave him 3 chances and after that i was done. that wasnt the only reason i broke up with him... i also starting talking to and getting along with other guys. it was hard. ever since then for the past month he has called me everyday like 5 times a day telling me he misses me and wants me to take him back and that he loves me and needs me and wants me. and i have tried to explain to him that like i basically need to move on. like when him and i were together he seemed so perfect... and now that he and i are juss friends... well he is kinda annoying and weird. =/ but then hes like its okay i will wait for you. and im like okay... do you not get it?! like sometimes i find myself thinking about him... but in a ifferent way and its so hard to get over him when he calls like everyday!!! i seriously juss want to move on... but idk how to!!!! i juss like want to make it clear to him that i have been talkiing to other guys and there isnt that much hope for him and i.... but i dont wanna like break his heart... any advice?? (link)
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Well honestly anyway to tell him is going to break his heart, so you just really have to tell him that its over between you to and you gave him mulitple chances and he messed up everytime by cheating on you, hurting you and lying! Tell him your sorry but you've been seeing other guys and are intrested in some of them and to move on find new people.
Hope I helped!
Your truley
-Samantha
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Okay, this is going to be kinda long. But, I am a 15 year old girl who is going to be a sophmore in high school. turning 16 in december. Both of my parents work. My father leaves for work at 4:30 in the morning, and gets home at about 9 at night. My mother leaves for work at 9 in the morning, and comes home between 5 and 6. Well, you know how it is a mothers job to cook dinner? she hasnt cooked one meal in about 2 years. and im not over exxagerating, im being totally serious. The only time i eat dinner is on sundays and wednesdays, or if i sleep over a friends house. Im quite underweight because of this, becuase of being left home all day. im 5'4 and i weigh about 90-100 pounds. it varies. I complain to my mother that she never cooks, and its unfair that im almost 16 and i dont get fed dinner. i already have to cook myself breakfast and lunch [that is if i dont sleep until about 3:00 in the afternoon]. My mom doesn't understand that im very unhealthy because im a terribal cook and if i put something on the stove it WILL catch on fire, or even in the oven, toaster, or microwave. I understand why my dad doesn't cook, because hes a man and he grew up with a mother cooking for him, and he is quite tired after a days work. So i don't bother him about it. The fact that everyones parents feed them after work, i dont understand why my mother wont cook me dinner. she claims that she is tired, well i know your tired mom, but im starving to death here! i have talked to her about it multipal times, then her other option is delivery. Well, we live in a very small town, that only has chinese and pizza delivery. and as you all know, after a while the same food over and over again gets sickening and tiring. Its embarissing when i have a friend over and they say "what time are we having dinner" and i have to say "i cook my own dinner every night." do you all know how bad that makes my mom look? really bad. My friends also dont understand why my mother doesnt cook dinner. she used to, every night! she hasnt since about sixth grade. she just comes home and sits at the computer, drinks beers [about a 30 pack a night]. It pisses me off. She does nothing but drink and go on her fucking computer at home! and whenever i try to talk to her, she wont talk to me. Because she thinks people at work are watching her.. so she doesnt talk when shes home. Barely, and if she does she like whispers. She thinks peeople are watching her through lightbulbs, our stattelite dish etc.[lmao!]So i dont understand why she wouldnt make herself look liek a good parent and cook for her daughter, my sister who is turning 21 in janurary is in college still. so she cant bring me something home to eat. but im so sick of my dad bringing me home mc donalds at like 9 at night. im so sick of everything really. my parents dont care for me! they just buy me stuff and supply me shelter. how can i tell my mom that she needs to start cooking? i need to like threaten her though, or she wontdo it. helpp pleasee! any suggestions? (link)
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Ouch im really sorry about that. Well if you've tryed talking to your mother and your father gets home to late to cook then i suggest ask a friend to teach you to cook. The best thing you can do at this point is learn. Look at some cook books go online and look up some recipes that look good. Maybe there is a class you could take at school or someone might be teaching it somewhere. Ask family memebers for help [[grandmothers, aunts, uncles, cousins ect.]] I remember i learned how to cook from all sorts of places. I watched t.v from my aunt, my gradmother and my mother. Maybe if you started to cook your mother would start to cook a little bit ever now and then as well.
Hope I helped!
Your truley
-Samantha
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I've been hangin with this girl I like for a few months, she's said she likes me, and I sorta made our last hangout a date. But she's just told me she really likes me, but she's not sure she wants a relationship right now, and is afraid to lose our friendship.
She might be a little guilty cause her mom has had a real rough go of relationships lately, but I don't know.
I don't know what to do! (link)
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Well honestly the best thing you could do at this point is stay friends with her for the time being and wait until shes ready to really date again. She's going through a tough time now and needs a little time to clear her head and really all she needs is a friend. So be there for her comfort her when she needs it and just be a good friend until shes ready to date again.
Hope I helped!
Yours truley
-Samantha
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