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i seriously just want to move on... but i don't know how to!!!!
okay so...i was with this guy for like almost 6 months. i broke up with him cuz he was always lying to me and hurting me. i gave him 3 chances and after that i was done. that wasnt the only reason i broke up with him... i also starting talking to and getting along with other guys. it was hard. ever since then for the past month he has called me everyday like 5 times a day telling me he misses me and wants me to take him back and that he loves me and needs me and wants me. and i have tried to explain to him that like i basically need to move on. like when him and i were together he seemed so perfect... and now that he and i are juss friends... well he is kinda annoying and weird. =/ but then hes like its okay i will wait for you. and im like okay... do you not get it?! like sometimes i find myself thinking about him... but in a ifferent way and its so hard to get over him when he calls like everyday!!! i seriously juss want to move on... but idk how to!!!! i juss like want to make it clear to him that i have been talkiing to other guys and there isnt that much hope for him and i.... but i dont wanna like break his heart... any advice??
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Hey there:)
Well, i suggest you change your number. You should tell him the truth ; that you're talking to other boys. Maybe he will back off then. You're going to have to ''break his heart''. you need to do whats best for you:)
Hope i helped ; Sarah.
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Well one thing, you should change your number if you are able too. That would show him you are serious.
And you might have to just come out and tell him. If he keeps saying that he'll wait for you, and you not say anything, thats still leading him on and making him think there is actually hope. It may hurt him, but he'll get the point. YOU need to be happy too, and stress free, and I can see all this isn't. Like I said it may hurt him, but he'll get over it! Good luck!
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WOW!! that sounds just like my situation!
well, you cant really not break his heart and tell him you dont like him so tell him all of the following, not necesarilly in that order:
1. you dont have feeling for him anymore
2. dont call you more than (insert number) a week or you will reject his calls (you dont have to but hopefully youll scare him =])
3. stop calling you baby, telling you he loves you, that he wants you back, etc.
4. you like other guys and dont want anything to do with him if he cant be just friends without him telling you the above. (both of these dont have to be true, but itll probaly scare him and/or make him back off a little)
if he ignores all of what you said to him, stop talking to him and restrict his calls....etc.
i hope i helped!=]
tell me how this worked so that i can use it! l0l
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don't pick up the phone when he calls. Don't answer his emails. Let him keep trying to get you back. Eventually, he'll get the picture.
And if you really need to talk to him, tell him that there's absolutely no way you'll take him back.
cheers,
stargirl
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Well honestly anyway to tell him is going to break his heart, so you just really have to tell him that its over between you to and you gave him mulitple chances and he messed up everytime by cheating on you, hurting you and lying! Tell him your sorry but you've been seeing other guys and are intrested in some of them and to move on find new people.
Hope I helped!
Your truley
-Samantha
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