Name is Megan, I'm 20 years old. I've gone through a lot in my life, and got through so much on my own. It sucked, and I wish I had someone to go to for advice. I like to help others who are in need of advice. I don't think anyone should ever feel alone. I hope to help some of you with the answer's I've giving. I try my hardest.
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Age: 20
Member Since: May 2, 2010
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K so I'm 13, in 7th grade, (girl) and all my friends (girls) are like all prude, but I would like to grind and make out with people that I'm not dating but all my friends would judge me. We have parties all the time so there's a lot of grinding going on. I didn't grind at the last party because my parents were invited but in school today my friend and I were joking around and I ended up in front of him against the wall and he started grinding me without holding my waist and now everyone is making a huge deal out of it and calling me a slut and I feel horrible but I really want to do stuff like grind! Am I being a slut and should I feel bad??? (link)
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How's that being a slut?
Now if you went around and slept with the whole school... Maybe, but grinding is dancing, and everyone does it basically. Your friends are obviously just jealous. Don't let them get to you, and if they continue I would say that aren't really nice friends to begin with and you should try to find new ones.
But you are NOT a slut, and shouldn't feel bad.
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my boyfriend wants to eat me out, but everytime we get to it i say i'm not ready. i always say that cause what if it tastes weird to him? are there any way i could make sure it doesn't. with out putting any kind of lubes/gels in there. i just want it to be natural. it never smells bad, but i dunno. any kind of foods to make it taste better? idk. (link)
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I agree with the answer that was already here.
I don't believe there is any foods to make it taste better at all..
But most guys do like the taste, as long as your clean. Just because you guy's start anything excuse yourself to the bathroom and wash up a bit, you should be fine after. You'll be fine, just relax!
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When spending the night at a friend’s home I was jumped on and knocked down by his pack of wolfhounds (ten dogs) and fell on to my knees. There was no flooring only concrete I asked if he had homeowner insurance, he said yes but did not give it to me. This was 4 weeks ago I have not seen a doctor I have no insurance or money to do so. Knee is hurt for sure. Can I go to the doctor and then try to find the Insurance Company to discuss this matter (link)
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Oh, that must hurt!
I'm sorry that happened.
I would say you should go to the doctors, it is going to cost a lot though, because they will more than likely want an x-ray, All that adds up. Usually if you are unable to pay, they will make some sort of payment plan for you. Or if you want to look online and find an insurance company, but it's almost the end of the month, and where i'm from, most insurance company's start their month on the first, meaning you would have to do it first, or wait till next month. But you should go get that checked out.
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so i woke up in the dream and my mom handed me a pack of cigarettes and said "here you can smoke if you want to". so i smoked the whole pack in less than half and hour. i was smoking a cig and i ran into this kid i yoostah know. I was like wasup jakob then he said hey... then i gave him a hug and he was surprised and said *gasp ur nice to me... then im like ofcourse then he's like but you wont be nice to me tomorrow. then i was like yes i will. then i went up the stars to my house... it was the end of the world and we expected rhinos and elephants to be going wild so we packed and waited for it to happen.... (note.I DON'T SMOKE AND MY MOM IS STRICT AND WOULD NEVER SAY ANYTHING LIKE THAT TO ME.) (link)
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I'm not sure of what your question was?
But everyone dreams, you can't control what you dream. Sometimes they are weird, sometimes scary, sometimes sad, sometimes happy. They are dreams.
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i'm one of those people who looks SO much better tan. like i should have been born with this skin color ha. is there anyway i can keep it? like without having to put on self tanner and stuff (link)
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No, tans to eventually go away in time.
Your best bet is to keep tanning, although that is unhealthy for your skin. But to tan outside, or if you can't go to tanning salon.
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im 34 moved in with my mom to help my mother take care of my grandma my mom has lupus & my grandma is bed ridden. Everytime I leave the house my mom goes through my stuff or when i goto bed at night she steals my keys or has even used a coat hanger to unlock my car to snoop through it. and its getting really old i have two kids and this is showing them to disrespect me and they told me they are starting to hate their grandma when i confront her she hollers and screams & says im the bad parent. i am soooo agravated i could just scream. (link)
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wow, that must be hard.
I understand you help take care of your grandma, but is there anyway you could move out? Maybe some place close?
If not, you will have to sit your mother down and talk to her. Tell her what your kids say about them starting to look at her different, and how you feel. Tell her you are there for her and your grandma, and you are 34 years old. You NEED privacy.
But to be honest, the best bet is to move into your own place, for you and your kids.
I really hope things work out.
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so the other day, all of a sudden my vagina got very itchy. i couldn't stop scratching it. now in every position i go to it still itches but hurts in like a burning way. what would this be? it doesn't hurt when i urinate, but when i go to wipe it does. also, there is no weird smell to it as if it were to be a yeast infection. (link)
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It sure does sound like a yeast infection.
I would do what the other person said, go get something over the counter, and use that for as many days as it recommends. Hopefully that does the trick, but if not, then make a doctors appointment for yourself and get checked up. I recently had a yeast infection do to antibiotics, and what you are describing sounds like what I went through, I got some stuff and am all better. :)
Good luck!
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So I have been dealing with body issues since I can remember. Sometimes I like my body, most of the time I don't. Within the past 2 years or so I have started throwing up meals. I do the whole binge and purge. I will eat a lot of something and then feel soo guilty and shitty that I throw it up. I have tried to stop...but I always seem to go back to it. I am an athlete and I do workout, I just also throw up. I don't like doing it, but I feel I have too...
So I would like to know if there are any good websites or support groups I can join. I would preferr it to be somewhat annonymous becauSe I have never told anyone about it. I would also like it to be more personal. I would like to talk with people that have overcome bulimia. So if you know of any websites or anything that can help, I would greatly appreciate it. I really want to stop, I'm done with this. I just now realize that I need help.
Thank you for all help in advance!! (link)
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http://www.mdjunction.com/bulimia-nervosa
http://www.something-fishy.org/online/options.php
http://www.edreferral.com/Support_Groups_for_Eating_Disorders.htm
http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/
Bulimia is something hard to over come. I've been there, and I know it's hard. I still to this day sometimes struggle. Honestly, the thing that really got me to stop is it was making my throat and teeth hurt really bad. It was from the acid in my stomach I was told. I'm not here to tell you to stop, because I do know thats the least someone wants, but if you do want anyone to talk to, you can message me. I found a few sites that might be helpful. What also worked for me is, if you make a myspace, you can have it anonymous, but make a myspace, and look through their groups, they have tons and with people supporting each other. I had over 500 friends on myspace all supporting each other, it was nice.
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How do I get rid of a keloid from my nose piercing? It's tiny, but gross.. what's the fastest way to treat it?? (link)
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I found this site that might be helpful.
http://www.skinsight.com/adult/keloid-treatments.htm
http://www.ehow.com/how_2292719_get-rid-keloids.html
that one too.
I also heard that its best to leave it alone. I hope you can get rid of it quick. Good luck!
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So for quite awhile now i've been a little curious about girls. i'm 19/f and in a very committed relationships with my 27 year old boyfriend. I love him very much, but he is very open and has told me that whatever i want to do hes cool with.
The problem is, I don't know how to go about exploring my curiosity's. I don't have anyone to talk to about it, and i just don't know what to do. Its like, all the pent up emotion and frustration is deep inside of me, and i don't know what to do to figure out if i'm really bi or not. I would like to find someone to experiment with, but i dont know how. I cant go to a gay bar, im not old enough, so what should i do? (link)
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You are old enough to get into the bar before I think 8 or 9pm, well that also depends where you live. As long as you don't drink in the bar as well. Do you know anyone who is? a friend or something? That's hard to find someone. I'm sure you are getting frustrated too. I hate to say, but have you tried looking online? That might help too.
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17/f/va
I've taken drivers ed, and passed. Ive done my observing, & i cant do my driving yet cause i dont have my permit..Well...
My last name on my social security card & my birth certificate dont match, so DMV won't accept it...
I've been trying to get it fixed but I'm not sure exactly what I should do.
Social Security place told my mom I have to set up a court thing & the judge has to approve it to have it my last name changed so that the two documents match..Well mom called the court & the court said I dont need it because I already have proof of paternity & that should be enough.. Then the social security place said no, the judge has to sign it.
So I'm stuck without my permit & im 17 almost 18. its ridiculous. Does anybody know how to help me? I need a car really badly cause I'm basically emancipated already & goin to be 18 soon, & i cant get a job or a placae without a car...so help trying to figure this out would be amazing & greatly appreciated! (link)
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I would say your best bet is to actually just go down to the courts and get it done with. Technically they can't deny it, and it wont take that long. Just explain to the courts that social security had said that you need it signed by a judge.
Good luck! And I understand how it is to be without a car. I hope you get it all worked out soon!
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Theres a song, i'm not a hundred percent on the lyrics but it goes something like "Would you like me to say i'm sorry, if so I'm sorry your so unhappy." Or something relating to that. I think its alternativish. (link)
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFMHITMTWCw Could that be it? A time for yohe - by between the trees?
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I poop a lot but I'm really skinny. I mean, I go poop like 4 times a day on most days. It never has bothered me but I eat really bad stuff like fried foods and lots of sugary sweets. My friend wants to know how I stay so skinny but I don't know why I am so skinny. Does pooping make you skinnier? Because I'm wondering if maybe that is my "trick" to staying slim? (link)
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No..Not really. I mean it'll empty you out, but you wont really be losing weight or staying skinny. You probably have a really high metabolism. Your lucky. haha
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I could be completely fine and just be weird or something, but i feel like somethings not quite right. im 17, female, and ill tell you a little about myself and my symptoms. i was raised in a very sheltered family but somehow became the complete opposite. my parents both waited till marriage to have sex and always want to know what im doing. i lost my virginity and got a tattoo when i was 16. i also steal peoples cars with my friends when the car owners fall asleep even when i didnt have a license. these are things that would have killed my mom but she never found out. after that i began stealing everything out of peoples cars or stores or even my own house. i sometimes pawn my own parents things and ive even sold drugs before to get money. and the thing is i have a job and dont need to steal or sell drugs for money. and i have a car so i dont need to steal other peoples. but i love it. i love the feeling of stealing and doing illegal things i guess you could say. i dont feel bad about it one bit or even think twice about it. its like i have no conscience. i also feel like nothing is ever my fault. im in all ap classes and have a scholorship to uva for soccer, and i would consider myself to be a smart and mature girl. i just have this love for recklessness and im not afraid to die. everyone tells me im going to die or get sent to jail soon but i dont care. nothing seems to bother me or make me even the tiniest bit upset, and ive never felt guilty before. the only things that could ever effect how i feel are my boyfriend of 2 years and my best friend. im pretty sure i love them more than anyone has ever loved anything. nothing else matters. something just seems a little off because no one else seems to really feel this way. anyone know whats up with me?
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One, I can't believe people tell you, you are going to die.. Going to jail is one thing, but to tell someone they are going to die is another. That I don't think will happen. To live with no fear must feel great. That right there is good, and it seems you are doing really good in your classes, but with the stealing and dealing drugs, if you by chance got caught, then all that hard time you spent in school doing good, and getting the scholarship would be right out the window. I'm not sure exactly how to answer this question, nor do I have a legit reason WHY you actually do these things. You obviously know why, you said yourself you like to do it. I guess try to really think about the other people, how they feel when they realize their stuff/car was stolen, and your parents stuff. I'm sure that hurts them really bad. I'm also confused on why exactly you asked this question when you said, you don't think twice about it. I'm only guessing that maybe something in you, might be thinking twice, or you might be having a different thought about all this? I'm not sure if you want to stop, I would say it would be good for you, especially if you want to keep that school scholarship, but then again, that is totally up to you. If you do want to stop, I would recommend to talk to a consular maybe, someone who is more equipped to handle this sort of situation. Good luck with everything, and good luck with that scholarship, it does sound like your future is right. Wish you the best!
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Hi I am a 15 year old girl who is a clone of vanessa ann hudgens. i really would love to go on the show Look A Like where they transform you into the star you look most like and I want to know where the auditions are held and if there even are auditions. Does anybody know if the show ended? PEASE HELP ASAP. kthanks:] (link)
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I never heard of that show till your question, but the website looks pretty awesome. I'll have to check it out sometime.
But this is what I could find, their contact list.
Go there and fill it out, and hopefully they will email you back. :)
http://www.lookaliketv.com/contact.html
Good luck!
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19/F
When I was 17, I started foundation focusing on helping underprivileged kids locally. One thing I created was a free summer lunch program in Detroit for kids whose families needed it. During those 2 hours everyday, these kids would come in, have lunch and play games and stay out of trouble, if only for 2 hours a day. My mom's work friend help me set this up, and she basically took care of it when I was not able to come in.
Unfortunately, I got busy with college and since then, my foundation has been on hiatus. My contact who helped me set it up has moved away. I am going to try and set it up again myself this summer, but what other ideas can I do with this? I feel like I have such a great opportunity but it's going to waste.
(Another idea we had was a "Christmas in July" toydrive, where we could collect toys and bring them to the Children's Hospital in the summer. This is because the fire departments already donate toys in the winter.)
Thanks! (link)
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You need other helpers?
Whats your email? I'd be interested.
If you keep your mind into it, it wont become a waste. What you are doing is great, I haven't heard about it, but it sounds great.
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My period is 6 days late and I have taken pregnancy test and it came out as "negative". I think that stress is the problem to the delay because I have school, work, and family problems. Should I see a doctor about it or wait it out? (link)
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I would wait it out at least another week, If you still have no period, take another test, and see the results, Either Negative, or Positive give your doctor a call. Stress could defiantly make a period late.
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My sister gave birth to her first baby today and will be bringing him home tomorrow. We've been a four-person family unit for 18 years and my sister is a very young mother so it's going to be a big challenge. On top of that, I have some really important exams coming up in the next month. If I pass them, I'll be leaving home in September and going to university.
Has anyone got any tips on living with a newborn baby? I need some practical advice on how to get through these exams while getting used to having a new family member. (link)
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Honestly, I find it not that hard to live with a newborn baby. All babys are different. SO I'm not sure how your sisters baby is.
If you are worried about getting sleep, just get ear plugs, or stuff toilet paper in your ears (yeah crazy but works).
You'll be okay! And good luck on your exams!!
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well my computer recently crashed and we lost all the itunes files. when i redownloaded itunes on the new computer and plugged my ipod in, only the songs i had purchased showed up in the library. however i have alot of songs that i got from cds and what not so i was wondering if i plug my ipod in again will it put the rest of the songs into the library? or will it put the library of songs i have now onto my ipod and i will lose all the unpurchased songs? pleaseeee help meee. it would really mean alot (link)
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Unfortunately, when your computer crashes iTunes loses everything too, other than what is in your iPod. It sucks, I had to learn the hard way too. :/ And the sucky part about me, I didn't even have my songs in my iPod, so everything was gone.
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I really messed up and had a one night stand with a guy who got me pregnant. We didn't talk at all after we had sex until I realized I was pregnant. When I told him, his first reaction was "we can't do this I'll pay for an abortion". Well, no way I was getting an abortion. So now, things are so annoying with him. His girlfriend messaged me on facebook and was freaking out on me which I don't feel like dealing with, he freaks out on me for everything I do, like if I go on a date he'll freak out, if I say I'm going to a different state for vacation or like to stay for a little while he freaks out. He's getting on my nerves so much I'm ready to just tell him the baby isn't his so he'll leave me alone! What do I do? (link)
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For one, block him and his girlfriend on any social sites. How old are you? If you think he is getting way out of hand, go get a personal protection order. It will stop him for contacting you at all. EVEN if you have his child. You don't HAVE to have him in the babys life. When the baby is born, do NOT put his last name on the birth certificate. List the farther unknown. If he wants to take you to court then fine. It will take along time, and it'll be his money hes going to waste, because he has to pay for all the court fees, plus DNA, and even in the long run, you'll come out with full custody, plus getting child support from him. IF it comes down to court, then explain to the judge how he is acting, more than likely they will grant him reasonable visitation, meaning only when YOU say is a good time, and he don't even have to take the child by hisself you or someone in your family or friend can be with him. He does NOT control you, remember that, even if you are having his child, that don't mean anything. I've been through this all, and I know how hard it is, but it'll be okay. Just stay strong.
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