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well i was just wondering how like everyone says that if you don't fight or have alot of bad times then its not a real relationship? but like i really like this guy, we're not technically dating but we both really like each other and i think he's gonna ask me out soon the next time we hang out, but we don't fight at all and we have so much fun together but we've never been in a fight yet. so my question is, is that normal? does it mean our relationship won't last because its not real? i kinda want a fight to come though because i want to see if he will still stay with me but i dont wanna like pick a fight, what should i do? thankss
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Just because you don't fight, doesn't mean you don't have a real relationship going. The only reason you wouldn't have a real relationship would be because you're not dating. It makes your relationship stronger if you don't fight, because that means you trust him and he shouldn't have to worry about what you think about him when he is gone too long. I just think you should start going out. And if you fight way to much, then maybe you should break up. And don't fight. It only makes things worse.
Hope I helped
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Askme537
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I'm 15. I hate being around my family because they always make me feel like I'm not good enough, I do everything wrong and all they do is yell at me. I live with my Dad and my step-mom. I have for 4 years sience step-dad started getting way too abusive. I don't know what to do. I am on anti-depressents and they were working for awhile but now thath the stress at home started getting worse and so did the yelling, all I do is cry. Please help? (link)
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You really need to tell someone about your situation. This isn't any joke, and when this happens, it can lead to suicide. The truth is, you are good enough. They just don't see it. You could get involved in after school activities, but thats also running away from the problem. If you don't want to run, fix it by telling someone. You might be able to live with a nicer, better family member or another home with a nicer, better family. Someone out there really does love you and you need to tell someone to get the love. You are good enough and you do matter. You might want to also try to sit down and talk to them. They mioght understand where you are coming from, if you tell them. It this doesn't work, promise yourself and me that you will think of yourself as a better person and that you do matter. And also promise yourself and I, that if the situation doesn't get any better, you will tell someone you trust, like a teacher. I know you might me scared to at first, and thats alright. It's not your fault and you will be doing the right thing by telling someone you trust.
Hope I helped,
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Askme537
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okay so im 14. but my parents wont give me any money. so i cant go to the mall or the movies or anything. it tottally sux! so i was wondering if anyone has ideas for a 14 year old girl to earn money! :) thanx 4 even reading this! but please answer. (link)
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Well I had the same problem, so I made a deal with my parents that I would get 10 dollars a week for helping around the house. I do dishes and clean the kitchen and keep my room clean.
I also babysit for 8 dollars an hour, and that usually makes some good money.
Hope I helped,
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Askme537
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ok so here's the deal... i like this guy in my grade and i see him everyday. I really like him and i don't even know him! i don't know if hes nice i don't know if he has a girlfriend and heck! i don't even know his last name... two qustions...
1.) is it bad to like somebody u have never met?
2.) What should i do? (link)
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Well I think you should get to know him. Ask someone who he is. And then go up to him and maybe get his email so you can find out for about him.
1.) I don't think it is wrong to like someone you have never met, but I don't think it is the best thing. You might want to find out about him. If he seems friendly, go talk to him. If someone says stay away, it might be best to stay away.
2.) I already told you what you should do, so just listen to my advice. :)
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