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Confused about some things...
Okay here it goes. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. I really care about him a lot so the issue is this... He's not a virgin and I am. I just feel that he'll end up dumping me because I want to take it really slow. It's not that I'm waiting for marriage, I just want my first time to be with someone that can say I love you and actually mean it. Can you all give me advice on how to explain that to him without him getting the idea that I don't like him or something?
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That's very important and if you aren't comfortable with doing that then he shouldn't be the one to push you. The best advice i have for you is to stand your ground and only do it if you really really love him. Your first time is something extremely special and you'll want it to be with someone that deserves you and all you have to offer.
You really shouldn't have to explain to him, but I understand that you need to explain... i just dont know how..opps. :
my baddd..
I wish you good luck darling.
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you shouldnt have to explain to him all you should have to say is that your not ready and he should understand but anyways just tell him your just not looking for that type of relationship and that your not ready for it and you need more time and he should be able to understand if he really loves you and wont break up with you over sex.
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