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Mboyfriend of 1 year says he cares but treats me like crap
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and at first our relationship was amazing.
my dad hasnt spoke to me fot nearly 3 years now after a bad split with my mom, but he still sees my 11 year old younger brother. so my boyfriend really helped me through tough times when i had councelling for other family problems.
he has been my rock. i couldnt even imagine my life without him.
now he acts as if he doesnt care if we are together or not. like he hates me in a way. he is constanly in a mood with me. he just says hes got alot on his mind. we had a healthy relationship - we didnt see too much of each other.when he first got with me he was crazy about me, which was flattering. im a young model and i know i am good looking. modelin really helps my self esteem. but now i cant bring myself to get out of bed, let alone turn up to shoots. he makes me feel like shit. he told me he didnt fancy me today. he is tryin to make me leave him i think.
should i leave him? i know i can do alot better. but there is just so much on my mind. my councelling doesnt seem to be helping either.
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He is most likely seeing another girl but isn't man enough to come out and tell you so he will treat you like dirt hoping you will drop him. I would give him what he wants but don't break up with him, just never be in contact with him again and leave him hanging. I will bet money in about a month or so when his new girlfriend sees the real him and breaks up, he will come crawling back and then dump him. Some men can be so cruel. Don't lose heart. Your time will come. Be patient and above all seek the true comforter. Our comfort comes from a relation with Christ, but you probably know that!
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i would just break up with him and find someone else who is good to you the whole way. but really think it through before you make it final. good luck!
lori 16/f
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Have you spoken to him about what he's got on his mind?
Instead of guessing what's going on and making your decision of whether to leave or not, try opening a line of communication. Talk with him. Don't dance around the issue. This is important, speak bluntly so you can get through to him.
Usually when guys are faced with problems, they sit and stew until they have a solution. Which could make them irritable to the rest of the world.
So sit him down and talk. Really talk.
Cheers,
stargirl
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