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I don't even know him =/
ok so here's the deal... i like this guy in my grade and i see him everyday. I really like him and i don't even know him! i don't know if hes nice i don't know if he has a girlfriend and heck! i don't even know his last name... two qustions...
1.) is it bad to like somebody u have never met?
2.) What should i do?
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yah i do this too!
look up his name in the yearbook or address book for last name
it is not bad to like someone you've never met, but you can't be sure always if they are a good or bad person
this has happened to me twice this year..the first guy i learned from my other friend Megan that he liked her..and that he masturbates once a day..ew
the second guy i currently like..i started texting him and calling with my best friend Tina at this party but then a month later he poked me on facebook so i started talking to him there. you just never know what will happen..talk to the guy start a convo he might be kinda cool after all.
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1) no it's not bad.. the only thing is he may not really be the right guy for you because you are just basing your attraction to him on his looks. he could be a really bad, mean guy. you never know. but sometimes finding out is the fun part.
2) ask your friends if they know who he is and ask them to tell you about him :) also... you could probably look in the yearbook to figure out his last name. or you could just strike up a conversation with him (since you said you see him every day).
JOBROLOVER<33
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HAHA! We have ALL been there. Sometimes it's the 'mystery' that makes us like him more. The less you know about him, the more you can make him the man of your dreams =P. You are perfectly normal..nothing bad about what you are feeling at all. You need to strike up a conversation with him, get to know him. Pay attention to his friends, where you see him, this will help you to decide what he likes and you will have some basis for conversation. Is he in one of your classes? If so, maybe you could ask him about that. Here's the deal..let's say hypothetically speaking you NEVER talk to him, just continue to dream. You'll have the perfect guy, you've made him everything you want him to be, but his biggest flaw...he'll never be with you. Now next case scenario. You walk up to him, strike up conversation. Atleast now you've given yourself the chance with him. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't..atleast you aren't forever wondering what if. Believe me, you do not want to be in limbo forever. Gain some confidence and just go up to him. You don't have to ask him out..just small talk. Good luck hun and I hope that everything works out. Correction, I KNOW everything will work out, even if it doesn't turn out the way you wanted. It all happens for a reason! Hope I could help a little.
<3 Leslie
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From past expreience it's not bad to like someone you never met.Trust me. My boyfriend liked me before he met me and everything went fine. So it's not bad. What you should do is if you have a friend that knows him or talks to him let he/she talk to him. It will work that's exactly what happened to me.Or if you don't have a friend then just go up to him yourself and talk to him.
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Haha okay so I was the same way with two guys in my grade. The first one was a major hottie! lol his name was ryan. every girl liked him he was the hottest guy at my school. so anyways then i got to know him and he was a conceded jerk! But i had sucess in the other guy! okay then after ryan i saw his best freind dayne! he was soooo cute! And I got to know him and found out he thought i was cute too! we went out for a year! basically my advide is introduce yourself and find out how he truely is.
let me know if I helped!
~Londyn~
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Well I think you should get to know him. Ask someone who he is. And then go up to him and maybe get his email so you can find out for about him.
1.) I don't think it is wrong to like someone you have never met, but I don't think it is the best thing. You might want to find out about him. If he seems friendly, go talk to him. If someone says stay away, it might be best to stay away.
2.) I already told you what you should do, so just listen to my advice. :)
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1. It's not exactly bad to like someone that you don't know, but it can hurt you in the long run.
I keep thinking that it's not exactly like, since you don't know anything about him, I just think that you're attracted to his looks.
2. Talk to him. Get to know him. Otherwise nothing will ever progress, and you'll be sad.
If he has MySpace or Facebook, add him, and send him a short message. If he likes any movies, bands or in general, things that you do, start a conversation.
I got to know my current boyfriend by commenting him on MySpace saying ''Hey. Great to see someone who actually appreciates Dimmu Borigir (band)'' we got talking from there and voilà! :D
Don't be too forward or full on, but defenetly try to get to know him. Be careful though. He might have a girlfriend, or his eye on another girl, so if you're flirting with him, and it turns out he has a girlfriend, it might get awkward.
Good luck. Ask if you need any more help :)
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First, let me tell you, I've been through the same thing! There's been a few instances for me where I barely knew a guy, yet just from seeing him around a few times, I really felt like I liked him and wanted to get to know him. So, to answer your first question, no it's not bad to like somebody you haven't met. Physical attraction always seems to get the best of us and results in emotions you can't control and may think to be strange. However, they're perfectly normal!
My best advice to you would be to get to know the guy! If you're a bold person, I'd say walk straight up to him and introduce yourself. Tell him you've noticed him around school and wanted to introduce yourself to him. Most guys would absolutely love the bold move!
However, if you're more shy, as I am, I would suggest asking your friends if they know what kind of person he is. That way, you can know if he is a nice guy or has a girlfriend, then you can decide whether or not you still want to meet him. Your friends can even help introduce you to him.
Whichever your choice is, I wish you the best of luck!
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It's not bad to like someone you've never met. It might be awkward for you, sure, but it's quite normal and happens all of the time.
The main thing to do now is get to know him. Linger outside the classroom or whatever and start some sort of frivolous conversation, for example, start talking about what you think of the course.
If all goes well with you initiating the mini conversations (and online things like facebook/myspace/msn can help with this), you will know him well enough to know if you actually like him or not, or be in the position to either ask him out or become more acquainted to him as a friend.
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