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Should i worry or not
I am with a girl now that had cheated on her previous boyfriend with me and now i work a 3 week on 3 week off rotation which puts me out of state for weeks at a time and its been eating at me that she might be cheating on me while im away. what should i do? im lost.
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Hi,
All I can say is that if she did it with you, she'll do it to you. This type of behavior shows you what type of person she is, but you knew that going in, that's why you're so worried.
The two of you need to sit down one day when you are in town and have a long discussion about trust.
I wish you the best ot luck.
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well give her a chance. if she still cheats on you, shes not worth it. break up with her and just tell her to get back together with her ex or something. good luck!
lori 16/f
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first of all, don't doubt her just cause she's cheated on her last boyfriend. maybe she has learned and is a different person now.
second, you have to let her know that it is bothering you. be honest and say that you don't want her cheating on you.
third, if she promises, you have to learn to trust her. how would you like it if everyone always doubted you because you made one mistake? keep it in the back of your mind, and if there are hints that she's cheating, you have to confront her about it.
fourth, which is a must, call her once a day and ask her what she's been upto. if you talk frequently, she'll feel guilty if she does cheat on you.
but before you leave, you have to talk to her about how it's bothering you. learn to be loyal and honest about your feelings with her.
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