mustlovedogs991 answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 6:30 pm: ok im a girl. and it really depends. ok this guy liked me but i didnt like him. there will b signs. like i wud start to avoid him and wud barely eva talk to him. but if u like her i wud suggest to come out and say it wen u find out she likes u. girls like dat. [ mustlovedogs991's advice column | Ask mustlovedogs991 A Question ]
jordyn011395 answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 5:58 pm: ask her if she likes you or if your to shy to ask her, write her a note and put it in a spot where she would find it and in the note ask her to respond to the note. [ jordyn011395's advice column | Ask jordyn011395 A Question ]
From there:
"I'm going to start off by saying this: if a girl smiles A LOT when she's around you, she probably likes you as more than a friend.
The Top 5 other things to look for:
1. She laughs at your jokes.
- No matter how many times she's heard them, or how totally lame they are, she'll laugh at them. End of story.
2. She touches you (not sexually, get your head outta the gutter!)
- She plays with your hair, or fixes your shirt or something. Maybe she even holds your hand, that's a pretty good sign that she likes you.
3. She includes you in things.
- She talks to you even when she's with her friends. She makes an effort to include you, like by asking you things. Even lame questions like, 'What color should I paint my nails?' might be her way of trying to include you.
4. She makes an effort to talk to you/see you.
- She texts you just to say hello, she's late to class just because she wanted to hug you good bye, or she calls you just to see what you're doing.
5. She trusts you, and talks to you seriously.
- She tells you things that she might not normally tell others. Like, if she's in a bad mood and tells others she's fine, she'll actually tell you that she failed that geometry test, or her friends aren't including her lately. She opens up to you and isn't afraid to be herself.
Even though every girl is different, these are the top 5 things girls do when they like a guy. So, chances are, if she's holding your hand and texting you saying :" Hey whatcha up to? :)", chances are she's doing it all for a reason."
Im addition to that, life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling this girl how you really feel about her?
superstarblue89 answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 2:50 pm: solightninlove is right. I'm a girl and we are confusing as hell. It's just in our nature. But you really should just ask her out...the worst she can do is say no...and if she does then you'll know that she is not interested and that you should move your interests to someone else. you could try flirting with her a bit to see what her response is...but she may not pick up on it...so I think that being straight forward and asking her would be the best way...and even if she says no she will not only be extremely flattered anyway, but commend you for your bravery. It takes a lot of balls to do that. [ superstarblue89's advice column | Ask superstarblue89 A Question ]
solightninglove answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 2:29 pm: just stop being so scared and ask her out. no matter if she says yes or not she will be flattered, ask her if she wants to hang out and get to know her, or ask her if she wants to go to a movie. theres not really a way to tell unless you ask her. girls are confusing like that. [ solightninglove's advice column | Ask solightninglove A Question ]
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