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Hi, I'm Kimberly [but you can call my Kimmy] I'm 16 years old and I'm from Texas. I'm a junior at Stephen F. Austin High School. Feel free to ask me any kind of question at anytime. I love helping people in anyway I can. My goal is to at least help one person a day. And please send feedback, I like to know if I'm doing a good job. =]
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guys why do you like boobs so much? i don't get it, they're just like fat sacs. i asked my boyfriend and he said they were "beautiful" hah but i think they're ugly...idk can anyone answer my question? lol
Hey, big fat sacks will get you places!
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Ah, Im Ellie and Im 15, Nearly 16 this week, but Ive been having sex for around Half a year now with my partner. I decided to go on the pill eventually and had been on it for four days, the leaflet said you were covered from the first day so we had unprotected sex (but I got worried and Never finished Intercourse) But to be on the safe side I took the Morning After pill 6-8 hours afterwards. I wasnt Sick, and It should have been effective as I bled for two days afterwards, and Im wondering if this has anything to do with my lateness? Im five days late and haven't had intercourse for around a month now. I was due Last Wednesday Or so, but It hasn't Come Yet and Im quite worried. Im wondering if anyone could clam my nerves? Ive been very stressed recently due to issues and Im wondering if this could be it, or how I can tell if I have something BIG to worry about :). Thank you for your time, help much appreciated:).
Ok, if you took the morning afterpill your fine. That pill terminates any sperm that could potentially get you pregnant.
And with birth control, you are NOT safe for the first month. It has to get into your system before it starts to actually work. I dont know why the person you got it from didnt explain this to you.
You could always just wear a condom so that you never have to worry like this. Hopefully I helped. =]
Love,
Kimmy.
okay I am definitely going to start using condoms after this.
I'm on Yaz birth control and I took my pill about 9 PM and threw up at 2 AM. well I never took another pill or anything because I wasn't sure if it was absorbed.
I know you're supposed to use a backup protection method for seven days if you missed a pill.
welllllllll. I had sex without a condom five days after throwing up. He didn't cum inside of me or anything. (but I know pre-cum and all that shit)
soooo....am I going to be pregnant now=[=[??
I'm very very paranoid about this and I'm not sure if my pill was absorbed before throwing up or if having unprotected sex five days later is okay.
HELP!!!
If anything wait until you are supposed to get your period |i know there is set time during the month, I've taken bc before| if you don't get it or its irregular. Take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor. Hopefully I helped. =]
Love,
Kimmy.
Ok so I almost feel silly asking this and I never ask questions like this, but I just wanted to double check on something.
Today things got steamy with my guy and he was fingering me. At some points he got in a bit deep and it hurt a little. I'd let him know and he'd stop so there wasn't any problem there. But now I'm feeling a bit of discomfort and when I peed there was a slight hint of blood. Is it possible for a hymen to break just by fingering, if he got in deep enough? Or could it be that he just scratched me a little inside? [it feels like it could possibly be scratched -- which might also explain the bit of discomfort]
Any input is appreciated =)
Its most likely that he just scratched you, if he would have broken the hymen I'm pretty sure you would feel more pain. Hopefully I helped. =]
Love,
Kimmy.
Ok. Well, I have a friend....let’s just call her "D". Ok, this is a really long story, so hold onto your hats!
Anyway, so D and me have been friends since the 6th grade. I had moved from my hometown in the fourth grade and had been friend less. Then middle school came around, and I had always sat alone at lunch and stuff like that. Then she randomly talked to me one day, and we had been friends since. Well, I am now going into 9th grade, and I think I’m going to go crazy! Lemme explain. 6th grade was a total blast! She introduced me to all my best friends I have today. We have our own little group thing going on, (except we are considered the "Weird people group". But, that’s ok, since we are having fun. But, that all changed in 7th grade. Suddenly, we were all changing, and all the drama started. At least 1 new fight a week! It got a little better in 8th grade. But it seems like D is almost always the cause of it! She’s suddenly turning "Emo" now, and when there’s a party or something, she and another Emo friend of mine "T" bring it down and sit and sulk. She then started cutting herself, and then eventually got me into cussing. (I’m a major Christian FYI) I got outta that habit though. She constantly annoys the CRAP outta me! She always starts drama, and complains a ton, she always says she'll call me back but claims to "forget" to. And she always gossips, tells other peoples secrets to me! So, I can't really trust her all that much, since she might go and tell mine. She hasn’t been fitting into our group that much lately. No one really seems to like her anymore. She hurts my feelings a lot too. Anyways, my point is, she’s annoying, but I don’t know what to do. If I get mad at her, she doesn’t do anything, and I have to end up apologizing for getting mad at her, when it was her fault. It hurts, cuz she doesn’t care. I did a pro-con list about if I should be her friend or not. The results were: 24 con, 4 pro. What should I do?!
It seems like you guys just grew apart. If she really wanted to still be your friend, she wouldn't get you into bad habits that she knows you don't like. You should just spend some time with friends that you feel closer to. Me and some of my old friends drifted far apart and now I can't even believe we were ever friends. People change. Hopefully I helped. =]
Love,
Kimmy.
Okay, so one of my friends, lets call her Jamie, is always making fun of my dislexia (and for those of you who dont know, dislexia is a learning disability that, for me, pervents me from reading and writing well).
She always laughs at me when I miss spell a easy word, or cant read a easy word. I also studder when I talk, which she makes fun of.
When i try to defend myself and bring up the fact that im getting strate A's, she brings up the fact that i can only write at a 4th grade level and have to type everything because my handwriting is unreadable.
Anytime i tell her to stop, she tells me to relax and that its just a joke. What should i do?
13/f
Talk to her about the way her teasing makes you feel. And if you ask me, that does not sound like a good friend.
love,
Kimmy.
Well im young and i havent started my period, but i want to know hwo you know your gonna start, like i know you get cramps and moody but do you know when its a period cramp, or do you know the moodiness is from your period, like is it nothing youve felt before, like you can tell, i just wanna know if i will know for sure that "that is period cramps" or "that is moodiness from my period", i can tell, so please help me out , i wanna know, Thanks!
Usually when you start your period you get verryyy bad cramps in your lower stomach. And i have heard my friends say that they get pains in their breasts right before they get their periods.
Hope i helped at least just a little.
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love,
Kimmy.
my parents sent me to bording school so i wound stop haveing sex and i had sex at school and i have missed my period 6 weeks and i am getting lager i am pritty small what do i do i am 16
You should probably try to get a pregnancy test from the store just to make sure if your pregnant or not.
15/f
I really don't like my mom's boyfriend! He's been around for about a year now, and at first I really hated him, mainly cause my mom always spent time with him and not me. When i decide to "open up" and tell my mom, she ended up breaking up with him and making me feel REALLY guilty. So i got his number, called him, and told him to come back because it was all a misunderstanding and my mom needed him. That was about a year ago, and i kind of pushed my feelings aside to make my mom happy and kind of got over it. But now, it's starting to bother me again. He doesn't even technially live here, but he's ALWAYS here. ALWAYS. I can't ever be with my mom alone anymore because he's always with her. They go together everwhere pretty much and it seems like i can't go anywhere in my house wihtouot him being there. He is also very annoying in so many little ways and awkward to be around. It's annoying too because my mom is always os busy with online classes, so if i have to go somewhere, she tells him to take me...and i HATE having to be in the car with him and him taking me places. I don't know what to do..because I know he makes my mom happy, and if I told her, i know she would end it with him, and would be so depressed. I know i'm so selfish...my mom deserves a good guy, and i shouldn't get in the way. but what should i do??? it's making me so unhappy...but i can't EVER let my mom know, because it would kill her to know i'm not happy and it would really ruin not only her relationship with him, but me as well..i'm not sure if she would ever forgive me. So..should I just try as hard as i can to avoid him or consider telling my mom??
I really think that you should tell her. You should really explain to her how you feel and let her know that you dont want her to end it with him, but to spend more time with you. Explain to her that maybe you need some time away from him and more with her.
I hope i helped, and if you do take my advice i would love to know what the outcome was.
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14/f-I havent gotten my period yet, and i was wondering if there are like any warning signs before i get it, b/c i dont want to get it during school. thanks so much!
All girls are differen when it comes to these things.
I got my period when i was only 9.
I remember getting cramps real bad like a week before i actually got it.
And i know that alot of my friends say that they get breast pains before they get their period.
I think you should just check yourself if you ever get cramps in your lower stomach.
I have had accidents at school before, and it isnt fun. =[
Hope i helped!