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Okay! :) My Name is Londyn! Im 14 years old and my best freind ever showed me this website. If you havent already guessed she is the one in the picture with me. I posted a question because I know that the picture is small and bad of me. but its the only one thats not too big. Oh and the crazy one with the hat is me!

Okay basic facs about me is im short! lol and the reason why my bffl alexa showed me this site is because we both enjoy giving advice! and I give her advice all the time! I have a passion for helping people and hope to persue this as a career!

So ask me questions! I love to answer them! Ive only been on this site for 2 days and have answered over more than 40! thats how much i love and care!

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My cat has scabs, or really weird things on the back of her head.
What is causing this?
How can I help?
Is it hurting her?

Honestly your first question I cant answer.
Your second one i can. Take her to the veternarian!!!
It might be hurting her but you can't really tell unless she reats when you touch it or if you tell your parents! or like I said the Vet!!!

I'm sorry I didnt really help. I tried! But I thought I could but I guess I cant. :)


~Londyn~

f/14 :)

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ok, one of my best friends is turning 16 the 28th. i want to get her a gift, but im somewhat broke i have only 2 bucks. me and her have colorguard that day and i want something i can give her there that she wont have to worry about losing or how to get it home(her mom has a SUPER small car). any advice?? o and im 15/f

Well I am a girl and I am only 14. But I did go to my bff sweet 16! It was awesome! Any ways what i got her was jewelry! I mean its small and she wont loose it! You honestly can not go wrong with jewelry. I always get my freinds bff necklaces! They Love them and she could wear it all the time and you get one 2! It's Perfect! Well thats my davice. Message me what you decide what to do!

~Londyn~






















Glad I helped
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anymore questions I will be happy to answer!

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okay so you guys know the song by medic droid, i forgot what it was called.
but at the beginning it talks about jeffree star but just at the very beginning
and it goes JKJKJK LOLOLOL i heart your effing makeup oh my god i love your hair

i could look it up in a second
but where do you get it? i dont go on limewire and the song wasnt on itunes
and i dont want to be illegal so yehhh :D

Its theawesome song called Fer Shure by Medic Droid!

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My girlfriend ask me a question like this

" Baby you know that i love being in love with you but sometimes i get a little nervous that one day you'll fall out of love with me so just be honest with me and tell me something."

How can i keep your attention and interest?

Then she imply's " You say you will always
love me but what will keep you in love with
me? So tell me and i'll leason.

We've been together for seven years now. Don't
get me wrong we've had our up's and down's when
didn't see each other for a year. Doing the
years of break up's and makes up's she dated
another guy while i was single.

I just want to knoe what would make her ask
this question wheni tell here almost everday that i love her.

Okay I feel i can answer this question. I am the same way with my boy freind of only one year. He swears he loves me and I am head over heels in love with him. But I ask my boy freind that too because there are soo many other girls he could have it is just unbeleivable he wants me. I think it's the same with her. I think honestly she might have had a broken heart before and all she wants is reasurance that you won't brake it too.
I'm about to tell you my age but please dont think of my advice as trash when I tell you how young I am.

Im 14 years old. But I have a passion for helping and giving advice. I hope to perssue my dream to do this for a living when I get older. So please tell me how I can improve on my advice. thank you.

and i hope I helped! Let me know. :)

~Londyn~

P.s. OH I HAD AN EXTREMELY LONG AND BTER ANSWER BUT WHEN I WAS PUTTIN ON THE ~ I PRESSED ESCAPE AND ERASED EVERYTHING! SO I DIDNT WRITE ANYTHING LATER. BUT THEN I REALIZED I THOUGHT I COULD HONESTLY ANSWER YOUR QUESTION SO I WENT BACK AND WROTE THE THING OVER AGAIN. OKAY NOW IM DONE! :)

Oh and Im soryy i just realized I had caps lock on! I'm sorry. :)

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Hello. My best friend is looking for a phone that works with AT&T. She wants a phone with a FULL keyboard, either that flips open or slides out. Not a Blackberry, Blackjack, etc.

Thanks =]

Oh that is awesome! me too! im getting a new one on saturday! Okay I was looking for a perfect phone! actually I found 2 the perfect one for your freind i think is called slik but it is 350 dollars! Thats alot of money to me! but I am getting a phone called the palm centro! its amazing! it has a full out keyboard. it Also has (the best feaure i want!) a ouch screen! also how i found this phone was my freind and also on the internet! i suggest she look on AT&T website. i guarentee she will find the phone she is looking for.

let me know what she gets!

~Londyn~




no problem :)

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ok so here's the deal... i like this guy in my grade and i see him everyday. I really like him and i don't even know him! i don't know if hes nice i don't know if he has a girlfriend and heck! i don't even know his last name... two qustions...

1.) is it bad to like somebody u have never met?

2.) What should i do?

Haha okay so I was the same way with two guys in my grade. The first one was a major hottie! lol his name was ryan. every girl liked him he was the hottest guy at my school. so anyways then i got to know him and he was a conceded jerk! But i had sucess in the other guy! okay then after ryan i saw his best freind dayne! he was soooo cute! And I got to know him and found out he thought i was cute too! we went out for a year! basically my advide is introduce yourself and find out how he truely is.

let me know if I helped!

~Londyn~

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I'm 15. I hate being around my family because they always make me feel like I'm not good enough, I do everything wrong and all they do is yell at me. I live with my Dad and my step-mom. I have for 4 years sience step-dad started getting way too abusive. I don't know what to do. I am on anti-depressents and they were working for awhile but now thath the stress at home started getting worse and so did the yelling, all I do is cry. Please help?

Okay first off i need to tell you that this is very serious. You honestly need to tell someone.

but I know what you have been through 2 years ago when I was 12 i went through deep depresion. i almst committed suicide. but i got help i told my familly and freinds and i got involved at my church and 7 months later i was a happy teenager. what i recomend is to get involved with school. i always try to avoid my house because of my familly too. so I stay at my freinds house and i try to get out of the house as much as posssible. i recomend you do that and tell someone. and you can talk to me anytime. im here for you.

even though Im only 14 i was adopted and i went through what your going through. I mean it was sooo bad i had to go to therapy at 12 years old! but yeah i am always on if you ever want to talk about it. I can even tell you some stories if you want me to.

~Londyn~

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no..but you could email me one i guess

try go4zgold@hotmail.com

okay i will try let me know if you get it

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I met a guy at the beginning of the summer and we've been spending a lot of time together... almost every day. I'm a virgin but I'm ready to have sex (save the sex speeches please, im 17 and i can make my own decisions) and I really want to with him.... i like him a lot and he likes me a lot. The other night we were getting pretty close... and he said "its up to you". After hearing him say this and knowing that it could really happen made me think... and kind of nervous. He's leaving in less than a month and he goes to school thousands of miles away. There's a chance I may never see him again... and if i did it wouldn't be for, like, a year. It makes me sad to think he's leaving and we can't be anything more than we are... and I'm wondering if sex would just make me even more emotional about it. Can I hear your thoughts and/or stories? Thanks!

it seems to me like you already know what you waant to do. i think u shouldnt. which is the obvious answer but honestly your not really gonna listen to me just do what your heart tells you to

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my legs are so dry and when i put lotion on them it hurts, is this normal? how do i make it so it wont hurt ? any advice? thanks

umm well i don't know much about this subject but i figured since no one helped you yet i would ok. so yes this has happened to me one before. but it was because of the lotion. if you are putting on a fragrance lotion that is the problem. dont i repeat dont! what i used and my legs were healthy the next day. i used curel.

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hes 2o im 18 nd we love to laugh lol any gift ideas?

no problem thank you for listening! if you need anything else im here!

~Londyn~

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I am a Christian and last night it occured to me that God may not hear me, as I pray 'in my head' rather than out loud. Is my theory correct?

Good question but no. God can hear your thoughts and prayers no matter how you express them. I used to have the same question but then i got farther in my walk with god and i realized that i was wrong. so feeel free to pray when ever and how ever god and jesus always hear them. :)

hope i helped if u have anymore questions i'm all ears. :)

~Londyn~

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i am sick of girls acting like i want to hang out with them or going to say something to them when i really dont even say hi to people. its kind of like embarrassing. why should they act that way i wasnt doing anything. to make it clear this is how i see it. i go out and a girl near by would be like all of the sudden have an impression on her face like no i am not hanging out with her. so can anyone tell me what i can do about this.

Ahh we all have these girls on the street or next dor. there is nothing you can really do about it. I answered this question because i know what your dealing with. i went through this in middle school. even though its only my first year of high school i will tell you my story.

Okay, so i would walk down the hallway and there would be this one girl named taylor and she would just glare at me as i walked. what i did which i am not at all recomending, is I went up to her and I confronted her about it. But she said that she was sorry and didn't even realize she was doing it. So basically it was all just a missunderstanding.

If you do want to comfront her then I recomend being very polite and just say. "ummm i noticed every time i walk by you you stare at me. i was just wondering why?"

but if you dont even want to talk to them then i recomend doing what i did with this girl named alex. what i did was I just ignored her. i mean if someone bugs you that much ignore them you have plenty of other people who wont act that way.

hope i helped!

~Londyn~









Ps. they might just be jealous because your pretty. you never know unless you ask.

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my boyfriend and i have been together for alomost a month im going to meet his sister at sushi im nervous and i dont know what i can talk to her about help!

Awe girlie dont be nervous! It's cool. Ok my tips are to

1. be yourself and you can talk about anything!

2. talk about life, her brother, yourself and her.

3. And most importantly make a good impression.

4. Also i suggest asking her about her life. people like it when you ask and truely care about them.

i hope i helped you in your time of need! :)

let me know!

signed
~Londyn~

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1. Stop answering questions like a 10 year old.
We know you can spell because you do fine when asking questions. You will be banned if this
incorrect spelling continues. You are not writing
a text message here. It makes the site look bad.

2. Give good answers. Short sentences and just making a comment doesn't cut it. If you don't know enough about a subject being asked about, skip the question all together. Anything else is just a waste
of space.

No need to answer this. Just read and delete and it will not show up on your column.

what? i thought as much help you could give was the best! thats what i would want! as much help as possible!

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Hey thanks for the advice, i didn't have sex with him, it's just he's my boy and i love him and i know he loves me. He said he'd wait tell i was ready, and that when we did he'd be gental. So what should i do?? Please help

well im glad yall did nothin and ur welcome dats wat im here for. im guna give u more advise ok?

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our anniversary is coming and i dont know what i should get him or give him i dont want it too be way to big or fancy just something to show him i love him and care for him and its only been a month a buncha ideas are great!

honestly thats a really tough question. but it depends do yall like to laf? if so get him a pair of sox just 4 fun! or how old is he? it depends.

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I am a 17/f what are some good songs for a boyfriend and girlfriend?

theres alot it depends wat ur in 2

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okay. I just got back from out of town and I haven't seen my boyfriend in a while. Then when I see him he don't say nothing to me. Then the next time I see him he is not talking to me and he is talking and laughing with this girl thats trying to go out with him. Can you tell me if its a sign of cheating?


Shante'
Age:14

he may be cheating or maybe he might be trying to make you jealous think of the possitives

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photobucket link or something

but i dnt have photo bucket. do u hgave myspace?

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