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Bestest Buddies??Maybe not.....
Hey,
Im is yr 9 at an Australian high school, and my best friend gets on my nerves.
She is usually going on about how all these guys like/love her, that all these people that are older than her like her her too and it gets irratating. She also puts down my other best friend, whom she has never met except for online convos. And she usually puts down my ideas, and my crushes, and gets angry at me if i do better than her academically or in sport!
But I find it hard to actuallt tell her thses things beacuse she throws a tantrum and makes me feel bad..:(
Plz, plz help me!!
Thanx heaps!!
~*dj*~
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Although, this might be hard try cutting her loose as a friend. You really don't need to deal with a friend like that. Not listening isn't a good quality in friendships. If she's putting you and your other friend down, then it's time that you guys both let her go as a friend. Remember, it's her loss not yours.
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Hi there!
Well to start off, this girl doesn't sound like much of a great friend to you nor she being one. A real friend wouldn't be going on bragging about her "relationships" with older guys neither would she discourage you in everything you do. Don't let her words and actions throw you down, live how you want your life to be and be strong to stand up for it. If she's treating your friendship like it's thrash, then it's best to move on and let her go off in her own little world.
Hoped this was helpful! =3
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Dear ~*dj*~
It sounds alot like this girl is not really your friend. When someone is putting you down and yelling at you for being better then them then they are in no way a friend. A real friend would be incouraging you to do better and when they're constantly braging about guys who are way older then her liking her making fun of you for not getting anyone older then just remember it can be dangerous dating way older guys. If i were you i would tell her that shes not being such a good friend and your tired of being put down for everything your doing and making fun of people she doesn't even know! So I'm telling you, do what you want with your life and don't let anyone tell you how to live your life. Be the best that you can be at everything you do and don't let anyone put you down.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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