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: ( idk what to do!!!
Well
I've had sex with my bf once.
And that was it.
Everytie i kiss him a certain way, hold him a certain way, touch him a certain way of stuff like that, he gets a little "excited".
He tells me that i give him boners all the time (and he makes me pretty dern horny) and that he loves me (we've been going out for a year) and he lets me touch his happy place and all but it never really goes any further....
How can I tell him I want to have sex with him again without making him feel awkward?
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Haha, really, if he TELLS you that you give him boners all the time, it really shouldn't be that awkward if you just ask him "Do you want to?" If he's smart enough, he should know what you mean. But, if you're a bit more shy than I am, which, is pretty hard to be....then find a place where you KNOW for sure you're alone (I don't really know how difficult this would be for you since I don't really know your age...) Then once you think the moment's right, just either ask him like I said before, or tell him that you think you're ready to try it out again. I know it's not much, but I hope I've helped.
~Nikki~
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If you want something in a relationship, sure, you can try nonverbal tricks and such, but you know the only FOR SURE way that you're going to let him know what you want? Whether it's sex, love, comfort, more attention, or whatever, it doesn't matter- the ONLY for sure way is to ask him. Sure it may be awkward, but relationships without communication often end badly. If you communicate what you want and what you're comfortable with, I promise you things will be more enjoyable. Just ask him if you want it. If you think it's awkward, chances are it's not.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Well there are ways to say it without saying it. Take him to your house one night and when no one else is there [[idk if anyone else lives there]] cuddle with him alot maybe watch a movie, but you want to remember to be kissing him alot. Try to turn him on big time, and when your sure he is well then take him to your room and things will begin to heat up there.
Hope I helped!
Yours truly
-Samantha
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