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Love
My girlfriend ask me a question like this
" Baby you know that i love being in love with you but sometimes i get a little nervous that one day you'll fall out of love with me so just be honest with me and tell me something."
How can i keep your attention and interest?
Then she imply's " You say you will always
love me but what will keep you in love with
me? So tell me and i'll leason.
We've been together for seven years now. Don't
get me wrong we've had our up's and down's when
didn't see each other for a year. Doing the
years of break up's and makes up's she dated
another guy while i was single.
I just want to knoe what would make her ask
this question wheni tell here almost everday that i love her.
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she knows you love her, but she is scared of losing you. its COMPLETELY normal. tell her this: sweetie, (or whatever word you choose) all you have to do is be you. i'll always love you no matter what.
ONLY SAY IT IF YOU MEAN IT but i know that if my boyfriend said that to me i would smile to ear to ear.
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You seem to be a great person and I can tell that you truly love her. Girls often need to be reminded of these things. I've only been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I still worry that he will get "tired of me" or bored with the relationship. As said below, try and think of things that you can do to show her you love her. Maybe you could do something that she LOVES to do, but you dont care that much for. You know what I'm saying? Something that she knows you wouldn't just go out and do. Also bye her cards for no reason. It doesnt have to be b-day or anniversary..get her a 'just because' card. And DON'T just sign your name to it lol..write something in it. Girls just need simple reassurance, that's all. Plus, you say that you all have been through atleast one break up. Maybe she is just stuck on that thought, wondering if it will happen again. Have you ever thought of a coupon book? You can make them at home. Things like "Wash the dishes" "Give a Massage" "Watch your favorite chick flic", etc. This way she can use them as she chooses. Good luck and I hope that I've been of atleast a little help. You all have been together for 7 years and I can tell just from this post that there are many more to come!!! I wish you BOTH the best!!!
<3 Leslie
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Okay I feel i can answer this question. I am the same way with my boy freind of only one year. He swears he loves me and I am head over heels in love with him. But I ask my boy freind that too because there are soo many other girls he could have it is just unbeleivable he wants me. I think it's the same with her. I think honestly she might have had a broken heart before and all she wants is reasurance that you won't brake it too.
I'm about to tell you my age but please dont think of my advice as trash when I tell you how young I am.
Im 14 years old. But I have a passion for helping and giving advice. I hope to perssue my dream to do this for a living when I get older. So please tell me how I can improve on my advice. thank you.
and i hope I helped! Let me know. :)
~Londyn~
P.s. OH I HAD AN EXTREMELY LONG AND BTER ANSWER BUT WHEN I WAS PUTTIN ON THE ~ I PRESSED ESCAPE AND ERASED EVERYTHING! SO I DIDNT WRITE ANYTHING LATER. BUT THEN I REALIZED I THOUGHT I COULD HONESTLY ANSWER YOUR QUESTION SO I WENT BACK AND WROTE THE THING OVER AGAIN. OKAY NOW IM DONE! :)
Oh and Im soryy i just realized I had caps lock on! I'm sorry. :)
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i agree, most of us girls do that.. because its such a streotype that a guy will cheat, that guys get bored of commitment. so, she'd rather know HOW to keep you interested and in love, because she doesnt want to lose you. just let her know, and make sure you're always honest with her. most of us, if not some of us, would rather know the truth, than be kept in the dark and then find out way later.
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Thats what girls do. We can't help it, it just happens. Atleast she wants to keep your interest. My friend Olivias been off and on dating the same guy for like 5 years Steven and he's like IN LOVE with her but she's always dating someone new. She's been the same person for so long... she doesn't care what Steven thinks about her.
I donno we like to be reassured that were loved. It's just like being called pretty we REALLY like it =D
Hope I Helped.
Katie.<3
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In today's world, the phrase "I love you" seems to be thrown around a lot, whether it's with couples who have only just gotten together, or with people who have only just recently discovered a real relationship.
So, it's not hard to see why your girlfriend may feel still somewhat uneasy when you say these words to her (even if you truly mean it, which you seem to!).
My advice would be to think up creative ways to really PROVE your love for her, other than just to explain your feelings in words. Think of her favorite things to do, or maybe a place you two had a first date.
Hopefully through these actions, she will see how much you do love her, and will appreciate you telling her so even more.
Let me just say though, keeping a relationship for seven years is not always an easy thing to do, so whatever you have been doing, you must be doing something right!
Good luck!
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Girls are just like this. They need to be reminded that you love them constantly. It sounds like she loves you so much that she is afraid to loose you. And I can't blame her. I would feel this way also. Assure her that you truly love her, and she doesn't need to worry about you "falling out of love with her." She will understand and stop saying things like that (:
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