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why is she...?


Question Posted Friday August 24 2007, 2:59 pm

okay my friend is a good friend and nice shes sometimes mean but shes cool but when my friend and me drank alcohol she was laughing a lot and she was funny but then few minutes later she got quite and i asked her why shes quite and she looked at me in a sad face and said nothing but then the tears came up from her and she burst up crying and she keep saying "im sorry for being a bad friend im sorry if i couldnt be there for you i wanna be there for you guys but im sorry if i couldnt" and kept crying and i told her its okay and we comforted her and she slept and when she woke up she was just acting normal and asked us what happened and stuff so what do you think about my friend? what kind of drunk is she?

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christina answered Saturday August 25 2007, 12:32 am:
She's the depressed, apologetic drunk, obviously. She cries when she's drunk, apologizes, & then feels bad for things she didn't or couldn't do.


She's going to be like that probably every time you guys drink, so I suggest you get used to it. Or at least don't get her so hammered.

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amarand answered Saturday August 25 2007, 12:18 am:
Chances are, she won't act the same way every time she drinks. Obviously she had some built up feelings about the way she's been treating you and your friends, even if you and her other friends didn't notice anything wrong. Now that she's got it off her chest, though, she probably has a cleared conscience. A lot of people get emotional sometimes when they drink and cry for no reason, its nothing to worry about. Alcohol just makes you say some things that you want to say but hold yourself back from saying for certain reasons. I've done the same thing when drinking..I was sitting there laughing with my friends and then I just felt like crying so I curled up into a ball and cried and it felt really good. But I wasn't sad or anything, so don't worry about her.

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