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5 Days Late --->should I be Worried?
Ah, Im Ellie and Im 15, Nearly 16 this week, but Ive been having sex for around Half a year now with my partner. I decided to go on the pill eventually and had been on it for four days, the leaflet said you were covered from the first day so we had unprotected sex (but I got worried and Never finished Intercourse) But to be on the safe side I took the Morning After pill 6-8 hours afterwards. I wasnt Sick, and It should have been effective as I bled for two days afterwards, and Im wondering if this has anything to do with my lateness? Im five days late and haven't had intercourse for around a month now. I was due Last Wednesday Or so, but It hasn't Come Yet and Im quite worried. Im wondering if anyone could clam my nerves? Ive been very stressed recently due to issues and Im wondering if this could be it, or how I can tell if I have something BIG to worry about :). Thank you for your time, help much appreciated:).
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I really understood your question. Of course you should be concerned but for many reasons. Being pregnant, raising a baby at such an early age, making a decision to kill an unborn baby, contracting a disease that could keep you from ever being pregnant to me are much bigger concerns. Then again you could just be having a reaction to that pill you took. Either way you are so young and full of life it doesn't make sense to take a chance and throw it away. I was only trying to help you understand. After something bad happens to a person they usually spend a lifetime regretting the poor decision that led to the circumstance. Try and picture youself not having that happen by removing the same careless acts from your future. Try and worry about where you will take that high paying job after graduating from college.
My wife and I did the same thing and we have a 21 year old daughter now. If you are trying to get pregnant it is working. Why worry if you are late. If you don't want to get pregnant then you need to remember that having sex will make you get pregnant. The only safe sex is sex you don't have. I understand your concern. But trying to put out this huge fire after it starts is harder than keeping the fire from starting. There are so many sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted children these days for the life of me I don't understand why as smart as the youth of today are so many get into this sexual problem. No matter how much you are enjoying it now, making a poor decision now will have consequences that last a lifetime. Some you may spend the rest of your life regretting. Wait until you find that one guy that you can't live without, get married and plan a lifetime of happiness.
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Ok, if you took the morning afterpill your fine. That pill terminates any sperm that could potentially get you pregnant.
And with birth control, you are NOT safe for the first month. It has to get into your system before it starts to actually work. I dont know why the person you got it from didnt explain this to you.
You could always just wear a condom so that you never have to worry like this. Hopefully I helped. =]
Love,
Kimmy.
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