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"Give me Head"
18/f
still a virgin
so my boy wants me to give him head. i've never really done anything like this before, and when i'm on my period i want to be able to do something for him you know? well the thing is i am nervous, obviously. i don't want to embarass myself by being horrible at it. he has only been with one other girl, and i know she did everything with him which worries me because what if i'm not as good as she was? some questions i have are:
1. is it really as awkward and disgusting as it may seem? i think the penis is actually pretty gross, but i am very attracted to my boy, he turns me on like no other.
2. i don't want to swallow, i actually don't really want that in my mouth at all, but i also don't want it getting all over the place
3. is there anything i should for sure do or NOT do?
4. i heard from somewhere that you use a condom when you give someone head, but that doesn't seem right?
well i know sometimes you can't really go into depth on here, so if you can't answer any of these questions i would appreciate if you could e-mail me or something (i'll give you my e-mail in feedback) if it's not too much trouble. thank you very much and happy thanksgiving :)
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Dont be nervous. Relax and be confident and you will be fine.
1. I dont believe in the "if you love each other its not akward" concept. I think that if its your first time its totally natural to feel alittle akward because your unsure of what your doing. Like I said just relax. And no, in my opinion its not as gross as you would think.
2.If you dont want to swallow have a cup or tissue handy to spit in.
3. Cant answer.
4. Condoms are really only neccessary if your out hooking up w/ random ppl that you dont really know. In your case its not really neccessary.
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lizLOVE is right .
If you really love him , then it shouldn't be weird & awkward . If its something that you don't want to do tho , then if he really cares he will understand .
Its not the best in the world i hear , but its just to please him you know? If you don't want to swallow , then spit it in a cup or have a towel . & using a condom is just not right , lol . i think that takes away from the concept . but if you want to do that just so you can get used to it , then do so .
xoxo .
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To the 1st question the answer is if you love him then it isn't that akward.
2.If you don't wanna swallow then your going to have to get every where.
3.No just do what you want or feel is right.
4. You don't use a condom when giving head you only use one if you want to with sex.
5. this is the one were your scared you won't be as good as his other girlfriend, well honey if he thinks she is better then yall shouldn't be together, well it isn't all about sex but what i'm saying is this is your first time and tell him that and if he says well my ex was better then walk away and say its over.
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first off. you probably don't want to hear this but really if you don't want to do it you REALLY don't have to. if he can't respect it. he's the wrong guy. it seems more like you want to want it. anyway. i didn't seem thrilled at doing this either. but now i actually like it. anyway. it is true you are supposed to use a condom, because you can get sexually transmitted diseases from him. unless he has been checked for stds i would definitely use a condom. you don't want people to think your a slut because you have herpes on your face. anyway. i think the penis is gross too. but like you said. my bf turns me on like crazy. turning the lights off is good. who wants to look at it. also. i don't like him to watch me do it. that is super awkward. it freaks me out. most of the time i just like go under the covers, but something that also heightens the other senses is blindfolding him. my boyfriend went crazy when i did this. anyway. if you find out you don't like doing it you CAN stop. the first time i did it my bf didn't even finish. i never swallow. i think that i would probably gag. you don't have to swallow. it usually just goes onto his stomach because hes lying down. he might like it if you lick it off of him... do not use a lot of teeth if you do at all. i don't think they like teeth.. kiss and suck at his neck. nibble his ears. whatever usually turns him on. trust me youll find out. talk to him. lets not forget the most important part of the relationship is communication. it might seem weird to talk about that kind of stuff at first but its really not after awhile. if you google how to do it, youll get tons of tips. and yes they do help. you don't really have to deep throat to make it feel good. just do other things. circles lick etc. just google it. :D good luck haha.
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