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Hate that i love him...
im 14/f
if it matters?
well here goes...(sorry it's so long)
i've liked this guy since about january
he lead me on
he flirted ALOT!
so natrually i flirted back and began to like him
this continued for a few months and during those few months i had my friend ask him out for me a couple times and he said no...
which got me real confused
i didnt understand why he would flirt so much
but not date me
my best guy friend told him if he didnt like me that he should stop leading me on
but he didnt
so it kept on
close to the end of the year
there was a field trip for all the good kids at school(my parents didnt let me go)
so my best guy friend,the flirt,and me stayed at school with everyone else who couldnt go
there was alot of hugging and flirting going on
a game of truth or dare started up and i got dared
to kiss the flirt and well i did it that day we started going out than i thought everything was going good and he dumped me a week later
well the last day of school came along and that day he kissed me good bye but little did i know i would be seeing him again...
my friend invited him to her pool party
he showed up
we hugged
we flirted
we kissed
ALOT!!!
i saw him a week later and only got one hug
it was like nothing ever happend
could someone please tell me what to do im usually pretty good about all of this crap but im so confused.Thanx in advance
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HEy!!!!!
its Ok to be confused......... what he is doing is not very smart of his part either..... i think he is trying to make you want him...... you know flirt with you,, make out with you and then leaves you.... i think he does that to make you wunt him just gets you excited and then just dump you......... Also he is doing that because he knows that the next time you'll see him you'll flirt and then hook up... he is just using you.... the next time you see if him you see him again just talk to him but dont flirt with him... ignore him try to reverse the game and insted of him playing hard and making you wunt him you'll be on the lead you be the one making him want you and making him want to be with you again and again.... dont follow his game or it will be game over for you and he'll do dis everytime he sees you..... you'll be his punshing bag...
So GUD LUK!!!!!!!!!
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Hi!!!
So i know it's confusing, but hey! no fear, I'm here... haha jk... anyways seems to me like he's using u... you know the attitude of i'll be with you when I want... I'll kiss you, hug you, Or do whatever I want,when i want... So don't let him (or you could talk to him, show your feelings bkah blah all that stuff) it's better to not let him do that... Hey, there r lots of guys out there (although it may seem like all the cute good ones r taken)...
So anyways that is just MY and entirely My point of view (no guarantee)...
anyways hope this helped
anything else inbox!!
toodles
Aly~
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