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Can I trust her?
15/m.
Ok, so I just recently got into a longdistance relationship and its been going strong for almost two weeks, we see eachother via webcam everyday, we text nonstop and sometimes talk on the phone..
But yesterday night she told me she had to go to the movies with this guy. She said the first time they met was at the movies, and within the first hour of the movie they were almost at thirdbase... Im hoping this doesn't happen again, can I trust her?
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well at first long distance relationships are always risky. You can never really base a true relatioship on that. as for her she sounds to easy. Almost third base on a first date it slutty. If she really likes you then go for it. but i wouldn't trust her a damn bit.
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i wouldn't trust her. but i can tell that she really wants to not cheat on you. but i wouldn't continue to date someone who's not clean or cant control herself. besides, yall ought to start seeing other people anyway. long distnce relationships never turn out into a great future for the couple. good luck
lori 16/f
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Hoenstly, NO! I agree with all the answers before me. Your too young to be tied down in a long distance relationship. Go out & look for someone new. If she really wanted to make it work with you, she wouldn't of basically "cheated" on you. So trust me on this one, she is NOT worth it. Don't get upset about it, just go out and meet new people. What kind of girl will do that kind of stuff with guys she JUST met? I'm sorry hun but please move on! ♥
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Why would you want to trust a girl who goes to third base at cinemas with people she barely knows?
What do you want out of this relationship? Do you seriously want to be with her? Because if so, it's going to take A LOT of working out, especially since you're in a long distance relationship. Both participants must be willing. So IF you want to work things out, your first step is to find out exactly what she wants out of this and make it absolutely clear nothing like that can ever happen again.
This is just my personal thoughts on the whole situation, so I'm sorry in advance:
At your age, you shouldn't be in a long distant relationship. They're hard work. You don't need that weight on your shoulders and the constant fear of her doing things behind your back. Think about it - there's no way of you knowing what she will get up to is there? She told you the truth this time, but if she does it again, she might not.
You've been in the relationship for TWO weeks. That's nothing. and she did that? You're better off alone than with the likes of her.
but as I've said, that's just my thoughts.
What happens next is entirely up to you..
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No, only sluts give blowjobs to people they don't know in movie theaters. You can't trust sluts.
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I don't know this girl personally, so I can't tell you if you should trust her or not. But, I'll give my opinion judging by what I know from your question.
What she did was horrible. I would definitely talk to her about it. Let her know that what she did was WRONG, and you're not happy about it. Tell her that right now, you don't trust her and if it happens again, you might never trust her again. Explain to her that she committed to this relationship, so she shouldn't be with other guys.
That being said, as far as you trusting her goes, I'd talk to her about it and give her one more chance. If she slips up again, I'd end it. You deserve somebody better than that.
-Laura. (16-f)
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