well theres a whole list of things that i want to buy but i'm not sure where to start. what i want to get are..
an ipod touch
nintendo wii + wii fit
nikon camera - professional kind
apple laptop
and thats pretty much it, but i can't decide which one i want to start saving up for first? opinions on which you would get first? because they are all exspensive.
think of your priorities. if one of them can wait or if you need any of them now.
the ipod touch does have wifi if your concerned about internet. but the laptop also has features games and music. do you need a computer, or do you have one? the camera is probably not needed right away unless you are taking a photography class, you are taking a job related to photography or you really really want it. if you want to focus more on getting in shape go for the wii fit.
if it were me i think i would go for the cheapest first, unless you need something more. then i would get the one i wanted/needed most. you could also go to the store and check each of them out further to see which one you want most.
if you simply can't decide.
get the itouch. laptop. wiifit. camera.
good luck
:D
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I'm going to try to shorten my life story, so here it goes;
When I was a kid, my life was literally perfect. Of course, a lot of people's are when they're a kid. But everything was just so perfect and now, within the last couple of years, my life has changed so drastically and I can't get a hold on the fact that that's just how life is. In the past couple of years;
-my parents got a divorce because my mom cheated on my dad
-my brother (I am VERY close to him) has been on and off drugs and was sent to an insane asylum and Juvinille detintion center for aggravated assault.
-My brother got his girlfriend pregnant and they ran away together. He recently came back and is under house arrest.
-My dad really dislikes my mom but my mom is really ditzy and thinks life is fine right now.
and there's more. I'm not saying all of this for pity, I'm really not. I'm sick of pity, because I've probably got it better then most people out there. But apparently I am my family's therapist or something because everyone talks to me about everything. I'm only 14! My dad tells me how much he doesn't like my mom, my mom tells me how screwed up my brother is (which is bull, because she never talks to him and doesn't even know him that well), and my brother tells me all of his thoughts. I love him to death, but his thoughts are scary, even to him. He's extremely screwed up, and he knows it. He's told me so many things and I just feel like he needs real help. I can't say what he's told me, because he trusts me, but I will say he's very bipolar, he's very depressed, and he's suicidal. I could not live if he killed himself, I'm afraid I would lose it. He's described to me very graphic things he's thought about. I just don't know if I can handle any of this stuff anymore. Everyone's always known me as the optomistic person who gives advice, but I don't know what to say when it comes to all this.
All of this makes me continuously think back to my childhood and miss it. It actually hurts to think back to then, remembering how great it was then. There's just so much going on right now, I feel like running away or something. Not because I'm running away from my problems, but because I want to run away from what's going to happen to all these people if they continue thinking the way they do.
And on top of all of these feelings, many of my best friends don't know what they're doing, because they come to me for advice too. Of course, their problems are quite minimal compared to my families, as most of them are just about typical teenage girl stuff, but it's still like adding leaves to the fire. Everyone comes to me for advice and no one just stops and helps themselves.
I just can't handle life anymore. Not meaning to sound suicidal, because I'm not. I also don't think I'm depressed. But I believe being so nostalgic might continue to hurt me until I am depressed. I feel like I'm wearing a mask, different for everyone I talk too and I can only be myself when I'm nostalgic. Please help, I'll rate you or whatever, I just need help.
sweetie your much too young to be handling all of this. i can't imagine how you deal with it. first off. your parents need to stop putting you in the position where they constantly VENT at YOU. you didn't do anything wrong dear. also i'm confused as to how many brothers you have. one or three. and how old? anyway i know what you mean when you say your their therapist. i get so much shit from my bf who i love to death. but anyway. tell your parents you cant handle them constantly venting in your direction. or just don't let them. leave the room. do something to distance yourself from the noise in your house. i would continue to talk to your brother. but remember, everything he is telling you is his burden to bear. not yours. but that doesn't mean you can't help him. you just can't fix him. just listening is enough. if you don't know what to tell him. tell him you don't know. hugs are often appreciated. and helpful when dealing with stress. and talk to a friend, if you can. that can be really really hard when they don't know or understand whats going on in your life. but if you need someone to talk to
lostinmyundefinedsoul@yahoo.com
or
http://www.myspace.com/xxxxxxxxxlostxxxxxxxxx
good luck
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okay me and my mom just had a conversation about me having sex for the first time. she started crying and was upset that i had lost it so young. but we have such a good reltionship that it doesnt feel like it could affect us at all. shes been acting really close to me now but im kind of afraid she'll hold it against me. do you think she will?
i would think that if you are responsible about having sex, and are really careful, and also sensitive to how she is feeling about the whole situation, she won't hold it against you. shes not angry so why would she. just be careful. use a condom. even if you are on birth control. sometimes you forget a pill. your mom sounds awesome. its cool that you can tell her things like that. make sure and tell her how much you love her and appreciate her.
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The last time i had sex was on halloween, and on the 3rd (3 days later) i had my period.
I usually start around 1-5 but
i havent started this month.
Could i be pregnant?
yes. the egg may have passed before you had sex, so it's possible. take a test and see. that's all you can do. good luck.
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i hadnt had sex since july and i have been getting my periods on time except i was supposed to start the 12th of november and i still havent gotten it...obviously im not pregnant but what other reasons could make it be this late? oo and always like a week and a half before halloween a guy fingered me but that probably has nothing to do with it,,just trying to throw out as much info.
thanks in advance!
Reasons you could miss your period: Stress, Illness, Change in Schedules, Change in Medications, Being Overweight, Being Underweight, Miscalculation, Menopause, Peri-Menopause, and of course Pregnancy.
Stress is a big one. The only way a guy fingering you can lead to pregnancy is if he had sperm on his hands. so your probably just stressed out or something. i know i've missed and been late because of stress. and thinking about it too much really doesn't help. it can really stress you out. I think there might be other more serious causes, but i really wouldn't worry unless you miss more than one period, or are experiencing other symptoms. You can also look on WebMD to see other causes for a late/missed period..
heres more about each of those causes: http://pregnancy.about.com/od/amipregnant/a/missedperiod.htm
good luck
-sara
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i just editted a picture.
tell me what u think.
http://i38.tinypic.com/2hhqi4w.jpg
(yes that is me in it.)
oh yes that is pretty much gorgeous. very nice job! and your really pretty.
-sara
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14/F
My doctor told me that if I felt any lumps that I should talk to him. He told me to check regularly. So, I did. It's been two months since we spoke. Last night, I was checking and then when I touched near the middle, I felt a lump and, I tend to be freaked out easily by anything that seems unhealthy. Well, I closed my eyes and trierd to calm down, then fell asleep. When I woke up, I check again, and the lump was gone. What should I do? I can't go to the doctors because my mother says I'm just over reacting, but I still have a bad feeling. Anyone know what's wrong?
your mom is probably right. cancer lumps don't really just go away. our breasts are lumpy and weird to begin with. you have to get a feel for how they should be feeling. if there is a change in how they feel or there is a hard lump or something else abnormal you should go to the doctor. just check again for the lump and if its not there don't worry about it. if it really bothers you the next time you go to the doctor ask if he or she could do a breast exam on you. they will check it themselves and tell you if there is anything there. good luck :D i'm sure your fine.
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One of my best friends loooves hello kitty and wants a "surprise" for Christmas. So obviously i'm trying to find something hello kitty. thing is...anything that they sell in stores around town she already has (every t-shirt, toy, pillow, etc. from everywhere from mervyn's to hot topic to claire's). what can i get her that is unique and original...and hello kitty? maybe authentic Japanese or something. and not like a million dollars plz. any suggestions?
hey you could try googling something like authentic hello kitty
sometimes target has hello kitty items
or you could try ebay. i already found a few cute things just in a quick search
http://cgi.ebay.com/New-Arrival-Hello-Kitty-White-Wallet-Purse_W0QQitemZ140286025063QQcmdZViewItemQQptZLH_DefaultDomain_0?hash=item140286025063&_trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=72%3A1205|66%3A2|65%3A12|39%3A1|240%3A1318
http://cgi.ebay.com/New-Hello-kitty-Necklace-watch-pocket-clock-xmas_W0QQitemZ260322199151QQcmdZViewItemQQptZLH_DefaultDomain_0?hash=item260322199151&_trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=72%3A1205|66%3A2|65%3A12|39%3A1|240%3A1318
http://cgi.ebay.com/Sanrio-Hello-Kitty-blanket-Plush-pink-and-white-throw_W0QQitemZ300276361264QQcmdZViewItemQQptZLH_DefaultDomain_0?hash=item300276361264&_trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=72%3A1205|66%3A2|65%3A12|39%3A1|240%3A1318
good luck
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what is a good free music download thing..like besides limewire or frostwire..one that works really good and is free?
thanks :)
bittorrent is really good. it is illegal though. but the downloading is fairly fast. its free. and it has multiple search websites. it doesn't work the same way as limewire does though. but its easy enough to use. you first download the program. then you can go to websites like http://btjunkie.org/ or http://thepiratebay.org/ and type in your search
when you find what you want you just click on it and it asks if you want to download the entire file and then it asks you where you want to dl it to and you choose bittorrent. :D good luck
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what are some other sites like myspace and facebook?
well.
they aren't EXACTLY like myspace or facebook. those two are the big ones.
but other social sites:
Xanga
Twitter
LiveJournal
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18/f
still a virgin
so my boy wants me to give him head. i've never really done anything like this before, and when i'm on my period i want to be able to do something for him you know? well the thing is i am nervous, obviously. i don't want to embarass myself by being horrible at it. he has only been with one other girl, and i know she did everything with him which worries me because what if i'm not as good as she was? some questions i have are:
1. is it really as awkward and disgusting as it may seem? i think the penis is actually pretty gross, but i am very attracted to my boy, he turns me on like no other.
2. i don't want to swallow, i actually don't really want that in my mouth at all, but i also don't want it getting all over the place
3. is there anything i should for sure do or NOT do?
4. i heard from somewhere that you use a condom when you give someone head, but that doesn't seem right?
well i know sometimes you can't really go into depth on here, so if you can't answer any of these questions i would appreciate if you could e-mail me or something (i'll give you my e-mail in feedback) if it's not too much trouble. thank you very much and happy thanksgiving :)
first off. you probably don't want to hear this but really if you don't want to do it you REALLY don't have to. if he can't respect it. he's the wrong guy. it seems more like you want to want it. anyway. i didn't seem thrilled at doing this either. but now i actually like it. anyway. it is true you are supposed to use a condom, because you can get sexually transmitted diseases from him. unless he has been checked for stds i would definitely use a condom. you don't want people to think your a slut because you have herpes on your face. anyway. i think the penis is gross too. but like you said. my bf turns me on like crazy. turning the lights off is good. who wants to look at it. also. i don't like him to watch me do it. that is super awkward. it freaks me out. most of the time i just like go under the covers, but something that also heightens the other senses is blindfolding him. my boyfriend went crazy when i did this. anyway. if you find out you don't like doing it you CAN stop. the first time i did it my bf didn't even finish. i never swallow. i think that i would probably gag. you don't have to swallow. it usually just goes onto his stomach because hes lying down. he might like it if you lick it off of him... do not use a lot of teeth if you do at all. i don't think they like teeth.. kiss and suck at his neck. nibble his ears. whatever usually turns him on. trust me youll find out. talk to him. lets not forget the most important part of the relationship is communication. it might seem weird to talk about that kind of stuff at first but its really not after awhile. if you google how to do it, youll get tons of tips. and yes they do help. you don't really have to deep throat to make it feel good. just do other things. circles lick etc. just google it. :D good luck haha.
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Okay well my family and I were shopping in down town toronto. My mother and brother split up to do shopping together and then it was just me, my dad, and sister.
Well there was this old homeless guy we keep passing and my sister and I felt huilty since we had grocery bags hanging from our arms and we keep passing him. My Dad told us not to give him money cuz "he already gets enough from the governemnt for being old" but when he wasn't looking, my sister threw three dollars into his hat.
We went into this building to wait as he went to the bathroom and then this guy that looked homeless walked inside started swearing at us like crazy and he kept saying fuck you fuck you to us for giving the guy money. Some people aorund us were really scared and we just stood there taking it in because we weren't sure if he'll take a knife out of no where and stab us or something.
After he was done ranting, he went into an elevator and left and then my Dad came back form the washroom a minute later and my sister and I just pretended like nothing happened.
But I just feel really scared right now and I don't know what to do. I probably watch a lot of scary movies because I keep thinking he's going to find us. If he really is homeless, we wouldn't have gave him money too! My sister said that she saw him once when were crossing the street but he wasn't asking for spare change or anything!
you probably do watch to many scary movies. i'm pretty sure this homeless man isn't going to come after you. there are a lot of people who are mentally unstable and homeless. its really very sad actually. but you will be fine. he was probably angry or confused. don't let this incident stop you from giving to the homeless. and you could also give food. i can't imagine this incident would happen to you more than once. honesty. the man was probably mentally unstable. and he didn't hurt you when he had the chance. so why would he hurt you in the future. about what your dad said. people think that people who are on welfare or are homeless are lazy or are milking the system. THAT IS SIMPLY NOT TRUE. its ridiculous. a lot of people work really hard their whole lives simply to live in poverty. they may have two or three jobs and still not be able to support their family. also, contrary to popular belief, you cannot stay on welfare forever. there is a limited number of years you can stay on welfare. and its not that long. it's also really hard to get on disability for most people. you have to keep in mind that not everyone has the opportunities that you will have. even if you don't have a lot of opportunity. chances are there is someone worse off. you cannot judge people because they are homeless. people get laid off for countless reasons. they encounter things some can't even imagine. they might not have the money to go to college and get a good job if they have to support their family. and if you have kids. its even harder to stay above the poverty line. just don't let this experience harden your heart. and don't worry about that guy. he was a crazy guy. you should be fine.
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so i've been researching the itouch because i would like to put it on my christmas list. I've been looking through reviews of it online but i have specific questions.
Is there any difference between the 8GB and 16GB besides the amount of songs/videos it holds?
Does it comes with games on it? Or would i have to pay anything?
Internet. I know its wi-fi, but does it cost anything to use it?
if you have any other helpful comments, they are greatly appreciated :)
the only difference is you can fit more songs videos pictures and games on the 16gb. i have the 16 gb. it still doesn't hold all of my music. but pictures and applications don't take up that much room at all.
WiFi is free, but you have to find a place that offers free wifi. if you want to get internet on your ipod at home, you need to buy a receptor thingy. i'm not sure what its called, my brother hooked it up. i believe that mcdonalds and taco bell have wifi. i'm not sure where else there is free wifi. the itouch just comes with some standard stuff like a calendar and notes and stuff like that. if you have wifi you can get on the app store. and they have free applications you can download. it only takes a minute or two. you can download a lot for free. you can also buy some apps through itunes. some free apps include: myspace. facebook. air hockey. bubblewrap. hangman. and the urban spoon.
all great apps.
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Is there a TV website, where I could watch TV shows? I kind of don't want to buy a tv, and it would be really cool if I could watch the shows i'd like to watch on line. Thank you.
this is a great idea because not only do you not have to buy a tv but you can watch your shows whenever you want and you don't have to pay for things like cable. usually you can just go to the stations website and watch whatever is on that station there. or you can go to http://hulo.com/ they usually have lots of shows and movies. or just google whatever you want to watch and you will probably find it. good luck.
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I have alot going on in my life from different angles, like school, deaths and just a bunch of stuff in all. I love listening to music and jsut sitting outside and getting absorbed into my music, its like my escape. I was wonderring if anyone could give me somne songs that kind of put you in a different world or just kind of sound... distint? to think to. I dont like rap or country but im free for almost anything else.
Im looking for stuff around the lines of:
Circle -Paramore
Keep Driving -Woodale (I love this one)
I'm sorry if they're more sad than what you looking for, but i hope they help you. Music really can be emergency oxygen
Breathe by Anna Nalick
Brighter than Sunshine by Aqualung
Because by the Beatles
Everybody's gotta learn sometimes by Beck
The boy who blocked his own shot by Brand New
Hallelujah (i can't remember who originally did this song but my favorite version is by Brandi Carlile)
Easy Lucky Free by Bright Eyes
First Day of my life by Bright Eyes
Land Locked Blues by Bright Eyes
An Attempt to Tip the Scales by Bright Eyes
Poison Oak by Bright Eyes
Lover I don't have to love by Bright Eyes
It feels like home to be by Chantal Kreviazuk
Brilliant Dance by Dashboard Confessionals
The Best Deceptions by Dashboard Confessionals
The Places you have come to fear the most by Dashboard Confessionals
Passenger Seat by Death Cab for Cutie
Tiny Vessels by Death Cab for Cutie
Summer Skin by Death Cab for Cutie
Someday you will be loved by Death Cab for Cutie
Wonderful by Everclear
Santa Monica by Everclear
Autumns Monologue by From Autumn to Ashes
Good Riddance by Green Day
In Fact by Gregory and the Hawk
The Bolder Thing to do by Gregory and the Hawk
Somewhere over the rainbow by Israel Kamakawiwo Ole
Deep Water by Jewel
Whats Simple is True by Jewel
Innocence Maintained by Jewel
Something by the Beatles or by Jim Sturgess
Hear you me by Jimmy Eat World
Birds by Kate Nash
I like Giants by Kimya Dawson
Its in your blood by Lydia
Breathe by Michelle Branch
Falling Down by Muse
My Skin Natalie Merchant
Scars by Papa Roach
My Heart by Paramore
Oh Star by Paramore
When it Rains by Paramore
Hallelujah by Paramore
Where is my mind by the Pixies
Hey there Delilah by the Plain White Tees
Hate by the Plain White Tees
Nothing Better by the Postal Service
Sleeping in by the Postal Service
The first cut is the deepest (i prefer the version by sheryl crow, rather than the one by rod stewart)
I love you by Sarah Mclachlan
Sad Sad world by Sheryl Crow
Chasing Cars by Snow Patrol
Another Word for Desperate by Straylight Run
Lonely Day by System of a Down
Never Quite Discussed by Terra Naomi
Let it Bleed by the Used
Yesterdays Feelings by the Used
Hard to Say by the Used
The Angel and the One by Weezer
Paris by Yael Naim
lol well that took forever, but at least i have a new itunes playlist. i'm calling it calm
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how long should you let your curling iron stay on before you use it? like 10 minutes b4 using it?
also what brand do you use?
you probably only need a to turn it on for a few minutes before using. be very careful not to burn yourself! lol. it might actually say on the instructions how long it takes to heat up. I think we have a conair curling iron, and it works really well. good luck!
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I have a really bad cold with a sore throat and nasal congestion. At first it was just a runny nose but now it's two days later and there are more symptoms. I am trying to avoid taking medications (unless, of course, I see a doctor and they are prescribed). I asked my neighbors if they knew any cures for a cold but they were clueless.
Could anyone supply with me common cold home remedies? Any home remedies for the common cold would be great! I need something that will help me get rid of my cold without medication.
make sure you drink plenty of fluids. lots of water, sprite, and chicken soup. thats what i've been doing. i've also been taking Tylenol cold though and i have to say. its like a miracle drug. but it also makes you kindof drowsy. not like horribly or anything but just tired and stuff. hope you feel better!
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Well, I usually don't like to complain, but maybe someone wants to listen and possibly help. I'm 16 and I'm just going through a semi depressive state at the moment. I feel moderately insecure; it's like I always have to prove myself to myself, because I want to be someone but I have no idea who I am supposed to be. I always hear that one has to "be themselves" but being myself has gotten me into this strange state in my adolescence and if I don't do something different, how will I ever leave this state? And because I constantly want to change something about myself, I kind of feel like a poser/wannabe type person. I'm not sure if others see me this way though because mostly I stay out of people's way. I'm pretty friendly actually. My best friend is a great person, but she is a bit disconnected from my struggle. She has a lot on her own plate to deal with. Other than her, my only other friends attend a different school. I see them every so often, but they all have their own lives and over the years, we've developed different interests, ideas, and points of views.
Still, I yearning for someone to rescue me from this monotonous way of life that I've developed. So, at the start of this school year I decided I should go on a hunt for a crush because he might make life fun again. Well I found him and all, and we were getting along great, but then I blew it due to my awkwardness/insecurities. I pretty much scared him away. I'd be scared of me too. Now I like this new guy, but am deathly scared to interact with him for fear of scaring him as I did with the previous dude. But we have a lot in common, me and this guy, and I know that if we just talked normally, he'd possibly want to be my friend. He definitely knows who I am and all, but I refuse to be the one to start talking first.
I do have good intentions and am extremely intelligent(sorry if I'm boasting here) but I am not too good at making connections with people. I do love people though! And I love life and even death. But, aghhh who can I connect with? My brother and I can go on all night discussing theories of the universe and existence, but I want someone my own age. Maybe I'm just selfish and I need to get a life, but is it too much to ask for? No one that I know really knows how I'm feeling because I don't like to annoy people with my petty problems, but I wish I had someone to talk to, instead of spending my weekends in my room comparing my life to Radiohead songs all day. Can someone, especially the adults, shed some words of wisdom or something, ANYTHING, that might help?! Thanks guys :)
HEY I HOPE YOU READ THIS. BUT STUPID ADVICENATORS DOESN'T TELL YOU WHEN SOMEONE EDITS AN ANSWER.. ANYWAY. IT WONT LET ME MESSAGE YOU BACK ON MYSPACE BECAUSE I'M NOT YOUR FRIEND. SO IF YOU CAN ADD ME :D THEN MAYBE I COULD MESSAGE YOU BACK
take a deep breath. trying to be yourself, doesn't mean that you can't change yourself. many times. we don't really know who we are. I'm easily lost in what i want to become. but once you find out what it is that you want to be like, act like, think like. you have to go for it. you do not want to copy other people, but you can see something that you like about them and incorporate it into the person you want to become. i think if you listen to this song you might be inspired by what it has to say::http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfq_A8nXMsQ
anyway. it inspires me. and obviously whoever made it. you shouldn't let other people tell you to be a certain way. but i can tell there are things about yourself that you don't like. change them. you have the power over your own life. you can change them. your family doesn't understand your beliefs, and it doesn't sound like they respect them very much. maybe they will when you get a little bit older. its important to keep an open mind here though, because you cannot know what they are thinking, going through, etc. you can go to a religious meeting, or church, even if you don't believe everything they have to say. i go to church and i don't believe everything, i do take some pieces of the religion and incorporate them into my own beliefs. you believe whatever you think is right. its not the end of the rainbow for you. life goes on. and so does the fun. as for the social stuff. i'm not the best at it, but i'm getting better. my brother is an inspiration to me. you don't have to agree with your friends on everything. you can compromise, you can not talk about things you don't agree on such as politics. and you can still have fun. my brother actually goes up to people he and says "hey we're friends on myspace, we should be friends in real life" when he told me that he says that i thought woah. if you can do that. i can make a friend at school. (myspace might be another good way to connect to people you don't know well) its inspiring to me. anyway. its hard. i won't deny that at all. you just have to do your best to put yourself out there and hope people will get you. not everyone will. but who cares. you don't need there approval to be you. you don't need there negativity either. so what if they think your weird. its their problem. good luck with everything. thats all the wisdom i can think of for now lol. god bless
if you want to talk more, messege me on myspace:myspace.com/xxxxxxxxxlostxxxxxxxxx or email me:lostinmyundefinedsoul@yahoo.com
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does anyone have a list of movies that have the song surrender by cheap trick, somewhere in the movie
thanks
i'm not sure if this is all of the movies. probably not, but i tried.
Up the Academy, Over the Edge, Small Soldiers, Daddy Day Care, Fantastic Four, Employee of the Month, and Detroit Rock City.
sorry if you wanted more :/
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I am getting married and I would love to start to looking for my ideal wedding dress. I want something with a long train, very sequenced, and just extravegent. Nothing funky, preferrably as little of color as possible.
Please help me with my search as to find a good website.
Congratulations!
i guess your looking for a traditional looking wedding dress then.
you could try
http://www.davidsbridal.com/index.jsp
or
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/wedding_dresses/landing/
or you can just google traditional wedding dresses,
good luck!
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